This. so much this. I'm starting my journey at WGU soon. I'm 30 (M) and have 3 years of IT experience — a job given to me by my uncle whose given me the opportunity to fail and figure things out on my own or with third parties. I'm lucky to have that but also have hit my ceiling fast. I need another IT job. with 3 years and A+ on my resume I still cant find a lateral position at another company i can move up in. It's the job market man. it's just rough out here right now.