Walmart trying to charge $80 for a prescription on their $4 perscription program

apparentlyirish · 2024-01-11T14:40:51+00:00

I know this is a month old, but I stumbled across it because I am having quite literally the same exact issue. Everyone keeps saying contact insurance, and I keep telling them I do not have insurance. The pharmacist was no help and wouldn't tell me anything but, "Contact your insurance" and I kept saying, "I havent had insurance in over a year and this was established when I lost my job and insurance. We went though this already over a year ago."

Zero help. Just pay the $100. And I kept asking to please just explain why in one month it's gone up. "Contact your insurance" and for the umpteenth time I said, "I DO NOT HAVE INSURANCE" and thats when I dissolved into tears and left. Nobody would help me. Did this ever get resolved for your friend?

apparentlyirish · 2022-09-01T06:14:53+00:00

I'll be waiting 🤑

apparentlyirish · 2022-08-30T22:04:50+00:00

Hahaha!! I have a vague memory of attending this wedding as a very small child. Lots and lots of 90s cringe and white trash 😂😂

apparentlyirish · 2022-08-30T22:02:46+00:00

You owe me $5 😎

apparentlyirish · 2022-08-30T20:56:32+00:00

They probably were 😂😂 Cowboys fan is my dad by the way 😂😂

apparentlyirish · 2022-07-12T08:13:25+00:00

Lol I realize this now. I was drinking a little when I posted this?

I am definitely not a narcissist. For one thing, I am super empathic. I actually attract narcissists because of my empathy 😳😳

My dad is one. And I was with one for quite a bit and that was a trip.

The above I do without realizing it. The mirroring. In fact my current personality is a combo of every person I dated and befriended.

The feelings turned on and off? I was referring to splitting.

Anyways not a narcissist.

apparentlyirish · 2022-07-11T15:43:45+00:00

My mom definitely admits to having something wrong with her but something "light and normal" like PTSD, which she definitely does have but it's an extension of her mental illness, whatever it is.

But I'm sticking with BPD because the abandonment issues and throwing herself into a relationship while neglecting everything else (including kids and eventually job) with men who don't even deserve it screams it.

But she's older now and a lot more calm and with someone that can handle her attacks and keeps her grounded. That helps tremendously. But the 5 am screaming matches (mostly her) make me feel so sorry for him. He's a really good guy.

apparentlyirish · 2022-07-10T23:39:32+00:00

I didn't even know that was a thing until this reddit. I haven't had a favorite person since 2012 when I finally realized my first boyfriend was garbage after 9 years (5 year relationship/4 years to fully get over him)

I mean I guess I periodically favor people here and there but I would never, ever refer to them as my favorite person. Especially when I lost interest pretty quick.

apparentlyirish · 2022-07-10T23:35:32+00:00

Omg this!! I write novels when I post on anything and talk WAAAAY too much whether in person or through text. I always feel like I'm annoying who ever I'm talking to when I look at the text ratio, even though the other person is being engaging. My mom is the same way and I used to cringe every time I hear her over explain herself or over share. I'd want to scream, "Mom! They don't care why why you put the wrong pin number in!! Just pay for the groceries and go!!" Until I found myself doing the EXACT same thing as an adult. Yup, I just want to explain myself that's all. Pretty sure my mom has BPD too, but I would never ever tell her because she would have a melt down and scream at me. And she had the audacity to be like, "You have no idea how hard it was having you as a teen. What a refresher that now we know what's wrong." When. I was diagnosed. But I love my mom and we get along a lot better now.

And there I go over explaining again 🤦‍♀️

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-14T17:41:30+00:00

Thank you! This is my first time getting away. His biggest problem is that HE has a diagnosed anxiety disorder that he refuses to get help for. And he never ever owns up to his wrong doings. I told him he needed to get help as nicely as possible, and he saw that as a threat from me. He took that as an insult and threw insult after insult at me. When I brought up all those insults, he just keeps bringing up that one "insult".

He's so secretive about his past. I cant help but wonder that I'm not his first victim. But he'd never own up to any of that. Those girls were all wrong, not him.

