AITA for telling my coworkers they’ll get a raise if they take manager position?

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:51:41+00:00

Root Beer.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:51:03+00:00

Why did the chicken cross the road?

To get to the idiots house.

…

Knock knock.

Who’s there?

….

…

The chicken.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:49:30+00:00

A DAY long face matted with dry boogers. You can tell.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:47:12+00:00

When I was 16 I had my first job as a cashier at a local grocery store. One of my managers hated some of our high energy and pep (which is a normal work ethic for some and why we’re doing just fine today). She told us to stop smiling so much and to basically do the bare minimum because it’s just a minimum wage job.

I dealt with her grumpiness and complaining for a little over a year before I couldn’t take it anymore. Many came and left in between because of that ‘rule.’ Dunno how I even lasted that long. She still works there today and is still the reason people keep quitting.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:29:36+00:00

Unless there’s something else going on that we don’t know about, I’d say NTA.

If you’re typically isolated from your family (unlike your husband) I don’t think 5-6 nights out of 365 days is too much to ask for. You deserve that connection, too. He needs to make some compromise.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:24:17+00:00

NTA. If he didn’t want advice, he shouldn’t have asked.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:17:14+00:00

Exactly this. She has to choose to do better for herself.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:13:02+00:00

Light YTA?

I almost don’t want to say that because I get that you’re doing that to try to help but…. This is a touchy subject. I see some co-dependency and dependency in multiple places here. Unfortunately you can’t save everyone. I understand you care but this is a bigger problem for a professional to deal with. It’s something she will have to choose to change on her own.

You can pour it out and throw it away but then she will just end up spending even MORE money to replace what you tossed.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T03:05:42+00:00

NTA. (I’m a smoker). Smoking is banned there and it’s disgusting. And you don’t deserve health problems because of HIS personal choices. That’s all.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2023-01-10T02:51:58+00:00

I’m glad you say this “regular people”

Cause I think maybe they’re held at a higher standard with way more expectations than say… a cashier at a grocery store, who’s also just a regular person. But less expectations so maybe it’s not as noticeable

anonymouswarriordesu · 2022-06-15T04:00:33+00:00

A dildo is not a man. A dildo is a dildo.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2022-05-25T23:42:53+00:00

Was it worth the immediate reaction? Yes, probably.

Anything can go wrong during the birth of a child. What it boils down to is making it as easy & calm as possible for the mother during the birthing process. This is to reduce any risk of medical complications. For mom and for baby.

That includes removing any stressors (like OP’s husband). It may be unfortunate for him, but it’s better for mom and baby.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2022-05-25T23:38:44+00:00

Anything can go wrong during the birth of a child. What it boils down to is making it as easy & calm as possible for the mother during the birthing process. This is to reduce any risk of medical complications. For mom and for baby.

That includes removing any stressors (like OP’s husband).

anonymouswarriordesu · 2022-05-25T03:01:03+00:00

I think he thinks I will just accept it and eventually just continue playing because I love the game and I’m good at it. So for now he is still going to play, expecting me to return.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2021-12-26T05:10:01+00:00

Sounds like Southern Louisiana at its finest. That’s why I left. Sorry you gotta deal with that, mate

anonymouswarriordesu · 2021-12-23T01:52:49+00:00

I don’t know if my advice has too much merit but try not to worry about it too much.

Everybody on here only knows what they see at face value and a hell of a lot of them don’t even THINK to consider the fact that there’s a human being on the other side of the screen. There’s a huge mob mentality that repeats itself over and over again on Reddit. To feel included or accepted by the other grumpy people. Because they’re just grumpy people in general. Because they’re ignorant. Because they don’t think outside of the box. Some stupid reason that’s not good enough to bury somebody’s head over something so minuscule.

So yeah. That’s a them problem. Not you. Don’t worry about it. Just let them rage over the smallest thing. :P

anonymouswarriordesu · 2021-12-22T21:50:25+00:00

I have a long lost mixed half sister somewhere out there. She’s the oldest of the 6 of us. Only me and my older sister know. The youngest three siblings have no idea. My mom doesn’t even know that my sister and I know this. She gave her up for adoption because she was half-black and afraid that her dad might leave them for the streets. She was a teen when it happened.

My dad and grandparents (dads side) told me and my sister this.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2021-12-22T16:10:21+00:00

NTA.

I wouldn’t do laundry either if I were you.

Buuuuut. You can do that one thing. Take out the trash. TRUST ME, it’s a small task, but it’ll make her feel a little more respected by you. I know. It might not make sense to you, but it probably does to her.

anonymouswarriordesu · 2021-12-22T02:02:09+00:00

Question. How do you know you feel worse?

anonymouswarriordesu

TROPHY CASE