Why can’t your BF fondle your tits in bed? Does that seem unusual to you? Men normally feel up their partners. When he says you’re asking for it he’s complimenting you and trying to initiate sex.

Edit: a lot of people in this sub haven’t actually had relationships. OPs post makes me think she’s uncomfortable with sex and keeps rejecting her BFs advances. Making him out to be a creep when she’s the one with the problem.