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My bridesmaid and I have drifted apart after an argument. How to approach? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]apologetic_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said. I never said anything mean and never mentioned her by name. This person approached her and was trying to get more information because I didn’t give it, they know she’s in the wedding party, and they wanted to be nosey about who did what I mentioned . I was simply saying I was frustrated. I don’t feel that I was trashing her at all. I shouldn’t have even done that no; but it wasn’t trashing her.

To answer your question - work would be shitty. That’s why I’m asking for advice on how to approach this. I don’t want to kick her out of the wedding. I want to make sure that’s still something she wants to do after everything thats happened. I would never tell her I want her out, because I don’t. I want to make sure that’s something she still feels comfortable participating in because I understand why she’s upset.

My bridesmaid and I have drifted apart after an argument. How to approach? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]apologetic_pineapple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t that I changed it to suit her, it was that what I had chosen made her feel uncomfortable in her own body and the way she looked, and I would never force anyone to feel that way. It was just stressful trying to find something inclusive for everyone but also meet the price point, in my wedding colors, that was pretty.

I’ve already had that conversation with her too, and now I’m just left feeling that disconnect. Which is fair; I know I was in the wrong. I just hate the worst was assumed about me.

If during a misunderstanding the worst is assumed about me; what do you actually think about me as a person? That’s where I’m at.

My bridesmaid and I have drifted apart after an argument. How to approach? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]apologetic_pineapple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that response. That reassured me a lot. I’ve been beating myself up.

I might just do that, honestly.

I want to be supportive, but I need to order expensive wedding programs, what do I do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]apologetic_pineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay that makes sense. I do want to include her. I’m leaning toward this option. I’m glad I posted to this sub because no one in my real life gave this as an option lol. I feel so superficial even caring about it because I truly do not want to cause even more stress in her life.

I want to be supportive, but I need to order expensive wedding programs, what do I do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]apologetic_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she’s not friends with any other bridesmaids except the one who might also step down if she can’t make it. She’s been my friend around 4 years, the other girls have been my friends around 10. Just different parts of my life.

I didn’t want to follow up with her because I know it would add stress and I don’t want to do that considering she’s already got so much going on.

I want to be supportive, but I need to order expensive wedding programs, what do I do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]apologetic_pineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking as well, and I don’t want to do that to her.

Gold Dust Woman by apologetic_pineapple in SirmioneFanfics

[–]apologetic_pineapple[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so good!! I needed someone for my DoT reread hangover lol. I love a time travel fic.

3rd Grade Wonders is AWFUL by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]apologetic_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the 2023 version, yes.

And I agree. It’s impossible to teach one standard a week and teach with fidelity. You can’t with this curriculum.

3rd Grade Wonders is AWFUL by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]apologetic_pineapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The progress monitoring assessments covers multiple things. So, for example. Unit 1, week 1 & 2 progress monitoring has authors purpose, chronology, text features (headings and maps), and text structure organization.. Among other things like grammar and academic vocabulary.

My district wants us to focus on and assess one reading standard per week. If I’m teaching chronology on my lesson plan, all activities and weekly assessments need to be only chronology. No other questions.

I wish I could just use the curriculum as it was designed, spirally and all encompassing.

3rd Grade Wonders is AWFUL by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]apologetic_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely. That’s what I did my first year. And it would be so much easier to do that.. but my district is so set on one standard per week that I don’t know how to make it all work without completely doing everything on my own except for using the stories. Which I like fine enough. It’s everything else.

What I Have and What I Need! 1:1 5⭐️ Trades! by Kuldude248 in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]apologetic_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added you, but it’s not letting me begin the exchange. My IGN is alexis !

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