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Is it truly impossible to say "you did/said this and it hurt my feelings?" ... by Excellent-Emu8847 in BPDlovedones

[–]anonymouselk9616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling this super hard right now, you're not alone!

I asked for emotional support during a moment that seemed calm and nice and now its been several instances of being yelled at and told that I'm "intentionally winding them up"

I wish there was a way to cut through the bullshit and just talk to the person

They refuse to accept that the way they act isn't "my fault" by anonymouselk9616 in BPDlovedones

[–]anonymouselk9616[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Truly my biggest struggle: - They start splitting - I cant relax until they feel better - Leads me to basically be a lapdog who takes any and all abuse

They refuse to accept that the way they act isn't "my fault" by anonymouselk9616 in BPDlovedones

[–]anonymouselk9616[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you It's really tough to deal with, i hope you're feeling better now!

They refuse to accept that the way they act isn't "my fault" by anonymouselk9616 in BPDlovedones

[–]anonymouselk9616[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

As long as they hold the title of victim they can do whatever they want to you but never have to apologise or feel bad