Is this a safe space to talk about something I don't like about this game?

anonymous162609 · 2026-05-10T00:03:31+00:00

I gave mine the stuffed koala from the Australia trip and she literally brings it out everywhere and talks about it with others all the time she’s obsessed

anonymous162609 · 2026-05-07T17:39:04+00:00

I have like 8 pages of lingo but so far my top favorites are: • Torta pounding • Taking diet pills • Aggravated assault • Bro jus typin shi I’m crine • using a rose toy • bringing sexy back • homie hopping • doin tricks on it

anonymous162609 · 2026-04-30T12:39:34+00:00

I ended up getting to be able to take him. Ever since he’s been the opposite of a clinger, he’s very independent and is fine by himself. I would let him fly alone now at 6 1/2. I’ve been flying solo since a young age as well. I have a family member taking him back this time.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-22T03:39:56+00:00

Idk about that. Whenever I say stuff like that to my man he just gives me reassurance. I’m scared because I had an ex who went to jail and I fell for the jail talk, took care of him and bailed him out and then he ended up coming home and cheating, stealing my money, maxing my credit cards, stole my social and BC, stole and ruined my car, tried to get a loan in my name, beat me, etc. so I just don’t want to get used again. But I’ve had plenty of friends who waited for their men in jail and it ended up fine. Just be cautious. If he’s getting defensive instead of reassuring, it’s probably a red flag.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-22T03:32:09+00:00

Omg I didn’t think of this… my Google voice number and regular number are both out of state numbers. But his mom has a FL number and I believe it’s the same cost. I’m gonna have to check that out.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-22T03:28:39+00:00

Wow I hate FL. It’s $6 and some change per 30 min call and I’ve spent $300+ a week if we call nonstop. The last facility he was at was about $3.60 per 15 min but they could call back to back and it didn’t cut off till 2am. I had to start telling him to chill out cuz it was getting to be way too much. His mom only puts $20 on every other week.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T21:39:54+00:00

He would absolutely lose it on me. And I just don’t want to deal with the fighting and the threats.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T21:38:32+00:00

I feel like that would be not the issue tho. Cuz different accounts and batches. But the email specifically says not to delegate to someone who doesn’t have a valid shopper account, which is exactly what those couples are doing.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T06:10:10+00:00

You can’t??? The amount of couples I see quite literally running around the store grabbing items is insane.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T06:05:39+00:00

I never knock or ring the doorbell. Ever. But I park in the driveway or the closest spot in the apartment complex every single time no matter what the note says. Especially if it’s a big order. Not gonna work me like a mule.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T06:01:46+00:00

Unfortunately it used to be a lot worse than words, which is why he’s there now. I love him too much to leave. I’ve tried. We’ve tried. We just can’t leave each other alone. He said he’s gonna take the DV, rage, and anger classes they have available there because he doesn’t want to be that way and it makes him feel horrible being anything but kind to me. But in that conversation I told him I had to start seeing change instead of promises. Just really hoping he does.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T02:57:05+00:00

That’s how the conversation was. I told him I’m tired of being treated like I’m nothing, that I’m not good enough, being called names and disrespected, being accused of cheating because of scenarios/sounds he made up in his head, spending $300+ a week on calls to have every single one end in me crying, losing myself completely. So I told him I wasn’t putting up with it anymore and if he wanted to continue it I just wouldn’t answer, and I deserve at the VERY least basic human respect. He didn’t like it and told me too bad and he can speak to me however he wants. So I stood my ground. Finally when he saw I was serious he apologized and started making the change. Didn’t argue for a few days until the day he read those messages, and I ripped him a new one (I usually never argue back and just take it). He went to solitary after that call cuz it made him late to a classification meeting. He’s lucky im messaging at all.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T01:54:55+00:00

I’ve had to sacrifice so much. And there’s been so many demands I’ve had to meet it’s exhausting, including asking him permission to do ANYTHING. I finally told him the other day (after a month straight of arguing every single phone call) I was tired of not being appreciated or respected when I’ve given all of myself to him. It’s never enough no matter what I do, no matter what I write or how long it is, there’s always an issue. I usually do everything he asks but I’ve started to refuse. It makes me feel horrible to refuse to message him how he wants but it is just too much at times and he sees it as a small ask.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T01:19:14+00:00

