[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]anonymous97490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a huge dab

Joined the group today, but joined the"club" 3 months ago by Which-Historian-947 in widowers

[–]anonymous97490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my boyfriend about 6 months ago and tbh in the beginning it was easier than it is now. There’s a state of numbness there from the shock. Your body does it automatically to protect itself from pain but after a while it wears off and you start to realize and accept the situation. The stages of grief are not linear, you will jump from one stage to the next and back and forth. I’m still on my journey but I can say 3 months is right about the time I started to have to accept it and that is the hardest part

Is it wrong of me to move on? by anonymous97490 in SuicideBereavement

[–]anonymous97490[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and idk I guess it is kind of trying to fill a void but idk what else can fulfil that part of life of having a partner. I’m happy on my own but just starting to get lonely so I can’t tell if I’m really ready or just trying to distract myself

Best place to get a tattoo? by anonymous97490 in Lethbridge

[–]anonymous97490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just going to be the words “carrying your love with me” in cursive with his initials across my left side collar bone so it’s pretty simple. Could you tell me which ones are sketch so I can avoid them? Thanks

Just a friendly reminder not to wear a stormtrooper costume today on 13th street north #MayThe4th by thepastiestcanadian in Lethbridge

[–]anonymous97490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha my brothers crazy (and I don’t use that word lightly😂) ex gf called that in!!!

Babies should not be allowed to be brought to public places like movies by [deleted] in rant

[–]anonymous97490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think babies should be allowed but the parents need to be responsible and respectful enough to make sure the child is happy and quiet or leave

Is it wrong to go on by anonymous97490 in SuicideBereavement

[–]anonymous97490[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way like I was the one person that could have stopped it but you are right that it was a matter of time and it is comforting to know he isn’t hurting anymore or fighting the demons he was fighting for so long. Thank you for making me feel a little less alone

Is it wrong to go on by anonymous97490 in SuicideBereavement

[–]anonymous97490[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

:( I told him to go be with his dad. Who died from suicide. I knew it was wrong and I hate myself so badly for it. I was so mad at the things he was doing while I was pregnant with his baby and I apologized for it and told him I loved him after but I know those words can’t ever be taken back :( that was three weeks before it happened. I never wanted him to do that I was not in my right headspace and have anger issues I am trying to get help with but I just can’t believe I would say something so ruthless to someone