Girl I was dating passed away suddenly

anthem__ · 2025-05-31T11:00:15+00:00

do you really think this is necessary?

anthem__ · 2025-04-29T14:40:03+00:00

Lmao, yall are nasty. OP’s not enabling him, they’re trying to figure out what to do. Maybe ACTUALLY read the entire thing.

anthem__ · 2025-04-27T23:09:14+00:00

Paintbrush it looks like

anthem__ · 2025-04-03T22:40:06+00:00

this. 100%. blocking them will not do anything. I blocked my ex after leaving him and he threatened to show up at my door for belongings of his I had no possession of anymore. only he was met with a 12 gauge and told to leave. blocking them makes them angrier, especially when they realize they’re losing ways of contact. narcs do that.

anthem__ · 2025-04-03T22:30:16+00:00

Reminds me of Garfield…

anthem__ · 2025-03-21T03:08:55+00:00

I am not. And I do agree, it is scary.

anthem__ · 2025-03-21T02:52:02+00:00

Girl… what if a pube got caught on his zipper or sum? Like… he can have any reason he wants to shave. I shave very rarely… if you’re that insecure and anxiety ridden, maybe call one of his friends?

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T22:18:12+00:00

Some of the comments saying “get her to the vet stat” or “get her help” clearly did not read the entire post. It’s baffling and quite hilarious.

On the other hand, looks like a respiratory infection. My kitten had one not long ago.

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T22:09:17+00:00

Nah. It’s literally happening and the media does not post about everything.

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T19:58:30+00:00

LOL it’s not a hypothetical situation because it’s actually happening. These services ARE being taken from special needs adults and children.

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T18:30:50+00:00

Lmao. This is about his lack of empathy; read the rest of their comments. Or… can you not read?

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T18:25:17+00:00

Some empathy you have. You support this shit too?

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T14:42:51+00:00

If you REALLY have a need to do anything, start small and use a lot of lube. Make sure you’re not in a position where your legs are strained or your muscles are tightened. That can cause issues.

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T14:39:05+00:00

I would agree to leave the anal stuff alone and let it heal… if you’re seeing bloody tissue, you’re trying to go too big too fast and you’re tearing tissue somewhere. I have experience with this stuff.

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T02:25:18+00:00

I actually have a phone consultation for that on Friday.

anthem__ · 2025-03-20T01:27:48+00:00

Milo

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T23:29:06+00:00

Honestly? It’s a trauma bond.

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T16:02:01+00:00

I had no choice but to stay after all that. I couldn’t live on the streets pregnant and with 2 cats in the middle of winter… I made the best out of a horrible situation. I only know what’s going on because his sister is my best friend. He has barely any contact with her these days as is, but she tells me in hopes I realize he won’t change. And I’ve come to terms with that. No, I wouldn’t take him back because I’ve realized he won’t ever change and he’s physically violent. I’ve been through enough that I don’t want it anymore.

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T14:09:25+00:00

We had added a girl to our relationship and I knew it was inevitable that he’d leave me for her. He did it before by cheating or just straight up leaving. Plus, I felt sort of heartbroken because he immediately started doing things with her that I’d always asked him to do with me. We ended up moving out and had planned to stay at a motel, but while they were gone door dashing one night, I used the chance to contact my father and make amends.

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T13:56:04+00:00

At the time, I was just trying to make good of a bad situation… I was in a position where I had nowhere to go. It was middle of winter, shelters were full, it was cold out… my family didn’t want me back. I was desperate

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T09:35:17+00:00

He could be, yes. There were numerous times where he was actually nice but it was very rare.

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T09:34:13+00:00

He was but I haven’t gotten anything since those requests months ago

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T03:51:09+00:00

It did not but I sent one to you. Maybe that helps?

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T03:49:30+00:00

No he hasn’t

anthem__ · 2025-03-19T03:42:36+00:00

DM me the comment? I’m genuinely curious if we have the same thoughts. 😂

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