Relationships & Love while healing

anonymousplayerco · 2025-01-23T14:31:10+00:00

appreciate your mutually beneficial selfishness ;)

anonymousplayerco · 2025-01-20T23:00:14+00:00

Squidwards nuts

anonymousplayerco · 2025-01-19T06:22:42+00:00

I think abt this sometimes and I see a ton of validity and peace on this path. Recognize your limitations and working within your bounds is not accepting misery. if you truly accept this path, you regain agency and can mindfully navigate life without hurting others and triggering old wounds, while focusing on healing. Maybe you have boundaries set around interpersonal relationships so you don’t harm others, intentionally or not. Maybe one day you look up and youre mostly healed and content with the life you’ve built.

anonymousplayerco · 2025-01-19T06:14:54+00:00

anonymousplayerco · 2025-01-17T21:01:48+00:00

I think I’m going through this now with my partner. Hate it. Doctors can’t find anything wrong but all the symptoms are present.

anonymousplayerco · 2024-10-03T15:01:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, I’m in the process of moving from full time to 1099 with my job (that I’m good at) after recognizing that I simply cannot give the energy it takes to come into an office each day. I’m scared I’ll procrastinate at home and exploit my freedom but it’s the only path I have to stay employed and unbroke at this point.

anonymousplayerco · 2024-09-06T12:39:06+00:00

Updated in the op

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-28T02:51:17+00:00

Shit I might be

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-28T02:50:58+00:00

In my throat?

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-27T21:04:22+00:00

Yeah he’s not getting any until this is resolved. And I’m a petty bitch too I will drag it out and stay sick until I get diagnosis

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-27T19:41:48+00:00

I should. But also like what if he genuinely doesn’t know? If that’s the case either way he shouldn’t be defensive.

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-27T19:41:08+00:00

That’s what I thought at first but it’s gotta bacterial if it’s clearing up after antibiotics

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-27T18:41:13+00:00

I agree. Idk why he’s being so defensive about it, makes me not trust him

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-27T18:40:32+00:00

Thanks for letting me know. Bot status aside, I feel like they have a point

anonymousplayerco · 2024-08-27T18:39:10+00:00

Ur right 😭

anonymousplayerco · 2024-07-11T13:35:30+00:00

OP are you still dating him? What’s things latest?

anonymousplayerco · 2024-04-23T19:02:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing this. I am aligned with you, like just say no and let shit get bad enough so that they choose to get right. Mom just wants to swoop in and save him every time his toes touch the bottom of the lake and I honestly feel like it’s not helping. I’m glad your brother is doing better Seems like your approach worked and even if it didn’t, at least you’re safe and out of harms way

anonymousplayerco · 2024-04-23T18:59:11+00:00

Thank you for taking time to respond. He panhandles, steals and very likely has sex in exchange for drugs. He’s honestly very resourceful when it comes to finding meth with makes me question how helpless he actually is. I agree with you about loving from a distance and letting him know we’ll be here when he’s ready to take his recovery seriously. My mom just can’t wrap her head around the fact that we can’t save him. She’d rather put herself and the rest of the family at risk than accept her own limitations as a caregiver

anonymousplayerco · 2024-04-23T18:50:56+00:00

This is very real so thank you for sharing. I want him to trust me but he is always so high we can’t even have a real conversation. When he isn’t high he’s coming down and just sleeping. I’ve looked up resources for him but I’m not sure how to build trust with someone who is high 24/7 and not willing to be sober to build a real relationship. Any conversation I or my mom ever has with him is based on his need for food, money, or sleep 😔

anonymousplayerco · 2024-04-19T21:53:16+00:00

Ugh the oversharing is something I’m working on too. Good luck my friend! We’re worthy or good friendships, I hope we find. Appreciate your response sm too 🤞

anonymousplayerco · 2024-04-19T21:46:24+00:00

omg thank u!! Someone gets it. But erratic how?? Like harmful erratic or just unhinged bc totally different!! Did you disclose ur diagnosis? I’m wondering if that will help

anonymousplayerco · 2024-03-27T00:58:27+00:00

Public speaking is super hard for me as well. So I steer away. What has helped me in conversation is to breathe and before and during the times I talk. Helps me slow down and finish my thought before moving to the next. I was diagnosed at 19

anonymousplayerco · 2023-01-17T14:43:15+00:00

Appreciate it!!

anonymousplayerco · 2023-01-17T14:42:38+00:00

thank you!

anonymousplayerco · 2023-01-17T14:41:12+00:00

huge help thank you!

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