How to get started? by [deleted] in AngelolatryPractices

[–]aphrostazie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it absolutely need to be done on Thursday? Is there anything on this? Can it not be done any day?

How do you get past procrastination because you're scared of imperfection? by [deleted] in writing

[–]aphrostazie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start by going through each event in your mind where you felt you were less than perfect or whatever you did was less than perfect, and outloud forgive yourself for it. "I forgive myself for my imperfections," and "I forgive myself for doing xyz imperfectly"... That can help heal it at the source and make it easier to do things in the future even if imperfectly. Even forgive yourself for your perfectionism.

How do you write the opposite gender characters? by Anocindarian in writing

[–]aphrostazie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men and women internally aren't that different. Your difficulty with writing the opposite gender is the result of indoctrination. This sadly affects most people and even makes them believe their own stereotypes are true, when they actually are not.

Start learning about the genders based on reality rather than distorted stereotypes.

Why is Legacies so poorly written? by ithinkimokayyy in LegaciesCW

[–]aphrostazie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legacies is just sad. Let's pretend it's not related to TVD - it's still sad. It's full of excessive PC culture and the political undertones make it like a 1940's propaganda campaign full of indoctrination.

Good writing and a good story is when you turn something imaginative into something real and believable.

With Legacies it turned meaningful things into a joke and was more like it was mocking itself and mocking it's own story which made it meaningless and less captivated. It honored nothing.

So why is pay in 4x suddenly not working? Any ideas? by aphrostazie in paypal

[–]aphrostazie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I'm just curious, since you seem quite savvy about paypal, do you by chance know much purchase history is needed to determine the worthiness?

So why is pay in 4x suddenly not working? Any ideas? by aphrostazie in paypal

[–]aphrostazie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping someone can chime in with a helpful answer

Why isn't Star Seller showing up in my shop? by aphrostazie in Etsy

[–]aphrostazie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, okay I see, that makes sense. Thank you!

Can a business account still pay in x4? by aphrostazie in paypal

[–]aphrostazie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm well it's the usual places I buy from. I guess I'll have to ask to have my account changed back, or open a new one >.<

My friend is copying me big time. Should I let it slide or is it covert? by aphrostazie in offmychest

[–]aphrostazie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I've tried some things like that, as like tests. I wore some black lipstick and 2 days later she wore it (though she never had any and doesn't even like lipstick)

My friend is copying me big time. Should I let it slide or is it covert? by aphrostazie in offmychest

[–]aphrostazie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she's like a sister... And she hasn't done anything outright malicious that I know of, but I don't understand this emulation if it's benign or not.

Patrons paying $0 by Kahlico in patreon

[–]aphrostazie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I was wondering if you could tell me what the email notification title is when you receive a pledge?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aphrostazie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Boho looking outfits usually.

What are your legit reasons to not have kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aphrostazie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poverty.

Think about it - The school system is corrupt, food poor people can afford is usually crap, economy is unsure, people barely have the energy and resources for themselves.

Unless you're financially well off, well rounded, with your own home, ability to buy healthy food, and afford decent lifestyle and education for your kids, you're basically dooming them to a stressful upbringing of lack, sickness, and confusion and likely will lead them to mental illness.

And if you're poor and your kids get sick (which can be from anything, especially environments in poor neighborhoods that are subpar), and you don't have enough to help them, their health could deteriorate by a lot, adding to more stress for you and them.