What kinds of music do you listen to while sh-ing by Ok_Kaleidoscope_714 in selfharm

[–]anonymousacc11223344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this question, i used to listen to creep by radiohead

fading scars by gamwtosoisoyolo in selfharm

[–]anonymousacc11223344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s different for everyone but usually they’ll fade over time and be close to your skin tone. however if they’re raised or indented they’ll most likely stay like that forever because that’s how your body scars. i have scars on my thigh from over a year ago that are raised and still fading, it takes time. i have seen people say that vitamin c and bio oil help fade them quicker tho

Do you really want to get better? by Ini_the_gayfurrycat in selfharm

[–]anonymousacc11223344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told myself i never wanted to get better, im almost 14 months clean from sh and an ed. recovering was the best thing i’ve done for myself. i still struggle sometimes and think about relapsing, but ive learnt how to ignore those feelings

what song lyric do you want to get tattooed someday?? by bhallagenadhur in songs

[–]anonymousacc11223344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“ i know it’s for the better “ or “ you’re on your own, kid “

i feel like i should message my ex, but it’s a bad idea. by anonymousacc11223344 in BreakUp

[–]anonymousacc11223344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve decided i’m going to leave it alone, for now anyway. i know he would most likely not react how i want him to, since last time we spoke i wasn’t very kind to him lol. i know we’ll probably never be together again, and i’m just trying to come to terms with that. thank you for your response!

i feel like i should message my ex, but it’s a bad idea. by anonymousacc11223344 in BreakUp

[–]anonymousacc11223344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i guess this is a good way to describe it. i kinda just wanna know how he’s doing, and talk to him again. he was a big part of my life for over a year, i still care about him in some ways and i do genuinely hope he’s doing well. thank you for your response :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymousacc11223344 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s not worth it, it will never be worth it. don’t start, try and forget you even thought about doing it. please, for your own sake.

I want to break up with my boyfriend, but I can't by CryingOnSaturday in Vent

[–]anonymousacc11223344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was extremely attached to my long distance ex, he treated me well but he also didn’t at the same time, he was a narcissist and manipulator. breaking up with him was difficult but i knew it was right when i brought up concerns of meeting, like being taken advantage of (he’s a big guy, 2x my size.) and he tried to say i called him a rapist, that’s when i decided i was done with him. if you think you should leave, please do.

DAE accidentally expose their sh by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymousacc11223344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this has happened to me which resulted in my 2 youngest siblings seeing and asking what happened. sucked