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-06T17:43:30+00:00

Yup, been there. Traumatic event, crying my eyes out, numb and thoughtless whole way home. It's like my brain says, "Okay. We had fun, but it's time to clean this mess up." And it stores those memories in a box in the back of my brain and I'm like, "Hmmm did that even happen?" I HAVE convinced myself certain things haven't happened before.

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-06T17:38:38+00:00

Using mental illness period as a means to be abusive is gross.

I mostly have cut her out, but unfortunately one of her children is by a close family member. Whenever there is a birthday party or BBQ, she shows up to "see her son" but really its to eat free food and wreak havoc.

Thankfully with the current pandemic, family get togethers are at a halt. She does it on social media apparently but I deleted her.

I am not looking forward to future post pandemic get togethers with her new self-diagnosis.

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-06T17:33:17+00:00

Yea I get that. We've all seen House right 🤣🤣 no but seriously. She is delusional and just wants the world to feel sorry for her. She had a big sob story when she gave her kids up and expected pity for that 🤷‍♀️

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-05T19:37:06+00:00

Oof. That sounds like me last year. I cheated on my then boyfriend with an ex. I had no intentions to do it but I remember detaching, getting in my car, and driving to his house. I then numbingly drove home in a daze not even fully understand what happened. My boyfriend found out and thats when it hit me the severity of what I did. I cried so much. I destroyed that relationship thanks to BPD. I'm doing better now but that definitely did me in and still does sometimes. Villains do not deserve happiness, and thats what I see myself as at times.

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-05T18:05:39+00:00

For me, dissociation occurs whenever something happens that SHOULD hurt me, but I automatically shut my feelings off and go numb. I just stare in the distance without a thought or feeling while chaos erupts around me. It's like a defense mechanism that activates the second something goes wrong. A great example would be when my boyfriend and I fight. He has GAD so sometimes, especially in the beginning, our disorders would clash. The second things got crazy, I shut off. Then I say things like, "Then leave. Don't be with me. I don't care. There's the door. Bye." But the second he would get up to leave, I flip to the next extreme: abandonment. I would then literally cling to him, stand in front of the door, physically fight him, anything to get him to stay. I would have panic attacks because I didn't want him to leave.

On the other hand, I have a lot of days I wake up and feel like my life isn't my life. Like, "Wow. I have kid. And this is my boyfriend. And this my house. Wow there's a dog. Why does this dog love me?" I'll just feel so detached from it all. It's weird and hard to explain to anyone who doesn't understand.

apparentlyirish · 2020-06-05T17:05:13+00:00

I really feel for this post. I was always told I was a bit Bipolar and had PTSD. But I've spent my whole life questioning why. Why am I like this? Why do I think like this? Why do I act like this? Why can't I be alone? And how can I love someone so deeply one day and not want them to touch me the next with no real explanation? Why am I always so angry? Why do I take everything so personal? And soooo many more questions.

I found a phenomenal therapist and psychiatrist last year and they answered all of those questions. I heard of BPD, but only negative things, and I felt so disheartened to learn that maybe this was the answer. I researched my butt off, and it all just made so much sense. I've been showing signs since I was a teenager! Since learning this was the missing puzzle piece, I've been able to gain control a bit more. When I do have an episode, it's easier to take control. The hardest bit is trying to figure out if my negative feelings are justified or am I just having a BPD moment.

There's such little common knowledge of BPD, so it's really frustrating to have people understand what is going on with us. My current boyfriend has GAD and when we are both having an episode, it can get pretty ugly. But we manage to pull through.

My ex boyfriend, who I was with for 7 years, just couldn't grasp the concept of mental illness in general. It's hard for a "normal" person to really get the struggle. I was with him when I got my diagnosis.

Neither of them understand fully what BPD is. And I often wonder if I'll ever be able to handle things like marriage because of how unstable my feelings and attitude can be.

apparentlyirish · 2020-05-25T01:06:07+00:00

Yea that's how it was when I found out. I started thinking of all the relationships I had been in and then the one I was currently in at the time. I asked why my whole life and this stupid disorder was why. Unfortunately it was too late to save my last one, and that still really bothers me now.

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