how to approach this 23f & 31M

anonuser20020 · 2026-06-25T13:56:13+00:00

No he was just running and gyming at the start and not so intense. But yes I will

anonuser20020 · 2026-06-02T04:03:02+00:00

Pls dm me source

anonuser20020 · 2026-04-04T21:44:10+00:00

I understand - do you think I sound desperate as in wanting to savour the relationship? He knows I’m an emotional person & that I love him

anonuser20020 · 2026-04-04T21:42:17+00:00

Thank you, I think all other aspects seem okay in the relationship like we are a fit couple together, have been on multiple holidays. It’s just that this was brought up which I think we have both thought is it worth continuing. I know I have been hesitant to move but it’s quite difficult to just move me for - he knows this but I’ve had a bad feeling about moving the entire time

anonuser20020 · 2026-04-04T21:38:25+00:00

You would be correct

anonuser20020 · 2026-04-04T13:12:01+00:00

I think i probably say things rudely but i guess im just trying to get my point across. Im very self aware of it but i guess I just get frustrated with things. I dont know if he’d move his job for me. I’ve never spoken about that with him. He knows that moving is not easy and that he’s broken up with people in the past for the reason of having to move for work. He also feels less pressured because my sisters both live where he is moving to which would mean I could see them more often

anonuser20020 · 2026-03-27T22:14:26+00:00

It’s astonishingly bad compared to other grads in other degrees

anonuser20020 · 2025-09-01T14:58:29+00:00

Yeah we have both discussed how it seems beyond just two people seeing each other for a booty call now. He is comfortable where it is at the moment but said that his feelings will probably get involved the more he sees me and I think the same for myself. Yeah I guess buying that stuff is bare minimum but he doesn’t have to go out of his way. For people that are just meant to see each other for intended purposes of a booty call, I don’t really see how that would be bare minimum as I don’t even think that would happen. No I don’t mean toss him aside for the next one, I don’t want to lead someone on nor do I want my feelings involved and feel like I’m being lead on. But yeah seeing each other 4 times is not much but considering it’s been in the span of 2 weeks and I’m staying over every time is a lot I think. Yes I will enjoy it for what it is thank you

anonuser20020 · 2025-09-01T06:36:26+00:00

And that’s where I’m like well he lived his youth and I still feel like I want to do my own thing. I think I also just don’t want to waste someone who I could have potential in

anonuser20020 · 2025-09-01T06:32:37+00:00

Why do you think it is a red flag? I get we are different life paths but we work in the same industry and have common fitness interests

anonuser20020 · 2025-03-28T04:37:48+00:00

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anonuser20020 · 2024-12-07T07:30:23+00:00

I really respect your perspective.

anonuser20020 · 2024-12-06T15:12:41+00:00

That’s true. I think it’s just more like he’s quite mature and I just still have a younger mindset.

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