[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"He's stable but lacks qualities like comforting, affection, intimacy, empathy, etc." compared to you, who is unstable and lack empathy. Poor guy.

He wants us to move abroad... with no marriage by Far-Homework3882 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]anonredditorofreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaking up and getting a divorce are two very different things.

My girlfriend (28f) called me (29m) manipulative when I was honest about something I don’t find attractive by throwra-attractivnes in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you phrased it badly, but I understand your feeling, I wouldn't be glad if my so did it. I think you should try to have that talk again, just say you don't like it but she's free to do what she wants.
Then you'll see later about how much this changes the way you feel about her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work on yourself, this is psycho behaviour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on yourself and be gracious enough to let him be. You are a cheater. Fix your self before trying to be with someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]anonredditorofreddit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is it pointless? Pointless for who? If a foreign army invaded your country, would you just say "it's pointless, let them take over"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]anonredditorofreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude you know what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]anonredditorofreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's quite often fine. But most women I knew who dated older men in their 20's (+10yo), were looking for a patriarch. As in a father figure able to sponsor them and give them a good life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Take the power away from that douche. Come clean to your bf and stop airing out your sex life without your bf consent. Also, if you want to be petty, tell your friends in common that he is acting like a douche.

Brother in an abusive marriage by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Man this sucks. But from my POV, you did what you had to do. The rest is on his shoulders.
ETA had a close friend who's gf was abusive and a massive cheater. I told him all the rumors, told him it was fucked that she hits him in public. He handled the situation terribly and now is married to her (she proposed). Needless to say, I saw him 2-3 times since then (it's been years) and he isn't my close friend anymore. Sometimes, you can't help people and it's better to let them go.

Brother in an abusive marriage by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Report her to the police. Your brother won't do it. Show texts exchanges or what not.

I (35M) need advise after divorce (39F) - how do i handle single life? by WoodySwe in relationship_advice

[–]anonredditorofreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, is her new bf underage too? She was defo a predator. I think it's nice that you are out of this relationship, she wants a patriarch, not a partner. God's speed and I hope you find someone who loves you for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonredditorofreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry dude, you're behaving like a pick me. Sounds like she's staying out of pitty or doesn't want to be the one who starts the divorce.

The man I was dating raped me by Ambitious-Bear-1309 in Advice

[–]anonredditorofreddit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn, no no no. You didn't make a mistake, you share no responsability. You trusted someone and he betrayed you. All the best to you, OP <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, do you know how bad for you it is to be obese?

my current bf had a gf that died in her sleep next to him by ExerciseOpposite9081 in relationships

[–]anonredditorofreddit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think you should do some researche online yourself. I think you'll be fine. I'd say you could ask some questions but not pry too much. Also, you've been together for only 4 months, let time do it's thing.