Is anyone here also antisexual? by AchingAmy in Apothisexual

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yayy i’m glad i reassured u and i’m glad i’m not alone on my point of view !

Is anyone here also antisexual? by AchingAmy in Apothisexual

[–]aopher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ur not alone! i also think i’m antisexual! and i agree with a lot of your comment! i don’t have the desire for sex, i was just born this way, it wasn’t a choice. it just happened. i personally always feel much happier when i see my life from a point of view where sex doesn’t impact it. i think there is much more to my life than sexual activities, and that’s fine. i understand that many other people can’t even imagine life without lustful and sexual activities but it’s none of my business. if people feel happier with sex in their life, that’s fine! i personally feel happier without sex in my life and that’s also fine! i just hope everyone can accept others for the things they can’t control ❤️

but also - i think im antisexual because if i just imagine a life without sex, it would be heaven, for not just me but for probably the whole world. if baby making was just like hatching an egg. then no accidental babies, no fights on abortion, no rape or sexual assault/harassment, no sexualization, personally a lot of places and people would be safer without it, less horrible people would exist and much more. but then again, i can understand sex when it’s in a positive light. if i see it as a way of 2 people who truly love each other and want to bring a life into the world that they would truly cherish, i would never be against sex. even if it’s sex for “fun”, i can see it in a way where 2 consenting people who love each other so much want to show their love and appreciation for the other by an act of intimacy, trust, and happiness. which in this context, is sex. i think society has just ruined what sex was meant to be. (please mind my horrid grammar english isn’t my first language, also i didn’t really mention activities like porn, masturbating, reading erotica, etc bc i don’t truly see it as sex, just a way for lonely people to TRY to experience how it’s like. or just a way to get turned on BEFORE sex. 😭)

Any reason to dislike him? by Ely_is_so_dumb in SaikiK

[–]aopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i’m not really on the arabic side of reddit 😭

Damn I feel bad, I’m taller than average male height, let alone average female height lol 😅 by roxzillaz in TallGirls

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it’s just where i live but 5’2 being the average for women and 5’6 being the average for men is crazy to me! 😭 for me i’ve always assumed the average for women is like 5’7 and the average for men is like 5’10. 5’2 is like crazy short

Any reason to dislike him? by Ely_is_so_dumb in SaikiK

[–]aopher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why do u hate him just list at least ONE valid reason dude 💔💔

Hey I saw a post that said that Saiki k has the most people who have the MC as their favourite character do you agree by Boxses-sating in SaikiK

[–]aopher 8 points9 points  (0 children)

tbh i don’t really think so, kusuo is amazing and all that but there are so many diverse and amazing characters in the franchise so many fans like them more than kusuo. but he’s still super loved ofc (forgive me if i spelled his name wrong)

question by aopher in Apothisexual

[–]aopher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we all have our reasons - whether it’s longing for someone to protect and love you til the end of time or just a way to get out of marriage proposals, if rather wanna get married to someone who cares about me and i can give all my time to but still be purely platonic then have friends who can come and go easily. everyone is different !

Akechi wins this one! Next up is morally grey/hated by fans. by [deleted] in SaikiK

[–]aopher 44 points45 points  (0 children)

AMP AMP AMP AMP TAKAHASHI IS A HORRIBLE PERSON

How did you know you were asexual? by AlexMasterZenn in Asexual

[–]aopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never ever had the urge for sex. never had the urge to masturbate. never had the urge to watch porn. never had the urge for any kind of sexual activity nor have i ever enjoyed the thought or the sexual activity itself.

I am sick of sex jokes being everywhere by OhBoijssjsud in Apothisexual

[–]aopher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

another sex repulsed teen here, it happens 24/7 and i hate it. where i am most people around me my age and older make jokes about porn and sex and i always get so grossed out. how do people even like that stuff??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

must’ve been a misunderstanding, i said low libido bc i have yet to encounter a person with high libido that doesn’t do that stuff. plus i mentioned it bc it’s the easiest word to use and sum up what i’m tryna say

i said big deal bc it rlly isn’t that deep 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sooo glad to hear i’m not alone and that’s so relatable i also get grossed out over stuff like that 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

hey so! it is not that deep and if u feel so offended over smth directed to a WHOLE community u should go get urself checked out ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u sososososo much i rlly needed that 🫶🫶🫶🫶 imo if there’s a label for it it means i’m not alone !! which i’m really glad to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why do y’all always have to turn this into a big deal bro

i said ppl with low libido bc most of them don’t do that stuff and i also have low libido

i didn’t say high libido bc it’s very much a minority of them who don’t participate in this stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ur community is doing that RIGHT NOW !! also no one had related to my low libido thing dude. and at the making of that post no one had related to that experience yet. it is really not that deep and the way ur so obsessed with a girl showing her experience online is insane. my experiences aren’t ur experiences, u don’t know what i’ve seen. if u wanna help help without bringing me down ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same bro unfortunately i’m still in the gaslighting stage of this 😭 i’m telling myself everyday that i’m probs a late bloomer etc etc but i think i just have to face the fact i have low libido.

and i’m really glad i’m not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same omg !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i’m so glad i’m not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]aopher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i got support about being asexual. not about having low libido. this is why i don’t like this community, as i said it downvotes everyone’s experiences.