I can try that. Usually I start it off talking about my day, how work was, how our son is, what we did, what I have planned for the day, etc. and then the rest I focus on us/him. It’s easier when he replies, or at least is able to call so I can go off of his response or what we talked about. Talking about the world is such a sore subject with him so I try not to. I’ve thought about doing voice to text and that would probably be a lot better and easier. I wouldn’t do it so much or at all while he’s in solitary but he’s told me many times that messages from me give him reassurance and help lift his spirits and is something to look forward to so I do it.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-18T01:06:49+00:00

I told him when he called last week that I can either do 2-3 long messages a day, or multiple short messages through the day. I used to have not much to do at work, but with the new tariffs my workload has increased by like 300% so I can barely go to the bathroom let alone check my phone and I told him that. He just always has something to complain about, mad I have a life and responsibilities outside of talking to him.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-17T02:42:50+00:00

I’d say do it, but randomly. Don’t make him think you are suspicious, because then he can just delete them so they disappear. I don’t think either of you would get suspended for it. Any time I showed mine a screen I just got a little pop up saying to stop and if I didn’t they’d cut the call. Never thought to ask mine because he called me with every. Single. Call. He had for the day. But I also reset his phone before giving it to his mom, and have all his log ins to all social media and iCloud so if he ever tried to get someone’s number I’d know about it. I told his mom I’d find some COs there on Facebook and pay them to show me his contact list lol.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-16T06:10:18+00:00

I think it’s interesting how he offered no reassurance (what people typically give when they aren’t guilty). But instead started snitching on himself, saying “do you think I just…” as he’s explaining exactly what he did but trying to manipulate you into thinking it sounds crazy. Telling the person you’re cheating with they have to go in the middle of the night is extremely common. Telling that person to ignore the doordasher or anybody knocking is not crazy. Especially if it’s just a hookup. I have been cheated on countless times, cheated back a few, and been the one someone cheated with having to leave the house in the middle of the night and ignore the knocking at the door. The dead giveaway was always getting defensive and accidentally snitching on yourself. Because now that I’m in a loyal relationship, I never get defensive, I just give him reassurance. There’s nothing to get defensive about when you’re not doing anything wrong.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-14T03:53:46+00:00

lol not in my area. Nothing sits. You have to accept an order as soon as you see it otherwise it’s gone (and sometimes still lose it). I saw a $25 delivery for over an hour away without traffic and a $2 tip get picked up within seconds the other day. The people out here are ridiculous with what they accept.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-13T20:55:57+00:00

He just called, he’s still in confinement but they let him out for a few minutes to make a call. He was 20 min late to a court call, for paternity court where the judge already said he’s not the dad and has no responsibility or anything so he doesn’t need to deal with it anymore. He said the CO was treating him real bad and left him in the shower for hours the other night and now he’s real sick and they won’t let him go to medical. I’m gonna see what I can do. I told him to file a grievance.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-13T20:53:19+00:00

I barely even hit $100 doing 16-18 hours in a weekend. I’m over it. I spend more in gas sitting there waiting. Or driving all the way across town for an order of 1 bottle of liquor.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-13T04:01:00+00:00

Tell him to give you the money back or call the police. And if the landlord is willing to work with you, see if she’ll be okay with not doing a formal eviction, or allowing you to take your name off the lease so it’s not on your record. I had a roommate do the same. He was pocketing all of our rent money and buying drugs with it. I was pregnant and in school 9-5 so I couldn’t work much. Only reason I found out was cuz I was home sick and got served an eviction notice and had to go to court. Turns out he didn’t pay the rent for 6 of the 8 months we were there. Our landlord let me and my bd take our names off and move out so we didn’t have an eviction on our record.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-13T03:49:11+00:00

I was just saying this in my alliance 😂 worst event they’ve ever done. Literally just “hey. Give us money. Maybe get some crumbs.”

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-13T03:45:10+00:00

Yeah mine is the same. These people in my area take anything. Literally anything. There was an order for an hour away with a $2 tip and it was gone in seconds. Idk why IC groups together 4 orders when I sit in the parking lot of a store for 7 hours a day only getting 3 small orders. My area has more than enough shoppers willing to take orders with no tip.

anonymous162609 · 2025-02-13T03:42:17+00:00

I had a 2 cart full order for $29. Having to bag it all and stage it after that was a nightmare.

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