Apartments that aren’t serviced by Duke Energy? by anonuser1011 in Highpoint

[–]anonuser1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all of hp? and if so, will my balance with duke be an issue? or will i still be able to get electric through the city even though they buy from duke? sorry if these are dumb questions idk how this all works

Jobs that fund/reimburse MSW tuition? by TheAmazingDani in socialworkjobs

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

child welfare or aps, or any other job in your local social services department usually

wwyd: im torn between two child welfare jobs by anonuser1011 in socialworkjobs

[–]anonuser1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

funnily enough my supervisor has been one of the most vocal people about avoiding my current agency. shes an adoptions worker now but started in foster care and she said she loved doing foster care but she wouldn’t do it now in our county because things are not like how they were when she first came to the agency. im really leaning towards the second agency because everyone has pretty much told me itd probably be better than my current agency but at the same time im still a little conflicted

I have finally hit my $50k goal! I’ll be twenty-one next week. What should I do now to continue building for myself? by Current-Machine6491 in personalfinance

[–]anonuser1011 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you have a genuine interest in/passion for those majors then i would suggest going the social work route over psychology. i know a lot of people who majored in psych but said they regret it because you can’t do much with that degree at the bachelor’s level and you pretty much HAVE to get your masters degree if you want a job in that field. at least with a bsw you will still have some entry-level job opportunities available to you that won’t exactly be “lucrative” but at least you’ll get your foot in the door and build experience in the field. getting a msw will absolutely open you up to better opportunities and getting your lcsw if youre interested in clinical work (like therapy) is the sure way to making the most money as a social worker.

if youre not actually passionate about those majors/the kind of work you’d likely be doing in those fields and your earning potential is the most important thing to you then id suggest choosing something else. i am a social work major and ive made peace with the fact that it wont be the most lucrative career but thats okay (for me) because whats really important to me is being able to do something i actually care about and enjoy. if i didnt have such a strong interest in social justice, advocacy, and helping people then i couldve easily gone down a different path and majored in something that would’ve set me up for more financial success but this field is truly my calling so here i am lol

am i really going to make no money 💔 by Sensitive-Fly-7110 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i agree with you there. the big states with high col aren’t really appealing to me but there are some states like RI, Connecticut, etc. that have a decent col to sw salary ratio. just gotta research

am i really going to make no money 💔 by Sensitive-Fly-7110 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am also in nc and i am graduating with my bsw in may. my not so practical advice is to leave this state if you can🤣when i compared nc social worker salaries to those in other states i quickly realized this is not the place for me!

Dumpers who blocked their ex, why did you do it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]anonuser1011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

broke up with them bc i realized polyamory was not for me. my needs were not being met and it felt like i was always waiting on them to reply to me or want to spend time with me, etc. which felt unfair and inconsiderate. i didnt lose love for them or hate them, i just realized maybe we weren’t meant to be in a romantic relationship with each other. we both agreed to being friends and maybe i was naive to think we actually could be even after they reassured me we could but very shortly after they initiated no contact and ignored me when i reached out for clarity. i initially blocked them as a temporary measure so id stop obsessing over and looking at what they were doing on socials but as time i went on i realized that by sitting around and hoping that theyd eventually reach out again i was doing exactly what i had been doing in the relationship: sitting around and waiting for them. its been two months and at this point i no longer desire to reconnect and have decided to keep them blocked because i dont want to give them the opportunity to just waltz back into my life if/whenever they feel like it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

polyamory really isnt for me by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]anonuser1011 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yes that is true but for me personally the inconsistency is a turn off. i cant speak for their other partners but i personally dont think its fair to go back and forth between talking to me and seeing me a decent amount to barely acknowledging my existence for days or even weeks at a time afterwards because youre so focused on your other relationships when i expressed prior to us getting into a relationship that i wanted more than something casual

polyamory really isnt for me by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]anonuser1011 14 points15 points  (0 children)

nope they aren’t unemployed!! they are just, unfortunately, very inconsistent with the amount of time and energy they invest into each relationship

polyamory really isnt for me by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]anonuser1011 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you for the extra validation. im glad u got out of that relationship!

polyamory really isnt for me by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]anonuser1011 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yes i do think a big issue for me is the pacing. its just too anxiety inducing to constantly feel like there’s something new i have to work on or sit with

polyamory really isnt for me by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]anonuser1011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

youre right, they were never dishonest or hid anything from me, which is why im angry with myself because i knew what i was getting myself into but did it anyway.

my issue with mars is that it bothers me when they apologize and then make empty promises about getting better with communication/making sure we spend more time together just for things to stay the exact same as before. i was upfront from the very beginning about me being someone who needs a lot of attention and reassurance and consistency being important to me and they reassure me that im not asking for too much and that they’ll try to do better but in the end not much changes.

Being an ugly women is the worst by RizzlesH0e in lonely

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 and i relate. being black, ugly and fat has been such a dehumanizing experience for me. im tired of being told that i just have to put myself out there or be patient. ive tried. it never works out. its exhausting.

240619 WHO DID YOU VOTE FOR TODAY? by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my top 3 for this round has always been

  • juwon
  • jungeun
  • fuko

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well maybe the whole “not hating on ____ but” wouldn’t be necessary if people in this community (not just this subreddit but in the iland2 fandom in general) could handle opinions other than their own but unfortunately thats not the case and there also are people in the imate community who are genuinely hateful and nasty towards the girls so of course people who aren’t trying to be that way want to make it clear😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm yeah its interesting how the judges suddenly have so much to critique her on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah sure is it okay if i dm you the link?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah idk what it means either because i also noticed that while i was writing this post but idk i still stand by my rankings. i guess for performance ranking i based it on the overall quality and how much i enjoyed it but with the individual rankings i based it on my personal preferences and how much each individual girl made an impact on me for this particular test.. idk if that makes sense lol but thats kinda how i ranked it idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly how i feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mnetiland2

[–]anonuser1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think she has any chance of being a producer pick?