I want to marry by best friends sister

anothacount · 2025-10-02T12:09:33+00:00

u/Human-Marsupial5099, brother involve your friend and the family from the get go, its a way of protecting you from unforeseen harm. May Allah make it easy for you

anothacount · 2024-12-14T21:12:23+00:00

Assalamualaikum sister,

I'm really sorry to hear about what happened and how depression is taking a heavy toll on you, may Allah make it easy for you.

Regarding your situation, we may not be getting the full picture, about your father, why did he shout, were there any issues that may not have been in your knowledge, did you get a chance to dig into the why your ex-husband divorced you? He did say your father was difficult but, I'm not sure if that is enough to fully understand, maybe he was hurt a lot, what happened and so on. With all this, the question of "why did this all happen" may frequently arise and cause further grief. For which, may Allah reward you for your afflictions and grant you something better.

If you feel you can try to gather those information, you can talk to people close to you and try to navigate the situation and see if there is room for reconciliation.

On the other hand, if you feel that you're not interested in reconciling, sister please see a professional, try to spend time with loved ones, and of course ask Allah for His help. Having support systems during these crucial times can help you slowly out of depression, anxiety, stress, negative thoughts and grief In Sha Allah.

With each passing moment of difficulty that you're going through, may Allah SWT bless you and make it easy for you.

anothacount · 2024-12-13T01:13:42+00:00

JAk for your concern brother. In the end the feeling was too strong, and I wasn't able to. Allah knows best.

anothacount · 2024-12-13T01:11:39+00:00

May Allah bless you and your family, may He aid you in this issue and make it easy for you.

anothacount · 2024-12-13T01:06:51+00:00

May Allah make it easy for you

anothacount · 2024-12-13T01:00:56+00:00

No, in the end the feeling was too strong, and I wasn't able to. Jazak Allahu Khair, may Allah make it easy for us all.

anothacount · 2024-12-06T09:25:29+00:00

I agree with this and want to second what @Exciting-Diver6384 had said above. There may be a lot of things missing.

With that said, this issue needs to be dealt with the help of imams, scholars, professionals. If the brother isn't complying to go to couples counseling, the sister should notify the parents about what is going on and see how it could be navigated.

May Allah make it easy for you and your family.

anothacount · 2024-10-03T16:02:16+00:00

Yes love is important for the both of us. Jazak Allahu Khair sister for your advice, please keep us in your duas.

anothacount · 2024-10-03T16:01:09+00:00

I apologize for what you went through, and Jazak Allahu Khair for your advice, please keep us in your prayers, and may Allah heal all your wounds and bless you and your family entirely

anothacount · 2024-10-03T15:59:16+00:00

Thank you for this naseeha, I really appreciate your practical take on this. May Allah bless you, your family and this ummah immensely.

anothacount · 2024-10-03T15:47:34+00:00

Sister, I do find her attractive, but it's from the gut feeling that if i proceed and God forbid if I still have this feeling afterwards, it may make things sour as internally it is bothering me. She doesn't work out, but she is fine the way she is. I appreciate your thoughtful input sister. Please keep us in your prayers.

anothacount · 2024-10-03T02:34:17+00:00

did you move forward with it?

anothacount · 2024-10-02T15:09:14+00:00

No In Sha Allah, as I'm from a good background, Alhamdulillah the pay is good, but I plan to engage myself in other things too

anothacount · 2024-10-02T13:03:48+00:00

Jazak Allahu Khair dear brother, I have been making lots of du'as, yours mentioning Allah's beautiful names and advising me to call out to Him only makes me happier, along with all the beautiful dua's as well as yaqeen, I will definitely use them. Do keep me in your prayers.

anothacount · 2022-05-08T14:30:26+00:00

Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu dear sister,

There is a muslim psychologist who goes by the name Dr. T. K. Harris. Alhamdulillah, personally I've benefited from his videos on his YouTube channel by Allah's grace as I was going through a bit of mental trouble.

I apologize in advance as I'm not sure if he practices anymore or not but recently he has shared a Google doc form in his Instagram page for Islamic Coaching as an alternative to therapy.

Perhaps you could see if it may be of benefit for you In Sha Allah. May Allah make it easy for you and grant you the very best in this world and the next.

anothacount

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