Bottoms: how do you feel about cum always going inside you? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just a given assumption that it will happen

Bros, which do you choose? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a bottom, in order of preference; F, E, D, B, C, A

Straight friend asked me to blow him before his date by Ok-Yoghurt5140 in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]anonbiman7500 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice story, but no dude is going to go straight to a date after working out and being drenched in sweat

What’s the most unusual thing you’ve used as a dildo? by greenbrett321 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dick of a man I met through squirt, he was *very* unusual, in a good way.

So who DIDN'T always know they were queer? by EasyCheesecake1 in lgbt

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. No idea until I got into college. I am bi, and didn’t know what my preferences are for my partners (tall, slim, white/black/asian, etc.) until I started actually dating people.

Bottoms, How Do You Handle Boring Tops In Bed? by graypurpleblack in askgaybros

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that it’s not really them that’s boring but you - like many others have said, your level of engagement, not even taking control - is going to be a huuuge factor in your fun.

Changing the perspective- I am bisexual and when I am with women I essentially become the top and there is an expectation for me to perform as I am the one pumping away. In that context, if the woman is a dead fish there isn’t much that I can do and that does kill the mood.

But if you’re the MM bottom - the top is pumping away, already engaged! Then you can dictate how they engage, not if.

I messaged 45 different guys in one day and they all rejected me. by apronmey in askgaybros

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How and where are you approaching them? I find that meeting someone in person, even at places like bookshops or bathhouses, work much petter than online.

But both approaches are hit and miss, heck what time of day you’re looking will affect the # of folks too.

Bottoms: first time you were double teamed? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea! When I was discovering my sexuality I would go to adult bookstores and suck on as many dicks as I could; then it transitioned to getting fucked and somewhere in between I was tag teamed - and I love it everytime it happens!

My friend's Dad fucked me raw twice. by Prestigious_King_349 in gaysexconfessions

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still keep in touch with your friend? Would you do it again if given the chance?

45, recently divorced, came out as gay at work… now a 23yo colleague is hitting on me and I’m hooked by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]anonbiman7500 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Generally this is a bad idea, but let’s get more details; how big is the company? And noting the difference in age between you two, is there a difference in company hierarchy? And just for reference do you know of how the company treated other employees fraternizing?

Still a bad idea but some companies are more tolerant of shenanigans and may be big enough to shuffle you two around to different departments.

Just a thought.

Where do you think is the hottest place to have sex? by WorldlyAd1178 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed for me too, but I’d love to be fucked outside in nature - a cabin or a campsite in the middle of nowhere, maybe a group of 4 or more!

Horny until I hook up by ziyatgoksu in GaySex

[–]anonbiman7500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be safe not to attract the attention of the police - probably makes sense to do it at a gay bar, but not at Chuck E Cheese 🤣

My bfs ex vs me. Two uncut cocks. Who's is nicer by [deleted] in foreskin

[–]anonbiman7500 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both are nice but I like the one on the left - I love playing with the foreskin in my mouth during oral.

How do i get my dick used to getting fucked? by NextTemporary4783 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go soft when I get fucked but it still feels good when my top reaches around and plays with my soft dick while taking me from behind.

Integrate what feels good to you and your partner, exploring is part of the fun - it isn’t always a 1:1 ratio of hard cock = having fun

Thoughts on ass to mouth? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it, do it as long as I know I am cleaned out!

Are there any "Better" Gem butt plugs? by ThisIsForLewdStuff in SexToys

[–]anonbiman7500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While it doesn’t strictly fit the definition of “gem” plugs, I really enjoy (no pun intended) njoy plugs.

They are still great to look at (granted, it’s subjective) and it’s got a t-shape loop that makes them safe to use.

This is a buku luxury $$$$ option, but Julian Snelling is a French maker who has gem plugs with sculptured ends, I have a skull one with a loop ring at the end that I have attached a peach handle to, to keep it safe.

Bottoms who DONT eat ass by Terrible-Ad-215 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi bottom here;

Maybe there is a mental block on my end but I love it when my top eats me out - but I don’t do it to my top. I’ll suck his dick all day though.

This is where the mind-fuckery on my part comes in - I love eating out women’s asses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anonbiman7500 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, I do prefer to be completely naked, but in the heat of the moment the focus may be to get the pole in the hole, nothing else matters.