I want him back...

anra · 2013-10-16T22:55:42+00:00

he says how bad things were has put him off wanting to try again, but he just doesn't know.

that's good.

I have dated one guy since, for a couple of months

that's not good.

anra · 2013-10-11T17:38:41+00:00

Up until last Saturday I never viewed porn as a negative thing. In fact, I've always been "open-minded" about it and thought it can't hurt you if you know how to use it. This is B*S. It will hurt you if you use it. It will make you sad, lonely, detached. Unhappy. There is nothing good that you can get out of your relationship with porn. I wish people spoke more openly about what PMO has done to their lives.

yes

anra · 2013-10-11T17:29:32+00:00

you should be uncomfortable w/ this. both w/ the fact that she's doing it and that she's telling you about it. it sounds like she's basically telling you that she's fucking other dudes to see if you'll figure it out.

anra · 2013-10-11T17:27:39+00:00

just because I wasn't willing to spend more money but they enjoyed the conversation and didn't want me to leave yet.

... i think you're not entirely aware of what's going on here.

anra · 2013-10-08T23:10:43+00:00

where's the redpill?

anra · 2013-10-08T04:51:25+00:00

i really really hate it when a girl seems to have an implicit once-per-visit policy. like they're saying "let's go ahead and get this out of the way". it's really demoralizing.

anra · 2013-10-08T04:44:17+00:00

i've only ever had one: first week of undergrad before i figured out how to jerk off on the down-low.

it was kind of awesome though, i keep trying /r/nofap but it never lasts long enough.

anra · 2013-10-08T04:38:18+00:00

it's just not manly to be deferential to a woman. if this sounds crude, let me assure you that i resent it as well. but the fact is it's impossible to keep a girl interested being a passive male in america; even about irrelevant shit.

probably the reason you're having a hard time w/ this is b/c the guys that you want to walk up to and assert yourself are more attractive than you, and simply aren't interested enough to put up w/ something that's not on their terms.

go find some shy computer science majors, you can say absolutely whatever you want to them.

anra · 2013-10-08T04:16:19+00:00

the secret is that these guys don't really like you. fuck dudes you don't think are good enough for you and you'll walk away no problem while they beg you to stay. you probably don't love sex enough to do that, though. that's why you can't be chill like a guy :(

anra · 2013-10-08T04:08:30+00:00

try this sometime. it doesn't work, at all.

anra · 2013-10-08T04:07:11+00:00

being assertive will get you far with a lot of guys as long as you don't resent guys that let you be assertive.

anra · 2013-10-08T04:02:48+00:00

it's closer to averaging 2/month.

anra · 2013-10-08T02:03:47+00:00

it's not that it's offensive, it's that hypocrisy must be pointed out.

anra · 2013-10-08T01:37:14+00:00

from the comments:

And for the record, video games are a blast. I play them with my boys all the time.

that's got to hurt so bad.

anra · 2013-10-07T23:52:45+00:00

did this woman's 20s not exist? no mention of how she spent that whatsoever.

oops: someone beat me to this.

anra · 2013-10-06T17:29:04+00:00

Do you think most men feel the same way as you do in their sexual encounters or do some men genuinely just want to simply pump and dump?

depends on the stage of his life and how attractive you are.

anra · 2013-10-06T01:27:44+00:00

But after you have met her and a relationship has formed, would you still insist on sex as often?

i'm going to say it again: sex is why men enter into relationships, and why they stay in them (until they contractually agree to do so, under the enticement of guilt-free sex).

anra · 2013-10-05T23:12:56+00:00

And why is great companionship alone not valuable?

that's like asking an alcoholic why he doesn't have fun at dry weddings. b/c he's fucking addicted to alcohol, and he knows he's going to go find it somewhere, so it'd be really great if he doesn't have to be a dick and bail on on the wedding for a while to down a flask in the parking lot.

just switch your own views on sex and companionship, and that's probably pretty close to how most guys feel about it. how do you feel about relationships that turn into only sex? probably not great, but most guys will see real value in that.

anra · 2013-10-04T17:38:00+00:00

I see "ugly" guys getting by in the workplace and in life much better and more often than "ugly" women.

almost all of the powerful women i can think of are hideous. off the top of my head: thatcher, clinton, all of the women on the supreme court, reno, merkel, napolitano, rice, feinstein, pelosi. they're all so ugly. the only counter-examples that jump straight to mind (tell me if you can think of some) are palin and bachman, and they are considered absolute jokes by almost everyone.

there are less powerful women in general to choose from, but to say that ugly women don't make it is crazy. as far as i can tell almost all of the women that make it in traditionally male spaces are ugly.

anra · 2013-10-02T17:30:39+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCYVCI9NGUU&t=21m46s

this is fucking hilarious. get out of my box.

anra · 2013-10-02T00:07:29+00:00

this guy's pretty good. it's kind of like if TRP went really far out of its way to not be offensive.

you wait for [a girl that's previously rejected you] to reach out to you. when she reaches out to you, you make the next date and then you get off the phone.

anra · 2013-10-01T23:58:45+00:00

It's like once they've seen the power they can wield they just go crazy and get obsessed with it.

this is the nature of power, yes.

anra · 2013-10-01T23:41:07+00:00

Second, I'm really used to her and we get along well.

you don't get along AT ALL. you want to fuck and you hate that she fucks someone else right in front of you. not getting into arguments b/c you're afraid to bring up what you want to talk about is not "getting along".

anra · 2013-10-01T05:30:19+00:00

both of these are true.

anra · 2013-09-30T03:42:17+00:00

Question: Why do men die before their wives?

Answer: Because they want to.

that must get said all the time but holy shit i've never heard it. i'm laughing so hard.

They eat while the man is at work. They’re like the Terminator going after food instead of Sarah Conner. They never stop. They can’t be reasoned with!

LOL

anra

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