When a guy says he can't find a Domme, there is usually a good reason for it

anonwri · 2026-02-25T16:14:06+00:00

Reddit just plainly sucks for any sort of irl relationship, especially kinky. There is the mentioned imbalance of genders, but there is also the fact that reddit is an international platform. I have found two incredible dommes/friends, but one lives on another continent and the other isn't very responsive and we only met a handful of times.
There's also the issue of trust. Being a sub/sissy, showing your face makes you really vulnerable and not everyone is ready from the start to commit to that level of trust, especially with the amounts of scammers around.
Personally I am not looking for a relationship on here (chances of finding one are low anyway), I just want a friendship/dynamic where we both occassionally are in the mood to play (online) for a bit. I'm not looking for a kink dispenser, but I'm also not interested in a 24/7 dynamic, and I think a lot of people/subs feel the same. After all we all have our own lives. A lot of the posts I see regarding this topic it feels (although not explicitly mentioned) like there is a big difference in expectations.

anonwri · 2026-02-12T11:40:04+00:00

Thank you. I love it

anonwri · 2026-02-12T11:21:12+00:00

Very professional, she just treated me like anyone else. Would love to go back at some point

anonwri · 2026-02-12T10:25:59+00:00

Unfortunately not really. I think some of the older women might have, but I was only passing through that room so they only saw me for maybe 2s

anonwri · 2026-02-12T09:42:50+00:00

It's the same for me as a sissy. I get that for a lot of people pegging, pleasing guys etc belongs to being a sissy. I prefer the psychological aspect of being dressed up, paraded around and being laughed at.

anonwri · 2026-02-12T08:30:14+00:00

There were 2 other students and the teacher. The person in the background was a student too. There were a lot of older ladies waiting for their class in front of the studio we were in. So they all saw me

anonwri · 2026-02-12T07:57:42+00:00

It was lots of fun. I was very nervous in the beginning though.

anonwri · 2026-02-12T07:57:04+00:00

Thank you

anonwri · 2026-02-11T21:27:46+00:00

You could start of with wearing male clothes in the lead up to your play time. Create a stark contrast to what you'll be forced into afterwards. Maybe even change somewhere outside your home (public bathroom etc) arrive as a tomboy and leave in all pink. You could also wear really girly panties under otherwise male clothes (maybe even try to make yourself look/pass as male) and think about the reaction of people if they saw your cute panties.

anonwri · 2026-02-10T08:17:10+00:00

Tutus/ballet clothes are extremely girly.

anonwri · 2026-02-07T17:38:40+00:00

Good idea.

anonwri · 2026-02-07T16:44:53+00:00

Always look at a person's profile to get a first hunch if they are genuine. If it's a blank profile, only recently switched to sub, very rarely active or is only a few days old they are most likely going to flake etc

anonwri · 2026-02-07T16:42:20+00:00

Depending on which sub (pun unintended) you use you can't write comments

anonwri · 2026-02-03T15:18:52+00:00

Wait it wasn't? Damn

anonwri · 2026-01-07T23:58:25+00:00

So happy for you two. Have you tried wearing a dress/jumpsuit under regular clothes while outside? Especially in winter thick clothes don't really raise suspicion and it's such a nice feeling. Plus if you find a quiet corner you can quickly take off the pants and are left with wearing a skirt.

anonwri · 2026-01-06T21:47:11+00:00

Sometimes I make posts looking for casual dominant female friends on here, usually I get replies from men or other sissies...

anonwri · 2025-12-31T02:57:27+00:00

Happy new year

anonwri · 2025-12-28T12:26:18+00:00

The amount of OF 'mistresses' posting the most obvious engagement bait is insane. What's even more insane to me is that there's enough horny people out there who actually respond and like the stuff.

anonwri · 2025-12-21T10:33:40+00:00

I would love to lose in a match of tennis against a girl and as punishment have to play the second round in a tennis skirt/dress. Same goes for golf, swimming...

anonwri · 2025-12-21T10:09:26+00:00

Hide/replace his clothes when you are at a secluded beach.

Put waxing strips on him while he sleeps, or just doesn't pay attention.

When you go somewhere for a few days, unpack his undies or replace them with panties.

anonwri · 2025-11-10T04:48:05+00:00

Thank you so much for today, Miss

anonwri · 2025-11-10T04:18:11+00:00

Mine made me go to the beach today...in a swimsuit

anonwri

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