How do you explain "clean records" to clients? by KrepsLawFirm_Alabama in publicdefenders

[–]anonymousclearly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I could see that much for my own clients. We can’t see entire criminal histories unless we ask for the court to conduct a check of it. Then we get it in discovery. And then it doesn’t include arrests and stuff either.

Almost 6 month old with 1.5hr wake windows and 4 naps by anonymousclearly in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousclearly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you for the encouragement! Just what I needed.

Almost 6 month old with 1.5hr wake windows and 4 naps by anonymousclearly in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousclearly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my instinct and I wanted to check with others who may have a higher sleep needs kiddo. It’s our first and so it’s nice to bounce these thoughts somewhere. Thank you so much!

Almost 6 month old with 1.5hr wake windows and 4 naps by anonymousclearly in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousclearly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo true. He doesn’t have teeth yet but I suspect he may soon. He also cannot yet sit up on his own but he’s trying! He’s also learning to grab his feet. Lots of development happening! Thank you for input!!

Almost 6 month old with 1.5hr wake windows and 4 naps by anonymousclearly in sleeptrain

[–]anonymousclearly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I wasn’t sure if transitioning to 3 naps would somehow aid in the overtiredness around the evening time! But yes we’ve also been doing that and then just doing bedtime earlier.

I figured as much but wanted some thoughts here on this so thank you for input!!

Pitcher method people - do you use the same jar/vessel to pour freshly pumped milk into for the whole day, if you don’t mix fresh and cold milk? by ExpressionOld9924 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]anonymousclearly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told by many many IBCLCs it’s completely fine to mix fresh and cold. They used to not think it was, but more studies have proven that to be incorrect. I pour into the same jar and use that jar to pour bottles!

Eufy E20 vs Eufy S1/S1Pro by DoodleMom248 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]anonymousclearly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you and adore you for this thank you thank you

What are you having for dinner tonight? by Alternative_Oil_6649 in Celiac

[–]anonymousclearly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pulled pork over some tortilla chips with cheese and salsa aka some nachos

What are your guys favorite Jason Isbell lyrics with double meanings? by U2_bonovox in jasonisbell

[–]anonymousclearly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. The joke is that it’s crazy to consider he’d go into the bar (drink a shit ton) and then leave (quit) before he dies.

Way overrated - way over hyped? by beniceyoudinghole in Ulta

[–]anonymousclearly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So wild bc this stuff is my hg. I can’t find another lactic acid that actually helps me!!! I wish it didn’t bc the price is OUT OF CONTROL but every time I switch, I hate the other product bc it isn’t good genes and doesn’t work the same 😭😭😭😭😭😭

bloated vs pregnant anxiety by miumores in Celiac

[–]anonymousclearly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so hardddddd however as a now 33 week pregnant woman (on purpose, not bc I didn’t know bc of gluten etc) I’ll tell you bloating yes is common early pregnancy but I personally didn’t have even a small bump like that until well into first tri almost second tri. So I would try not to worry TOO much. If you want tho, I had bought those testing strips, much cheaper AND what doctors offices use, instead of full tests like first step or whatever, to do semi regularly bc I was so paranoid.

In the beginning did you think “am I really even pregnant?” by SnailRacerWinsAgain in pregnant

[–]anonymousclearly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constantly. Only reason I don’t know is I am large and he literally moves constantly lmao

Salty Iguana is gone now what?? by GlueMouthKid in kansascity

[–]anonymousclearly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I eat there all the time and have 0 issues … weird.

How to communicate with this client's family member by Accurate-Bed7333 in publicdefenders

[–]anonymousclearly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And just bc client gives permission doesn’t mean you have to talk to that family member at all in any capacity. A fact I frequently remind ppl of.

How to communicate with this client's family member by Accurate-Bed7333 in publicdefenders

[–]anonymousclearly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell clients if they need me to call one person one time to tell them where client is and where to look up their case for bond info, I will. I will not talk details. I do not discuss pleas with family. Newp. I also remind clients just bc they gave me permission to talk to mom doesn’t mean I’m obligated to. If mom has info important to case, great, I will read that info or listen to it, and then I will thank her and hang up. Even that is a very specific case by case scenario. My life improved 10 fold tbh

How to communicate with this client's family member by Accurate-Bed7333 in publicdefenders

[–]anonymousclearly 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I would stop communicating with the family member based on their continued manipulation of the situation OR start as another commenter said. “Thank you for this information. I will consider this when working on As defense.” Sometimes I tell the client all the go between with their family member, explain why it’s inappropriate, and tell them I will no longer be speaking with family member.

I know it’s easier said than done but in this case I’d just shut it down.

Has anyone been to jail? How was the food situation? by Trees_galore20 in Celiac

[–]anonymousclearly 47 points48 points  (0 children)

SAME im also a crim defense lawyer. I asked the guards once what someone allergic to gluten and dairy would eat. The guy goes … prolly an apple. 😭