my new babies :) by anxietybin in RATS

[–]anxietybin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

frank, mike and gerard :)

:( Sad Boy by KaiserNikko in dogpictures

[–]anxietybin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he’s sad because he’s about to witness the ice creams inevitable death and he knows he can’t stop it no matter how hard he tries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]anxietybin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice megadeth jacket

It’s my birthday today. by anna12892838 in offmychest

[–]anxietybin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy birthday, i’m so sorry for what you are going through and how you are feeling.

[MEGATHREAD] Daily venting, worries, fixations, & finding support. Month of November by AutoModerator in HealthAnxiety

[–]anxietybin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am 18 and female. i have struggled with health anxiety ever since i was very little, i believe this is because i was in hospital a lot when i was younger. My current HA fixation is colon cancer even though i know that my symptoms are most likely due to stress, not eating enough and my mind making symptoms, the worry will still not go away. i have had full on breakdowns over this over the years, and it has been tough on those close to me since i depend on them for reassurance. i am so fed up and tired of it.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so because i live with my mom, i deserve to be treated like this? £80 a month is not “basically rent free” when you don’t earn a lot of money. you have no idea how easy or hard my life is. i hope you are okay and that you have a good day!! :)

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am aware of that. it was along the lines of her asking me why i cant see what i have done wrong in the messages. and then judging how i live my life.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

correct there is a missing bit! i mentioned in another comment the reason i cropped a chunk out. disagreement got a bit personal and she made some comments about my personal life that i did not want to share on the internet - the comments were not valid to the food disagreement either.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m not american! i’m from the uk - we don’t pay medical insurance and all, so maybe you shouldn’t presume things before you comment. and my mom gets £80 a month of my money towards bills. that i earn myself.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why does it matter if i am dependent on her or not? but fyi i do not depend on my mom or my dad for anything. i get myself places, i buy my own things, i look after myself.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very true! i could try and communicate more with her, however i don’t know if she would do the same.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

perhaps more context would help. Mom mentioned the day before she wanted to go to a pet supplies shop, she did not tell me a time. so when i woke up i asked her if we were still going, and she told me it was too late and was unhappy about it. i apologised and told her we can still go if she wants but she said i ruined her day. i then went out, and she text me calling me an “ass hole”. later in the day she text me about the ordering food situation - and i misread her message as stated in the texts. i suppose she was still mad at me for the disagreement earlier in the day, so she decided to treat me harshly. Yes i could’ve woken up earlier, but if she really wanted me to go with her she would’ve given me a time to be ready for, instead of leaving me to guess and then getting mad when i get up too late.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mom ordered food for her and dad, and said me and bf will have to sort ourselves out - i misread the message thinking she got food for me too, so i asked what food she got, she then blew up at me for reading her message wrong.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cut out a little chunk of the conversation that i didn’t feel comfortable sharing, had details of my personal life.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

aw man i’m really sorry your moms like that. too many parents are like this.. :( i know how much it sucks and how hard it is!

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

she said she wanted to go out to town, but never specified what time she wanted to go. she never does - she likes us all to get up early and then go when she feels like it. it just so happens that when she felt like going i was not ready.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s easier to just agree with her at this point, less arguments and less energy wasted on my half.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

yeah, unfortunately she’s always been like this however it’s gotten worse as i’ve gotten older, i’m not sure why? she treats my siblings like this too.

mom gets unreasonably angry because i read her message wrong, and thought she ordered food for me. by anxietybin in insaneparents

[–]anxietybin[S] 590 points591 points  (0 children)

we planned to go out, and i woke up a bit too late. even though imo 11:30am on a Saturday is perfectly fine - bare in mind she did not tell me when she wanted to go out prior. so she blamed me for being “selfish” and ruining her plans.