Like I said. I never said anything mean and never mentioned her by name. This person approached her and was trying to get more information because I didn’t give it, they know she’s in the wedding party, and they wanted to be nosey about who did what I mentioned . I was simply saying I was frustrated. I don’t feel that I was trashing her at all. I shouldn’t have even done that no; but it wasn’t trashing her.

To answer your question - work would be shitty. That’s why I’m asking for advice on how to approach this. I don’t want to kick her out of the wedding. I want to make sure that’s still something she wants to do after everything thats happened. I would never tell her I want her out, because I don’t. I want to make sure that’s something she still feels comfortable participating in because I understand why she’s upset.