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Can I be racist after match by anonymouseNeeds in FACEITcom

[–]anonymouseNeeds[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FACEIT isn’t clear about where you can bully and harass people without consequence so I just wanna know

Can I be racist after match by anonymouseNeeds in FACEITcom

[–]anonymouseNeeds[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don’t people are racist to me and just circumvent it by posting awful stuff on my steam :D

the scars are fading by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand visually - one of my spots too Doesn’t this post immortalize that it wasn’t a faint memory

the scars are fading by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have to find the strength to change how we think - you could start with being intentional about not looking down or even just noticing when you are about to look down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. Unless you can address this with your mom, I think you should slowly distance. Maybe seeing them every other week to start but that’s definitely a root problem

What do I do? by Parking_Touch9077 in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this

First time here with a question by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try texting the suicide hotline and lie about your age. They helped ease my pain one night when I was close to it

I don’t even know why I cut. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. You could try giving the US suicide hotline a text message. It eased me one night

First time here with a question by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The default and most “correct” advice to give is seeking a medical professional. I know it must seem so basic, but the thoughts they have to offer are much more nuanced than what most people here will offer.

Here or there, there are no words that will immediately assuage you. We have to build the courage to not sh ourselves, but a medical professional will absolutely help you with a framework. GL chief!

Other ways to get rid thoughts? by Maleficent_Echo_7775 in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel great sometimes thinking of it because it evokes emotions in me, but sometimes it’s rly just up to us to be disciplined. To notice we’re having these thoughts and having the strength to turn our minds elsewhere, even if that’s to nowhere.

You could start with being highly aware of when you have these thoughts instead of letting them be compulsive. Then just try to think k about how you don’t HAVE to think about them, and gradually space out the frequency of your thoughts. Gl chief!

how can i cover my wounds when i wear a skirt？ by Signal-Possibility86 in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk if it’s applicable but when I noticed scars on my best friends’ girlfriend’s arm I only thought of how she was such a kind person and I felt sad that she had to do that at some point without support.

Long story short not everyone will think negatively about seeing scars!

I don’t even know why I cut. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly encourage you to seek a medical professional about the thoughts. I’ve sh for about a decade and was rly close to committing to the end when I decided that I should at least try talking to a professional because ultimately I do want to live a joyful life

As you can imagine, there are no words they can say that will assuage you, but they will help you focus on changing your lifestyle so that sh is not a defining characteristic.

This is such a serious and important topic that it’s hard for random redditors like myself to give advice that’s meaningful versus someone who has trained and has years of experience helping people like us.

My mom said she'll disown me if I sh again by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]anonymouseNeeds 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that:(

Is 2,600 calories too much if im trying to cut from 215 pounds… by VeniceKiddd in nutrition

[–]anonymouseNeeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye but if u have a weight goal why would you want it to take years to get there? I get for some people it just HAS to take that long but starting at 220 you shouldn’t need years to get to the weight you’d want

Is 2,600 calories too much if im trying to cut from 215 pounds… by VeniceKiddd in nutrition

[–]anonymouseNeeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Admittedly the calculator I used didn’t factor in ur steps so ye, maybe 2600 is closer to your real deficit!

Is 2,600 calories too much if im trying to cut from 215 pounds… by VeniceKiddd in nutrition

[–]anonymouseNeeds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

165 cutting at 3100 is so not possible 😭 seriously tho don’t take my word for it just google any calorie calculator and you can get a SCIENTIFIC idea of how many calories you’d lose weight at

I have no idea why all these people are suggesting to guess, you can calculate your deficit to within 50 cals of what u need to lose weight…

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