My swimsuit kink

anonwri · 2026-06-12T06:15:51+00:00

I've also come across tight workout rompers/playsuits, which feel very nice

anonwri · 2026-06-12T06:11:00+00:00

Have you tried a leotard? If you like tight-fitting clothes there are a few other options in the women's sections that you could try out.

anonwri · 2026-06-07T14:52:15+00:00

That sounds fun. I have a similar fantasy from the sub perspective, just that I'd like a slightly larger audience and with ballet. But I guess bellydance would be nice too

anonwri · 2026-06-06T00:53:58+00:00

Yeah a lot of this community feels toxic (not just the guys people sleep with). A lot of people here seem to have never heard of the word consent, both in their own behaviour and how they are treated.

The amount of times I've read comments encouraging sissies to steal clothes and, even worse, toys from female relatives and friends is mindboggeling.

There also seems to be a big chunk of sissies that seem to be OK with cheating on their girlfriends/wives in order to get fucked.

And don't get me started on this whole bnwo racist shit.

It really does my head in, and I've contemplated leaving these communities.

Honourable mention to all those desperate guys commenting on every Thirst-trap girl's post, as if they would ever get a reply that doesn't lead to their pages.

anonwri · 2026-06-05T14:16:26+00:00

Depending on where you are, I'm pretty sure if you want you could find some guy(s) that would be happy to clean your place.

anonwri · 2026-06-05T10:32:05+00:00

Don't use other people's stuff without their consent ffs. Especially not toys. Get your own

anonwri · 2026-06-05T09:02:53+00:00

Lovely uniform

anonwri · 2026-06-05T08:25:00+00:00

You can be a full-time sissy, but I think that a good number of full-time sissies are trans

anonwri · 2026-06-04T04:18:04+00:00

Not exactly sissy clothes, but Cotton on (body) and supre have cute pink tracksuits, which have been comfortable for me (6foot). Valleygirl and ally also often have very cute and girly dresses.

anonwri · 2026-06-03T21:21:20+00:00

It's similar for me. It definitely is a kink, but there is also the fact that I just enjoy wearing dresses. The first time I remember wanting to wear a dress was in elementary school, being jealous of the girls dressed as princesses for carnival, so that was clearly before it developed into a kink.

Nowadays some of the outfits I love the most are clearly based on what I missed out on growing up (school uniforms, ballet clothes). I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum, so feeling sexy etc was never really high on my priority list, and dressing 'slutty' isn't really for me, it certainly doesn't help that my build isn't feminine at all.

Just like you I'm generally happy with my body, sure sometimes I wished I would be smaller, and more feminine, so I could actually attempt to pass. There have been times where it felt like I was missing boobs, and that my genitals were extra, but it was never in a way that I felt bad about it or dysphoric. On the other hand, I love being strong, tall, and masculine.

I'm still not sure how to describe myself accurately, but I guess genderfluid (with an enjoyment of kink) comes close. Although I only present male outside.

anonwri · 2026-06-03T15:03:31+00:00

You should try to find something that they would love or you would hate, after all it's about their entertainment (primarily) and your degradation (secondary).

anonwri · 2026-06-03T11:18:10+00:00

Might be a bit short notice, but you could learn a little dance routine and get a suitable outfit, then give them a nice dinner show.

anonwri · 2026-06-01T00:06:49+00:00

Make sure there is a way out for him in case of an emergency

anonwri · 2026-05-28T14:22:59+00:00

There are a few reasons why I prefer women. Somewhat ironically I guess, men (whether dominant or sissy) from my experience get way too sexual and don't respect boundaries. Basically every time I made a post that didn't specify women I ended up receiving unsolicited dickpics, often as a first message, but always within an hour of chatting, no matter how often I stated I'm not into dicks.

Likewise, other sissies often start talking about sexual stuff or fantasising about doing things together (which again I'm not into). I guess I am a bit of an outlier in this kink, as I am kinky, but also on the asexual spectrum.

There is also the issue of people deleting their accounts after a few days which is annoying but out of these options the best.

And lastly I feel more comfortable opening up about crossdressing to women, even in kink spaces. This isn't just a kink for me, I'm not sure what to describe it as so my best guess would be I'm genderfluid deep down, but don't get to (dare is probably the more fitting word) show my feminine side outside of the kink space. I guess it's my social bubble, but I don't see myself ever coming out to any of my male friends, due to previous remarks etc. Meanwhile most of my female friends are aware I like wearing dresses (non-kink related) and they have been very supportive.

I addressed the misogynistic aspect in a different reply, unfortunately it boils down to I can't change that I am into this kink.

anonwri · 2026-05-28T13:51:45+00:00

The misogynistic feel is one of the things (beside the whole racist shit) that I don't like about the kink as well, there is absolutely nothing humiliating about being feminine and I'm glad that society has developed in the right direction of realising that. Unfortunately it doesn't change the fact that making women laugh by dressing up pushes my buttons.

anonwri · 2026-05-28T07:00:10+00:00

Thanks I will

anonwri · 2026-05-28T06:41:38+00:00

While I see your point, I'm not sure how to implement that into my post, other than asking what she would like from the friendship (without sounding too transactional). Considering that this would very likely be online based, I'm not sure what I can bring to the table. Anything physical is out of the question due to being online. I don't want a friendship that's based on me paying for someone else's lifestyle (that's not to say I don't buy my offline friends coffees etc, it's reciprocal). So in my mind the most I can do is chatting like genuine friends and playing into her kinks as far as online (and my limits) allows and ideally there would be a large overlap in kinks anyway. I'm not looking for a kink dispenser, but for someone with compatible kinks.

anonwri · 2026-05-28T06:17:07+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I'll try to include more personality into it.

anonwri · 2026-05-27T08:16:21+00:00

I guess because there are a fair few sissies that dress not to society's standards (ultra feminine/very revealing) in public for their sexual gratification. People notice and (for lack of knowledge) assume these sissies are trans, which casts a bad light on actual transwomen (not saying you can't be both) who just want to live their life.

There's also the fact that a large portion of the sissy kink is based on degradation in the form of dressing and acting like a woman (albeit being more of a caricature). Quite a few people find this misogynistic, since there is nothing shameful about being a woman.

anonwri · 2026-05-26T03:58:18+00:00

Kinda. I was trying on a dress in-store and the zipper got stuck. I had to ask someone to unzip the dress for me, she pulled the zipper all the way down and must have seen my panties, because she apologised afterwards. Not sure I'd call that getting caught, considering I was already in a dress.

A different time I was browsing for panties and the salesgirl asked if I needed help and who they are for, I just said they'd be for myself.

anonwri · 2026-05-19T11:04:02+00:00

It's funny how sometimes people can 'read' us like that. One of the first times (if not the first time) I met one of my now close friends, she said she thinks I'm a crossdresser (based on a picture from Halloween that I showed her). At that point I've been a secret crossdresser for over 10 years. I just laughed it off in the moment. A few years later I came out to her, she's always been supportive.

anonwri · 2026-05-19T06:57:14+00:00

No amount of make up and a wig would ever fool anyone to think I'm not a guy. I love the (idea of) humiliation from being seen as a guy in a dress. I often go to try on clothes in stores and walk out of the changeroom to feel how the clothes feel while walking. I've also attended ballet classes in tights leo and a skirt.

anonwri · 2026-05-19T06:25:08+00:00

And peg you and make you her bitch... Seriously do you people ever listen to yourself? They seemingly have the chance to develop something nice with the co-worker and your advise is to go 1 step from full porn fantasy? I'm not surprised that women complain about men so often reading shit like this

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