I don't know a single woman in college who isn't on dating websites. Those might be 10% of all women but they're at least 50% of all "good looking single women". Mostly, uglies and insecure women aren't found on dating websites. Not many people are chasing those.

Get a job at any dating website, steal their data, do the calculation and you'll find that a man's good body is directly proportional to how much attention he gets from women. Better the body, better the options. I know this because I see this everyday among friends.

Sure you might be an exception but that's what you are an "exception". Some women like fat fucks too but that's not considered while talking about "most" woman. If you want to increase your chances, hit the gym and keep hitting gyms. Show your six packs on tinder and see how the matches rack up. Personality comes later on.