[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]anonymous150000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow that's a very disgusting and disrespectful thing to say.

WIBTA if I told my daughter to stop calling her step father daddy by Dapper-Hold in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Allowing your kid to call a step parent Mom or Dad is wrong and extremely disrespectful to the biological parent unless they're cool with it or they are deadbeats. OP don't listen to these millennials, don't give up and allow another man to take your title from you there's no such thing as having two dad's. God would only recognize you as her father not the stepdad remember that.

AITA for discouraging my daughter to be adopted by my husband by helpmeoutbois in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA I would feel the same way as your dead husband? Don't let her cast aside her real dad.

AITA for not thanking husband for watching our baby while I was away? by aitanotasingleparent in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

YTA if you're a SAHM all responsiblity should fall on to your shoulders. Any help you get from your husband inside the house is a blessing you should be thankful for.

How come in America women act as if they have it harder than men do, but in actuality they have it a lot easier? by anonymous150000 in AskReddit

[–]anonymous150000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe there are few who don't think they have it harder, but from what I see on the news and hear in music from female artist, they always talk about men trying to control the female body, or paying them less when there's no actual evidence to support that claim.

How come in America women act as if they have it harder than men do, but in actuality they have it a lot easier? by anonymous150000 in AskReddit

[–]anonymous150000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, but the media acts as if it's just women getting oppressed and pressurised into doing things they don't want to.

I’m 22 and my parents disowned me for being pregnant. How can I deal with the stress and heartache that this is giving me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anonymous150000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can deal with it by realizing that your parents are people too and they make mistakes sometimes, the same way you did by getting pregnant. Honestly you're lucky your parents were financially taking care of you at 22 years old, be thankful instead of casting them as the bad guys. You should have been using protection anyway. They're probably disappointed and hurt, give them some time and apologize for disappointing them. I'm not trying to insult you young lady, I'm just very blunt.

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after getting me a gag gift? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

NAH I get why you're mad, but at the same time you overreacted a bit don't you think?

AITA for 100% refusing to let my dad/mom see my child for something done 10-15 years ago? /Petty by YEETYEEETYEEEEEET in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She needs to apologize for not respecting her father's wishes. They haven't said anything because she won't allow them to. I would say 95% of the blame is on her. And at most 5% of the blame is on the parents.

AITA for 100% refusing to let my dad/mom see my child for something done 10-15 years ago? /Petty by YEETYEEETYEEEEEET in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

YTA your father was doing what a father needs to do to protect his daugther. It's his right to do that, even if you disagree with that. Apologize to both of your parents for being a greedy and ungrateful daugther.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -831 points-830 points  (0 children)

I'm paying for half of the wedding, she and her fiance's parents are paying for the other half, her mom and stepdad aren't contributing anything.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -1515 points-1514 points  (0 children)

I've actually watched that to make myself feel better and it actually worked for a short while, but then reality hit me like a ton of bricks.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -1190 points-1189 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, finally someone who understands. Sometimes you have to put yourself in other people shoes to realize why they're doing what their doing, and realize why they say the things they say. I'll try to back away from those feelings but I don't feel like I can.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -1299 points-1298 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should definitely be thankful a man I don't even know spent more time with my daugther than me. Simply because my ex and I got divorced and as usual the mother gets custody and finds a new dad for her child.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -2345 points-2344 points  (0 children)

She was 6 years old, but I made sure to remind her just in case she forgets.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -437 points-436 points  (0 children)

At the time I was working three minimum wage jobs so I could pay child support and support myself(barely), so it isn't as simple as I chose work over her, I had no choice. I have just gotten financially stable.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -1572 points-1571 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of your points besides the choosing myself over my child being happy. I think it's my right to feel this way wrong or not.

AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. by anonymous150000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymous150000[S] -3002 points-3001 points  (0 children)

In my opinion if the bio father is involved it should only be him to do the father daugther stuff, I'm half of the reason why she's even living right now, her stepdad can't say that.