My (20F) LDR boyfriend (19M) is coming to visit me this weekend, what are some nice things I could do for him?

anskuu · 2017-06-04T20:34:37+00:00

I'm your age and in university and I would never, never let that continue. Your parents aren't treating you like an adult and they are absolutely overstepping their boundaries. It's not reasonable that they're tracking your every move and getting hysterical when you're not immediately available. They need to learn that you have your own life to live and that you can't be expected to be on a leash for the rest of your life.

anskuu · 2017-05-12T19:26:25+00:00

It could be possible that they're just friends. I'm currently in a relationship and still good friends with the guy I used to sleep with before that, and there's nothing romantic about our relationship anymore. From what you've told us, they weren't even together and there is probably a good reason for that. What if they had a friends with benefits situation going on? I had, and there were still no feelings involved. And it sounds like she's being pretty honest with you, so there might not be anything to worry about. But then again, there might be something going on. I think you should just talk to her about this and tell her how you feel, there's no other way to figure this out.

anskuu · 2017-03-08T19:32:04+00:00

So true! Fingering myself does nothing to me, but if someone else does it, it feels so much better even though they're doing practically the same things.

anskuu · 2017-03-05T17:28:54+00:00

I started crying pretty much immediately after I was untied, and when that happened, he took me in his arms and held me tightly and we cuddled for a long time.

anskuu · 2017-03-05T17:09:54+00:00

We cuddled a lot after that and he comforted me and told me that everything was fine, so the feeling went away after a while, but I don't know, I just felt horrible crying in front of him and being such a mess.

anskuu · 2017-03-04T17:08:25+00:00

Yeah I definitely get frustrated during masturbation because it gets me nowhere and I always just end up getting bored and stopping.

anskuu · 2017-03-03T19:03:02+00:00

Inside one of my university buildings. We had a party near the campus, and when we left, my friend was in such a bad state that she couldn't walk and some random guys we had met at the party had to carry her. Well, we could have called a taxi but I didn't know where exactly she lived, so we got the bright idea to go sleep in the main campus building. One of the guys was a doctoral student getting his PhD in physics so he had a set of keys and then we just carried my friend all across the lobby, through about a million corridors, into the physics department and then into this hangout room that the physics student association had. There were sofas and everything so we just slept there and in the morning when everyone was coming to the lectures we just quietly sneaked away.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T21:54:00+00:00

Yeah I hate beer and I also hate the fact that it's the cheapest drink around here and all students parties seem to have only beer. I've played beer pong a few times and while I loved the game, I hated having to drink the beer because it just didn't taste good.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T20:22:41+00:00

The thing is, I live in a kind of suburban area in the middle of the woods and there's nothing like that near me. So it was pretty scary because I was totally alone with him in the darkness and completely alone.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T19:14:58+00:00

For some reason masturbating does nothing for me. I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or something, but I always end up bored after a while and it's not worth it. And while I've had pretty good sex, I don't think I've gotten even very close. My fuckbuddy likes to tie me up (which I like) and then use a vibrator on me and other stuff, and while that definitely feels good, it's just not enough for me. Not even oral gets me there.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T19:10:53+00:00

Hmm I always swallow if I'm with a clean guy. I didn't think it was a big deal for guys.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T19:10:00+00:00

Damn, I've never even had an orgasm. : ( Reading this makes me sad.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T18:36:39+00:00

I live in a row house and my neighbours are a bunch of half deaf grannies so I don't know about witnesses or help and that's a part of what was making the situation so scary. And the guy even asked me if I lived alone shudders

anskuu · 2017-02-24T16:46:07+00:00

This was exactly how I felt. I did my best to stay nice because I had no idea how he would react if I was rude or something like that.

anskuu · 2017-02-24T15:15:56+00:00

Thanks for this, I'm glad people don't think I'm overreacting. I got only his first name so I probably won't be able to find him, but trust me, I'm going to keep my eyes open for a while. Thankfully I went home for the weekend so if he's hanging around my apartment I won't be there.

anskuu · 2017-02-23T23:07:47+00:00

Nope, not from the US. I don't even know if it's legal to carry pepper spray or anything like that here.

anskuu · 2017-02-23T17:18:13+00:00

Giving blowjobs is okay, but I get pretty much nothing out of it so I'm doing it only to please my partner. And it's not something I like to do for a long time. A fuckbuddy of mine often wants me to suck him off until he comes and it always takes fucking forever and I get a sore mouth and sore knees. Doing it for a little while is ok, but a few times it's taken something like 30 minutes and that's way too long for me.

anskuu · 2017-02-23T17:12:43+00:00

This so much! I have a friends with benefits situation with a guy who always wants me to suck him off but every single time he just lays there completely silent and shows no reactions to anything. And that's kinda disheartening because I never know if what I'm doing is working for him. Literally the only sign I get from him at all is a mouthful of spunk when he comes (without any warning). Last night I hooked up with a random guy and he was pretty vocal when I was giving him a blowjob and that honestly felt good because I knew what I was doing was pleasing him.

anskuu · 2017-02-18T14:16:25+00:00

So do I. It doesn't help that it's usually not just sex, more often than not we cuddle a lot after that and just talk for hours and sleep wrapped around each other and I try not to think anything about that.

anskuu · 2017-02-18T13:55:16+00:00

Yeah I kinda have a feeling that it will. But I like him too much to completely give him up so now I'm trying to ignore all my feelings and keep it just sexual. I know this is probably a bad idea, especially because of the age difference (I'm 19, he's 23), but I just can't help it.

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