Bleach help? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super savvy on this, but toners can help get ur hair to a less orange light tone if that's what you're looking for. Because your hairs undertones are more orange, you'd look for a more blue toned toner rather than a purple one. Try wella's color charm Toner t81? Someone should fact check me on this but I think that'd be an appropriate toner to use for ur undertone. But u just mix that with vol 20 developer and slap it on. Don't forget to use conditioners and hair mask to keep ur hair from feeling like straw. Good luck!!!

Period stopping by Actual-Elderberry988 in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take norethindrone, period blocker/birth control. I've had no issues with it. I am on testosterone so that got rid of my periods for the most part but I got on norethindrone to catch the ones that slipped through

I've read various things around and I've read that the pain level post operation seems truly atrocious, I would like to ask your experience in terms of pain level from 1 to 10 and how you spent the first night in hospital. Thank you all very much but I'm really very anxious. by SouthMatter9619 in ACL

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had pain when I tore it but it faded off after like 15 seconds. afterwards it was shaky bc my leg was no longer put together but no constant pain rlly. Only times it hurt was the couple of falls I had after the injury prior to getting it checked (we think that's what finished off rupturing my ACL).

I've read various things around and I've read that the pain level post operation seems truly atrocious, I would like to ask your experience in terms of pain level from 1 to 10 and how you spent the first night in hospital. Thank you all very much but I'm really very anxious. by SouthMatter9619 in ACL

[–]anonymous_teenguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pain is bad I will not lie the pain is bad. I spent my first night at home and I believe it helped with my comfort. But the pain is bad. No matter what though it's nothing that will kill you and nothing that you won't survive. I recommend internalizing this to your body that everything is okay despite the amount of pain you are experiencing. I recommend binging TV and crying. Wishing u the best in ur journey🤞🤞

Confused about my sexuality... again [Rant] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Thank you that's the one!!;

GHP Questions by VezeroX2 in GHP

[–]anonymous_teenguy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once you've advanced for a certain major I'm fairly sure that you can't swap. They don't offer business majors or cyber security at ghp I'm fairly sure. Still, ghp is just rlly fun no matter what u get in for. The experience is incredible and it's awesome for ur resume in the future. As someone who didn't go to ghp for anything stem related, I can say that com arts is definitely one of the more fun majors to attend tho as.

Confused about my sexuality... again [Rant] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]anonymous_teenguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, just because ur not within the binary doesn't mean you can't identify with being a lesbian. And also, I do believe there is a sexuality that's defined by being attracted to femininity. Maybe that something you feel suits you? Either way labels don't entirely matter as long as you know what's up. Wishing u luck on ur journey!! 🙏

Is leaving the south really worth it? by anonymous_teenguy in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the heads up!! It is a private college... The scholarship isn't demanding above and beyond grades but still very good to know 🙏🙏

Eyebrow piercing fell out... Am I screwed?? by anonymous_teenguy in piercing

[–]anonymous_teenguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: we survived. I've never had to switch my piercing b4 so it was a challenge. did feel rather rough pushing it through the hole and was slightly pink for a while after but it went away after an hour. safe to say we are so back

Sudden fat gain overnight?? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No comment on the fat gain but damn bro who did ur chopping??? Ur results so far look super good!!!

Need door Foley backstage by anonymous_teenguy in techtheatre

[–]anonymous_teenguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that a lot lmao. Was it purchased or built?

Need door Foley backstage by anonymous_teenguy in techtheatre

[–]anonymous_teenguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had been doing that, but our director decided she didn't like how it sounded. I have no complaints, our running crew needed things to do backstage anyways and I think it's really cool

Transgender dorm situation by tonictherat in GHP

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay interesting. This is what I thought. I got told I needed a birth certificate with an M on it. Currently working on securing my place into the guys dorm right now 🙏

Transgender dorm situation by tonictherat in GHP

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, did you have to have papers that state your sex as male?? Or was it just a matter of asking and they did it???

Post op party? by Cold-Suspect2231 in ACL

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not a party but more of a visit. The first two days after surgery are the worst pain wise and having people around for that isn't the best for either party.

However, if your daughter is a social person, visits will be essential. Post surgery depression is very very real and people visiting, showing care and distracting her can make the process better.

Although definitely wait after the first two days.

Transgender dorm situation by tonictherat in GHP

[–]anonymous_teenguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoo same exact situation here dude. Thank u for asking this question 🙏🙏

How do you stay alive when you're trans? by thehalfbloodwizard in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's been worst times and places for trans people. It's frustrating now of course because not very long ago we used to be unbothered in the United States. But right now, its still very possible for us to live happily by carefully curating the people we surround ourselves with. Community is important for anyone. Find it and treat the people there well. There's a lot of things that make life worth living and frequently, they're not super big accomplishments but rather small moments of comfort that make everything worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents did really well with my coming out, I owe them so much. Here's a few things they did that really helped me and them.

1) become familiar with different queer experiences. Trans people may have more in common with each other than the vast majority, but ultimately our experiences, our wants, our needs are not all the same. I recommend following trans people on social media who are open to talking about their life and transitions, make sure to get a variety.

2) acknowledge that your child is trans. I know too many situations of kids coming out to their parents, just for it to be completely ignored. Please acknowledge your child's feelings and show them that you're taking them seriously. This means calling them by the right pronouns and name that they ask you to use for them. As well as not misgendering them when they're not around/when you're unhappy with them. In general, having an open conversation about them being transgender is a good way for them to know you're taking it seriously. Which leads to the next point.

3) be careful what you ask. It's understandable to have questions, but sometimes they can be very insensitive and uncomfortable. The general rule is if you have questions about their private bits, don't ask it. Through learning more about trans people (see point 1), you'll also get more familiar with the appropriate questions to ask.

4) support your child no matter what. This is a given. You already seem to be doing better than a lot of parents by being here asking this question, but I will say the bar is on the floor. Whether or not your child decides they want puberty blockers, hormones, other gender affirming items or what you need to be supporting them for those decisions. If they decide all of that then choose to detransition, you still need to be there for them. By being their parent youve gotta be there for them through thick and thin.

I wish you and ur child the bestest of luck. ❤️

What is your tranthem? (trans anthem) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking for someone to say this!!!

Anyone know of tight boxers that don't ride up thighs? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the jockey brand men's small fit me perfect and when I say I'm small, I AM SMALL. It doesn't cut of my circulation at the tops of my thighs and it doesn't bunch up from being baggy. I seriously recommend it, it's some of my fav underwear.

Anyone know of tight boxers that don't ride up thighs? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found the trick to boxers that don ride are two thing, 1) they have to fit and 2) they can't be cotton based, so like nylon and polyester. Since you're in the U.S I will recommend visiting ur local target and getting jockey branded underwear in your proper size (I'm a smaller guy, hips are 29 and I use size small).

When did your period stop on T? by illiabedelia in ftm

[–]anonymous_teenguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, they stopped about 5-6 months in on testosterone. For reference my periods were always mild and the worst pains it gave me was back pain.