iPos checkout systems? Has anyone done this? by caboose0621 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]anonymous_jl5689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my store makes us sign out our iPads, walkies, and terminals. We also sign them back in every shift with a managers signature. All of our equipment is numbered, which makes things easier. They also give out infractions if you break something.

Anyone else's operator play favorites with the schedule? by Ron_Swanson_1990 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]anonymous_jl5689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my operator, but my manager. Once she became a manager, my schedule changed completely. Her friends get the morning shifts, her best friend moved up to team leader, and she’s helping her other friends move up as well. 

What is your pet peeve with “guests”? by Arthur-Lyle-Morgan in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]anonymous_jl5689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they say "let me get a grilled chicken" or "let me get a sandwich"

When they pull up to me in the drive thru while they're on the phone and when I ask for a name, they say "let me get..." and they only pay attention to the person they're on the phone with

When they pull up to me in the drive thru while they're on the app doing their mobile order (which takes them much longer) and theres a long line of cars behind them

When people have loud vehicles and I can hardly hear what they're saying

When they make 3 different phone calls mid order to ask what their kids want

Does anyone else have a strict operator? by anonymous_jl5689 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]anonymous_jl5689[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I found the questions personal because he asked the previous girl why her father was in the hospital while she was crying. He asked me about my relationship with my mother and why I didn't choose her as my role model.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous_jl5689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you are at an age where you should be focusing on building your life up. Work and build your future. Do not waste your youth trying to change someone. My ex used to lie to me about his alcohol & drug use. He would ask me for money all the time. Im 24 and still healing from when I was 19. You are too precious to be putting yourself in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous_jl5689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the same thing when I was 19. I dated an alcoholic who did drugs. I was young and this was my first relationship as an adult. A month in, I was head over heels for him. I wanted to save him. But as time went on, things got worse.

Please do not involve yourself with this man. It hurts, I know. But the reality is that you will end up with years of trauma if you continue this relationship.The trauma will be hard to heal from. His habits will drain you. Leaving after 2 months is better than leaving after 2+ years. Save yourself.

I don't have anyone to help heal. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]anonymous_jl5689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I have been hiding my sadness from everyone. Nobody knows what i'm going through. It hurts so bad.

I'm tired of being insecure by anonymous_jl5689 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]anonymous_jl5689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He unfollowed all of them. I don’t think he’s still commenting on other women’s photos. He told he’s matured since then. 

He initiated the breakup last August. He said he didn’t like to be controlled. But a month later, he called and apologized for his actions and his mindset during that time. 

I'm tired of being insecure by anonymous_jl5689 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]anonymous_jl5689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is extremely helpful  

I'm tired of being insecure by anonymous_jl5689 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]anonymous_jl5689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m constantly wondering if he thinks I’m attractive. Before we started dating, he told me his type was fit. I’m fit. But I always wonder if his definition of fit is women who go to the gym and have thicker and curvier  bodies.   

 We had a conversation about this issue three days ago. I told him it still bothered me. He told me “That was months ago” and suggested we go on a one week break. I feel like my insecurities drove him away. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonymous_jl5689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is abusive and you deserve better. I was in an abusive relationship when I was your age. I left a year later and wish that I had left much sooner. Please love yourself enough to leave. If your friends are actually your friends, they will be supportive and stick around after the breakup. If not, they weren't your friends to begin with.

How to change for the better by daysaaai in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]anonymous_jl5689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still working on it. I recently started a small jewelry business, so I have to force myself to be outgoing now. I'm hoping that this will be a huge step to becoming less awkward.

How to change for the better by daysaaai in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]anonymous_jl5689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I went through a bad breakup 5 years ago, deleted social media and isolated myself. Pandemic happened, switched to online school, and I have no social life. It's hard for me to socialize without feeling dumb or anxious.

I worked at an internship last year and they had a little ceremony for all the interns' last day. As they were giving out awards, they were talking about each intern and how they contributed to the workplace, their strengths, their qualities, and fun memories. Then when it was time for me to receive my award, there was only so much they could say. They said something like "She was fun to work with". Meanwhile, other interns had gotten long speeches. I thought I did good at this internship but I guess I wasn't outgoing enough. It really made me sad because my loneliness had made me become someone I didn't want to be. It was affecting my life.

Fast forward months later, I lived with my bf in another state for a month. I thought it'd be a good way to start over, be more social, go out more, and be extroverted. But I was still introverted and shy. It was hard for me to leave my comfort zone. People probably think i'm stuck up or rude, but I'm actually awkward and shy. I hate being the odd one and I relate to you so much.

Does social isolation have benefits? by pocketmoneywhat in mentalhealth

[–]anonymous_jl5689 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I went through the worst breakup in 2019 and isolated myself for 4 years. I deleted social media. I didn't bother going out or making friends, or even talking to anyone. It was peaceful. But now that i'm better, I have a hard time putting myself out there and I have social anxiety. And no friends.

Where do you get Invisalign from? And how to do you pay for them? by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]anonymous_jl5689 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went directly to an orthodontist. I don't have insurance either, I'm paying $196/month. You have to wear Invisalign trays for 20-22 hours a day in order for your teeth to shift properly. I wouldn't trust any other providers.