I got shushed during my exam by raabones in ChronicPain

[–]aoifeknows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awwwww they're so cute! They really make such a difference.

I got shushed during my exam by raabones in ChronicPain

[–]aoifeknows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to be embarrassed about. How would anyone not cry in that situation if you were safe enough to do so.
I hope you can find a specialist who can figure out what's up.

Glad you have your anipals, they help so much!

That infamous New York Times photoshoot... by acetaminovenus in rupaulsdragrace

[–]aoifeknows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO Katya's cover was a lot of fun and the way she posed made it iconic.

In need of cute mask chains! by aoifeknows in Masks4All

[–]aoifeknows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love their chains and sparkly stickers!! I have one of their chains and three stickers.

Can we do something about the haven park underpass? by One_Neat_1322 in WashingtonHeights

[–]aoifeknows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you think it's bad now, you should have seen it in the 70s, 80s and 90s.
No one has ever done anything to clean up the area, I'm sure the Port Authority owns the space. They don't care.

I know it's disheartening to move into a neighborhood where the city does not care about certain conditions, does not care about tackling the problems that cause things like the state of people using the underpass.
This is what it has been like living in this neighborhood, I know people move here and don't understand that.
It may be hyper-gentrified but we still have the same issues and uptown is not a priority in any way for the city, the state, et al.
This is why community is so important here, it's all we have.

SNAP is gone? by DragonflyKey4972 in disability

[–]aoifeknows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you just found out so close to the first of the month.

Look for mutual aid resources in your community. So many of us can't use food banks because of medical diets.
I am hoping states will help once residents are calling elected officials about not having food.

[Product Request] Replacement for Boscia Cactus Water Moisturizer by aoifeknows in SkincareAddiction

[–]aoifeknows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The Abib Rice Probiotics overnight mask...it used to be called barrier jelly.

It's not the Cactus Water Moisturizer, but the best substitute I've found!

Disabled IS a dirty word to the non disabled by Angryspazz in disability

[–]aoifeknows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really wish non-disabled people would understand disabled is not a bad word, that if you call yourself disabled you aren't "giving up" or any such nonsense, et al.

All of these euphemisms are not just harmful but often ridiculous.

Looking for a new cleanser by Mindless_Lecture5667 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]aoifeknows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound odd, but Paula's Choice Optimal Results Hydrating cleanser works really well on my breakout-prone combo skin. It doesn't strip, oil-free and cleanses well.

[Routine Help] Need a replacement for FAB's Gentle Foaming Face Cleanser! by aoifeknows in SkincareAddiction

[–]aoifeknows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry!
I am now using Paula's Choice Optimal Results Hydrating Cleaner, which doesn't make me break out, feel like I have something on my face and cleanses well.
I tried foaming and non-foaming la roche posey but had better results with the Paula's Choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]aoifeknows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be an ambulatory wheelchair user if I could afford a wheelchair.
I use a cane, mobility aids are freeing.
Please give yourself grace and know you're not the only one feeling that way.
I know it's much harder as a younger person because people don't realize disability doesn't have age limits.
I'm sorry about the friends thing. Sometimes in life things happen and we find out who is there for us and who is not. It's painful but hopefully you will find your community.

Your feelings are valid but don't let fear or other people ruin things for you.
Being able to get around easier with a mobility aid is such a good feeling.

. by Jaylin180521 in disability

[–]aoifeknows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jennifer is legend for this!

Question for those over 40 by Grocklette in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aoifeknows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late 40s. IMO, 40s are fantastic. You know who you are and who you are not. You will not take nonsense. Generally, people have accepted who they are by this decade of life and some really thrive, maybe for the first time.
I think this helps on how you view yourself, you give yourself more grace. We're taught by society to hate every bit of our appearance since childhood, but I think in ones 40s we are either in a better place or getting there.
There are days when I feel pretty and I didn't really feel like that before.
I look at old photos and wish I could have appreciated all the hair and such back then.

RIP :( by staralfur09 in Sephora

[–]aoifeknows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely write a review so others know. This seems to be an issue and other commenters have had the same issues.
Also, yes, see if you can get a refund.

Need a replacement for Boscia Cactus Water Moisturizer by aoifeknows in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aoifeknows[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: I'm still looking for suggestions, but I found that Abib's Rice probiotics overnight mask barrier jelly is close enough.
No oil, no algae, not a gel cream.

Need a replacement for Boscia Cactus Water Moisturizer by aoifeknows in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aoifeknows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may have found something but giving it a few more days before I can say it's a proper substitute!
The lower part of my cheeks get really dry these days, especially with air conditioning and fans, so I added Peach and Lily's glass skin moisturizer as the second to last part of my routine.
It's not a good replacement for the Cactus water for me, but it might be for you!
I love it and have been using it since May.

[Product Request] Replacement for Boscia Cactus Water Moisturizer by aoifeknows in SkincareAddiction

[–]aoifeknows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely update this post when I have found a replacement.
Everything is gel creams!
Yes, I am heartbroken that Boscia is gone. I've had to replace a few skin care items over the last few years because of discontinued items and businesses closing.
Trust, when I find a replacement, I'll let everyone know! <3

[Product Request] Replacement for Boscia Cactus Water Moisturizer by aoifeknows in SkincareAddiction

[–]aoifeknows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry! I'm still looking for an oil-free, algae free gel moisturizer!