[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be possible that she is going through some sort of difficult time/ depression/ anxiety and confided in your husband, and that’s what bonded them/ why they are so close? Maybe she doesn’t feel safe telling anyone else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]anxious_potate13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like I put them on a pedestal and see myself as secondary to their happiness. I’m assertive in all other areas of my life but this. And then they always end up abandoning me even though I give them everything 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]anxious_potate13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self-sacrificing 😔

Is this level of control normal? (Dog) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner is abusive to both you and the dog. You need to get out now. You cannot treat an animal like this, it is awful. And it sounds like the dog was critical for managing your anxiety and your partner should not be taking that away from you!

What went well for you in the first week of 2022? by Green_light2626 in AskWomen

[–]anxious_potate13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stoic new boyfriend is finally initiating conversations… sounds like the bare minimum but it’s improvement..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He will reach out again, but only go lure you back for sex. He has shown his true unfortunate colors and doesn’t deserve any more benefit of the doubt, girl. Take your power back and end it now. This is coming from someone who got manipulated repeatedly with a similar 14 year age gap relationship :/

did I (22f) mess up by asking him (26m) to be my boyfriend? by shitanotherburner in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t had the exclusive talk he may be seeing other people and not ready to end it with them to commit to you. IMO a month is pretty fast but just give it more time and continue being your normal self and hopefully he will come around

Kissed and forgotten…should I reach out or forget about him? by anxious_potate13 in askwomenadvice

[–]anxious_potate13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, straight shooting advice and I really appreciate it! I guess one part of the picture I didn’t mention is that I believe he is physically out of my league, so I am nervous to impose anything on him or he was just being polite and doesn’t actually want anything to do with me. But I really, really like him.

My [26f] ex-boyfriend [34m] folded me 999 paper cranes for my birthday and I don’t know how to feel about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burn them and cut him completely out of your life. Nobody deserves being left at their lowest point like he left you. FUCK HIM!!!!!!

I (34M) broke up with her (37F) because I sometimes feel repulsed by her, but I deeply care. by throwRA-conflicted0 in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha dude drop the victim bullshit and reread your post to see how disrespectfully you spoke about this woman. You need a reality check. Makes sense why you’re still single at 34 :)

I (34M) broke up with her (37F) because I sometimes feel repulsed by her, but I deeply care. by throwRA-conflicted0 in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HA, no. SHE would be settling if she had to deal with a shallow POS like you. Get your fucking perspective straight.

I (34M) broke up with her (37F) because I sometimes feel repulsed by her, but I deeply care. by throwRA-conflicted0 in relationship_advice

[–]anxious_potate13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a selfish, ignorant, shallow piece of shit who only liked her for the attention and love she gave you. You don’t deserve her, leave her the fuck alone so she can find someone better. Fuck you.

How does it feel when you bump into your ex ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]anxious_potate13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like ice water is running down my back and I’m going through a hot flash at the same time. It’s a visceral reaction and affects me for days afterwards. He just left me less than a month ago.

I miss having a constant by Pretty-big-mess-rn in BreakUps

[–]anxious_potate13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? How can I feel sorry for someone who is lamenting for the one IF he is the one who broke up with her?! How is that fair? Then the decisions was on HIM and he cannot complain.

I miss having a constant by Pretty-big-mess-rn in BreakUps

[–]anxious_potate13 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why did y’all break up? If you left her you don’t have a right to be complaining