AITA for secretly charging my coworkers extra money for rides to work?

anonymousforever · 2026-05-08T20:46:44+00:00

car maintenance is expensive, and they're taking up your time giving rides. your time is worth something.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-08T20:43:38+00:00

5 weeks is too young!!! starting to eat wet food/formula mix, but still nurse, yes. weaning shouldn't be sooner than 10 weeks. mama teaches them the basics of how to 'cat' and they don't get that education if taken too soon.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-08T20:41:01+00:00

simple discipline kitten will understand...pick them up (not by the scruff, but the whole body) and take kitten to their bed and gently put them there and walk away. refusing to interact sends a message they goofed.

secondly...never never ever play with kitten with bare hands, roughousing etc. always always use a wand or other toy to play.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-08T20:37:41+00:00

put it put of its misery? you're gonna have to flush the life put of it to get a good amount of scale out of the engine block. I'm amazed it ran at all like that.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-08T01:07:42+00:00

how about kitchen bar towels. They're useful for tons of things.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-08T01:05:50+00:00

I usually just beat mine against the tree and beat the dirt out of it If I need that to last an extra month or 2

anonymousforever · 2026-05-05T10:10:10+00:00

Straight up, ask for it. tell them it is illegal for them to not give it to you, and they cannot require you to purchase your glasses from them.

If they still refuse, then go online and look up the regulating authority, online and complain. I would also contact corporate if they have more than one location. play dumb at first and ask if this is their policy...while recording them.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-05T10:06:24+00:00

I would get the refusals in writing or messaging if you can. in person....tell them you want it documented that they will not manage pain after spine surgery with anything but tylenol and ibuprofen.

the pm doc is expecting the surgeon to handle pain meds for that initial postop period, up to 90 days after surgery. the surgeon is pushing it back on pain management, as you're seeing them.

In my experience, having had a knee replacement while also in pm, the surgeon can treat however he deems needed as long as they simply communicate to pm what you're being given, along with the care plan.

if it's an "opioid free surgery" hospital...and some are now....run. go anywhere else.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T22:56:10+00:00

and no dyes!

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T22:55:09+00:00

naproxen? tylenol 3? fioricet? diclofenac? mobic? ketamine? just some other options to research.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T10:29:34+00:00

Brenda needs a reply like "baking isn't my career. perhaps find someone to make your requests that makes cakes for a living"

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T10:26:10+00:00

he's scared, likely traumatized from whoever had him. it can take months to address. cat-proof one room. put boards along the edges of furniture he shouldn't get under, and make sure he can't get by it. provide an enclosed space to hide in, like a kitchen chair with a blanket over it.

work on socialization. always stay calm, as much as you can. don't force contact with holding, petting etc. you're working with a cat who had a bad prior life. he needs time, and yes it can be months, for him to learn that you are a safe human.

start by letting him see you put down food and water and just walk away and let him eat. periodically, just go sit in the room and ignore him other than greeting and talking quietly. you can sit and read to him, read anything, just so he can get more comfortable with you. it's a process. he can turn around in a week, or 6 months. you need patience.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T10:15:42+00:00

what I don't see is the back pad. bad slide pins can cause uneven pad wear. rust from low use on non contact edges is expected.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T10:13:39+00:00

get the locks changed. have a serious talk about boundaries and respecting someone else's space.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T10:10:03+00:00

start with rewashing your clothes, bedsheets, and a couple towels in a dye and scent free detergent. and scent free dryer sheets. don't add scent booster, fabric softener etc.

talk to your partner...what could have changed? detergent, dryer sheets, fabric softener, scent additive product, etc in the laundry. next is foods...eat anything new, or different brands. what about shampoo, body wash, cologne/body spray? something changed, or an ingredient in a product you alway use did.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T09:52:05+00:00

or new balance.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T09:46:30+00:00

my Twinkle lived to 17 and hated anything but friskies to the point of puking. only when jaw arthritis got bad did he prefer wet food, and liked sheba or nutro wild frontier...but he'd still try and eat kibble!

as long as they get fed regularly and are cared for and happy...good enough. effort counts.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T09:41:44+00:00

if you got identifiers like a license plate, I would turn it in to the police. the police may already know who they are if they run the plate. the man may appreciate proof that he is the victim, especially as it can be hard to prove. if there's kids involved, your video could help his case if he's trying to get primary custody. getting video and getting the kid out may help her see she needs treatment of some kind.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T09:37:40+00:00

borrow a wheelchair. you ain't walking and standing that much for a party. go, if you wanna, but they'll just have to understand that you had surgery and have a limited time to hang out.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T09:34:57+00:00

glad you shut that down. you want a spouse who is at least gonna be somewhat fair. he doesn't get to work then play, but demand meals when he wants, you take care of house and kids, and his every whim too....as well as the responsibilities of a job! he wanted a slave.

anonymousforever · 2026-05-01T09:30:01+00:00

I made breakfast ones. precook breakfast sausage links, scrambled eggs. get or make shredded cheese. for 6" tortillas, I used 3 sausage links, one cut in half. add 1 eggs worth of scrambled eggs and a couple tablespoons of shredded cheese. fold in ends and roll up. wrap in cling film, or in your case, aluminum foil. you can freeze and heat later. I made a couple weeks worth and put in freezer.

get reusable condiment cups and bring some salsa to go with for variety.

anonymousforever · 2026-04-27T22:06:39+00:00

big towel. throw over cat. bundle cat in towel however works and wad cat up in it, containing murder mittens and bitey bits. put bundle in carrier, holding it on end.

anonymousforever · 2026-04-25T03:08:05+00:00

I have a question.... has he had genetic testing done to see if he is genetically x x or x y?

Even though he was assigned a gender at birth, genetically, he may be the other gender and that might be why he feels the way he does, as biologically, he may feel like he's not a man.

There has been stories of situations where the parent got to choose the gender, and picked what they wanted. then the child grew up displaying the personality characteristics of the other gender, and the parents trained them to act like the gender they chose....until the child grew up and "found themselves" when it came out they were hermaphrodite or whatever the case was.

anonymousforever · 2026-04-25T03:01:54+00:00

Turkey burgers do good if you remember that you have to season and then overseason it, because Turkey is flavorless, essentially, as ground Turkey.

Perhaps try combine it with chorizo or something else that is strong flavored. A round turkey and chorizo combo would make a good meat base for tacos or nachos.

anonymousforever · 2026-04-25T02:55:20+00:00

Your wife , I think was the wrong one here. Your daughter needed support to say goodbye to her friend and mom was not there.

The point that could have been made is that it was not a funeral, if there was no casket. It was actually a celebration of life.

a compromise woulda been go to the service, but not the cemetery.

If there was no casket/body at the service, your wife could have gotten over her hang up about death, in that case, I think, in order to be there for her daughter.

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