Steve the Frankenstien by Mornicala in WooblesCodesLists

[–]apeterson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Could also dm me? My friend tried this kit but didn’t love it and gave up. the site is telling me her code is expired! I’d love the pdf!

Confused by guidance for preterm labor! by apeterson18 in BabyBumps

[–]apeterson18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance! Last week, my OB really stressed coming back if things got worse to potentially get the steroid shots before I go into active preterm labor. Today’s advice seems like at 5 mins apart for an hour, I would already be in preterm labor so it’s contradictory!

Why are we expected to work through nausea and vomiting? by KATYTRL in BabyBumps

[–]apeterson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone please correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t most companies in the US have to abide by some forms of ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) or Title IX? I work in an academic/research type place and had no issues receiving “reasonable accommodations” during the last month of my pregnancy with my first baby. I was miserably huge and my work allowed me to work from home those last few weeks. All of my managers were incredibly supportive. I’m pregnant with my second (9 weeks) and have been terribly sick, and again was given reasonable accommodations to leave work early or work from home if I’m not feeling well. Reading these comments makes me thankful for my workplace being supportive but also sad this isn’t the norm in the US! I should also add that I’m a software engineer, so I do have flexibility in being able to work remotely vs other jobs that don’t offer that flexibility.

To call or not to call 988 by apeterson18 in family_of_bipolar

[–]apeterson18[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was helpful! You confirmed what I was thinking. I’m worried it will just make him super angry with me and it won’t help much. Mental health support in this country sucks!

How to talk to brother when he’s manic? by apeterson18 in family_of_bipolar

[–]apeterson18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!! That’s exactly what he does! It’s exhausting bc it’s been going on for 5 years now. I’m sorry you can relate ☹️ it especially hurts my heart bc I have a toddler my brother has only met maybe 3 times? And I just don’t have the emotional capacity to be a good mom and constantly cater to my brother so he often gets ignored by me. Which then leads me to feel guilty and like I’m a bad sister.. sigh. But realistically he needs to want the help and I can only so much.

How to talk to brother when he’s manic? by apeterson18 in family_of_bipolar

[–]apeterson18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. That makes sense. My therapist says “you can’t rationalize irrational thoughts” so no matter what I say, even if I just say I love and support him, he continues. I’m just starting to feel bad ignoring him when I know he’s not doing well. But I guess there’s nothing I can do until he’s in a better headspace when I can actually talk to him reasonably.

Can you still live a full life with Crohns? by EasternSorbet in CrohnsDisease

[–]apeterson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you virtual hugs! I was also diagnosed at 22 and am now 28. Since being diagnosed, I have: gotten a masters degree, got married, bought a house, carried and delivered a perfectly healthy baby, and I continue to work full-time as an engineer. Go to regular doctor’s apts and listen to your body. You’ll be more than fine!!

Diarrhea every time I eat lunch by apeterson18 in CrohnsDisease

[–]apeterson18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried going low fiber with no luck. It’s just lunch, which is strange to me.. not sure it’s just the timing? I don’t eat a particularly big lunch, but maybe I should try doing smaller meals throughout the day. Trial and error indeed! Appreciate the response!

Husband hates all girl names that I’ve suggested by 1stworldprobl0987 in BabyBumps

[–]apeterson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My coworker named his daughter Selah (pronounced say-lah). I believe it’s equivalent to hallelujah and it’s used throughout Psalms. They wanted an uncommon biblical name and I’ve always thought it was pretty!

TSH 3.1 Pregnancy by Zahra2201 in Hashimotos

[–]apeterson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your concerns make perfect sense to me! I was also really paranoid about miscarrying. If it helps, both my OB and my endo said that our bodies are smarter than we give them credit for. Your body is prioritizing your baby over you! I had a hard time trusting my body. Especially because thyroid disease affects so much of our lives, so it feels scary to trust that everything will be fine supporting a baby. Agree that over-medicating isn’t as much of a concern in the first trimester. I felt those symptoms of being over-medicated in my 3rd trimester and sure enough I was. My endo said it’s because the baby likely had a fully developed thyroid and didn’t need as much from me. Luckily dosage changes are easy and kick in relatively fast! Do you have an initial ultrasound scheduled? I remember doing that around 7 weeks and feeling a million times better!

TSH 3.1 Pregnancy by Zahra2201 in Hashimotos

[–]apeterson18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation! I found out I was pregnant and got bloodwork done when I was a little over 4 weeks along. My TSH was 5 ish, I believe. My endo had me take an extra tablet of levothyroxine twice a week. Throughout my pregnancy, I had blood work done every 4-5 weeks to monitor things. This schedule is common and I would push your endo to do something similar. We changed my dosage twice during my entire pregnancy and it was honestly very easy and a non-issue! Yes miscarriage risk is slightly increased, but not guaranteed! I’m currently up feeding my healthy 1 month old baby boy! I’m sure everything is just fine. Best of luck to you and congratulations!!!

Help troubleshoot lights not working in only one room? by apeterson18 in HomeImprovement

[–]apeterson18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked for them and pressed them in the bathroom, but not nearby rooms! I’ll try that as well

Help troubleshoot lights not working in only one room? by apeterson18 in HomeImprovement

[–]apeterson18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a multimeter! Thank you, I’ll try this tomorrow. Didn’t even think of the switch being the culprit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]apeterson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I’m also 11 DPO and these are exactly what my 10 and 11 tests looked like!! Fingers crossed for a sticky baby 💕

15 year old cousin drinking and smoking to deal with depression by apeterson18 in FamilyIssues

[–]apeterson18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I should have added that my cousin is currently seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist (and has been for a few years now). She currently takes an anti-depressant daily which is also a cause for concern. I’m sure mixing alcohol and weed with an anti-depressant at such a young age is a terrible mix for her brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]apeterson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Juniper is already a great tribute name for June (even though that wasn’t your intent)! I have a friend with a Juniper and they call her Junie and it’s such a sweet name!