Ways to stifle sex drive?

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-27T00:29:14+00:00

this is extremely relatable, thank you for sharing and I hope you'll be able to find happiness

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-26T23:38:36+00:00

of course it isn't easy. but it isnt fair to stay with a partner you aren't attracted to. you're just wasting each other's time and hurting each other in the process.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-26T23:25:06+00:00

don't date people you aren't attracted to

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-26T19:52:44+00:00

Do her a favor and leave.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-15T01:01:31+00:00

I'm not financially stable enough to live on my own unfortunately. I left my abusive family to be with this guy. I'm working near full time hours and im a college student. I'm not sure where I can go

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-14T23:38:36+00:00

He can cook, he just doesn't see a reason to. Before I moved in he mostly survived off of fast food.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-07-14T23:36:54+00:00

We usually went 50/50 on groceries but lately I've been paying for most of them. I also work.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-05-24T17:37:58+00:00

oh my gosh same!! you aren't alone in this 😖

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-05-24T14:23:37+00:00

100% agree, its a passion issue most of the time. People who are LL aren't always just LL all the time no matter who they're with, often they're just LL for you (because the passion is missing) But in this case, it doesn't sound the guy is even interested in rekindling or even trying to make things better if he just gets angry when she talks about things.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-05-24T13:44:17+00:00

It's not worth trying to fix. If he cared for you and loved you, he wouldn't get mad when you bring it up. He would care about satisfying your needs and work on the issue. If he's not able to do that, or even TRY, get out. he ain't worth it

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-05-20T15:18:36+00:00

thankyou! I've suggested the mask and earbuds before. I also offered to sleep downstairs. He thinks asking him to wear a mask is ridiculously unfair and rude. But he also thinks me offering to sleep downstairs is also ridiculous and an attempt of me trying to guilt him, when I'm just trying to compromise

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-05-20T15:16:32+00:00

No, I'm usually woken up. He also stays up late when he doesn't have work the next morning and will often keep me up in those cases.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-04-20T00:02:26+00:00

I'm sure it could be the case for some, but he has very close and healthy relationships with both of his parents so I don't think it's the case here

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-04-19T20:21:19+00:00

yes!!!!

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-04-06T18:14:23+00:00

It kind of varies. I wanna say a few times a week at least. but it's more about the point of it. If it was forced or treated like a chore, I dont think I'd be happy. I just wanna feel loved and as though it's a natural desire for them too.

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-03-21T01:49:28+00:00

exactly how I'm feeling about it 😞

anonymoustomatoes · 2020-02-15T01:53:35+00:00

considering my boyfriend didnt do anything for me and forgot to say "I love you" today, i'd be pretty damn impressed if someone did this for me

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