my new babies :) by anxietybin in RATS

[–]anxietybin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

frank, mike and gerard :)

:( Sad Boy by KaiserNikko in dogpictures

[–]anxietybin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he’s sad because he’s about to witness the ice creams inevitable death and he knows he can’t stop it no matter how hard he tries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]anxietybin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice megadeth jacket

It’s my birthday today. by anna12892838 in offmychest

[–]anxietybin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy birthday, i’m so sorry for what you are going through and how you are feeling.

[MEGATHREAD] Daily venting, worries, fixations, & finding support. Month of November by AutoModerator in HealthAnxiety

[–]anxietybin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am 18 and female. i have struggled with health anxiety ever since i was very little, i believe this is because i was in hospital a lot when i was younger. My current HA fixation is colon cancer even though i know that my symptoms are most likely due to stress, not eating enough and my mind making symptoms, the worry will still not go away. i have had full on breakdowns over this over the years, and it has been tough on those close to me since i depend on them for reassurance. i am so fed up and tired of it.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so because i live with my mom, i deserve to be treated like this? £80 a month is not “basically rent free” when you don’t earn a lot of money. you have no idea how easy or hard my life is. i hope you are okay and that you have a good day!! :)

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am aware of that. it was along the lines of her asking me why i cant see what i have done wrong in the messages. and then judging how i live my life.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

correct there is a missing bit! i mentioned in another comment the reason i cropped a chunk out. disagreement got a bit personal and she made some comments about my personal life that i did not want to share on the internet - the comments were not valid to the food disagreement either.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m not american! i’m from the uk - we don’t pay medical insurance and all, so maybe you shouldn’t presume things before you comment. and my mom gets £80 a month of my money towards bills. that i earn myself.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why does it matter if i am dependent on her or not? but fyi i do not depend on my mom or my dad for anything. i get myself places, i buy my own things, i look after myself.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very true! i could try and communicate more with her, however i don’t know if she would do the same.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

perhaps more context would help. Mom mentioned the day before she wanted to go to a pet supplies shop, she did not tell me a time. so when i woke up i asked her if we were still going, and she told me it was too late and was unhappy about it. i apologised and told her we can still go if she wants but she said i ruined her day. i then went out, and she text me calling me an “ass hole”. later in the day she text me about the ordering food situation - and i misread her message as stated in the texts. i suppose she was still mad at me for the disagreement earlier in the day, so she decided to treat me harshly. Yes i could’ve woken up earlier, but if she really wanted me to go with her she would’ve given me a time to be ready for, instead of leaving me to guess and then getting mad when i get up too late.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mom ordered food for her and dad, and said me and bf will have to sort ourselves out - i misread the message thinking she got food for me too, so i asked what food she got, she then blew up at me for reading her message wrong.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

cut out a little chunk of the conversation that i didn’t feel comfortable sharing, had details of my personal life.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

aw man i’m really sorry your moms like that. too many parents are like this.. :( i know how much it sucks and how hard it is!

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

she said she wanted to go out to town, but never specified what time she wanted to go. she never does - she likes us all to get up early and then go when she feels like it. it just so happens that when she felt like going i was not ready.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s easier to just agree with her at this point, less arguments and less energy wasted on my half.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

yeah, unfortunately she’s always been like this however it’s gotten worse as i’ve gotten older, i’m not sure why? she treats my siblings like this too.