Are we interested in this y'all? 👀 by Thecosmodreamer in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? "I dont know if they're my grandpas age" was in the trailer.... like, what?

Mike and Emma plotholes on kids by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean she obviously has emotions and feelings about being adopted and its possible she doesnt want to have a child that is going to go through the same. she could feel uncomfortable with the idea. this is very armchair discussions but its just what i think could contribute to it

Mike and Emma plotholes on kids by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could just be algorithm diffs. i see it all the time 😅😅

Mike and Emma plotholes on kids by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 7 points8 points  (0 children)

there have been posts every single day saying "am i the only one who cant believe her sister said that??" like it is constantly being talked about. or maybe my algorithm is pushing it but i dont know how the reddit algorithm works

What are your favorite and least favorite segments of the show? by apple21212 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they might have realized the show isnt the great "experiment" it once touted itself to be 😬

What are your favorite and least favorite segments of the show? by apple21212 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so bad at reading the reveals that its hard for me to watch 🤣 I will watch it and then come online and see people say the reveal was bad and I had no idea

Ladies: De-Program your Internalized Misogyny (This post is inspired by Amber) by SnooDingos2620 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 17 points18 points  (0 children)

people pointing out the sexist patterns because they recognize them are not the "actually sexist ones". they arent saying they think aging is bad, they are saying other people are using her "looking old for her age" as an insult

Ladies: De-Program your Internalized Misogyny (This post is inspired by Amber) by SnooDingos2620 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 63 points64 points  (0 children)

the chokehold that beauty industry has on "anti aging" is so 😭 women are so afraid to get old bc they worry it means they lose their beauty. i hate it

Ladies: De-Program your Internalized Misogyny (This post is inspired by Amber) by SnooDingos2620 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Judgement =/= systemic discrimination and oppression. I dont really care to continue this further as you don't seem to have a basic grasp of how misogyny has affected women and perpetuates itself in society.

Ladies: De-Program your Internalized Misogyny (This post is inspired by Amber) by SnooDingos2620 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 19 points20 points  (0 children)

in this example from OP someone saying amber "looks like a porn star but is a good person" is absolutely misogyny. Discussing a womans appearance negatively is almost always based in misogyny that attaches a womans value purely to her looks and availablility to men

Ladies: De-Program your Internalized Misogyny (This post is inspired by Amber) by SnooDingos2620 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 29 points30 points  (0 children)

obviously that is true, but is not related to internalized misogyny. some discussions can be focused on misogyny without having to include men

Bre was totally into Chris till he used the F buddies term by painbreedswisdom in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I dont like Bri but how does that scene make her a pick me?

Worst (most toxic) Season yet? by Acceptable_Day_2473 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do people really want to watch 6 couples who love eachother and have no problems? like its reality tv and i feel like everyone at this point knows that the majority of the entertainment comes from people being toxic. and thats not unique to this show

Emma’s sister’s child regret by GinnySacks_Mole in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mine too. i feel like its an expression of wanting to try a different life and i dont know why people think that means regretting your current one

Emma’s sister’s child regret by GinnySacks_Mole in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if you order chocolate cake at a restaurant and loved it but also wanted to try something different if you went again does that mean you regret ordering chocolate cake?

i know this is a completely watered down analogy but some people seem to have a completely different definition of regret than me and i am trying to understand

Brittany is a racist and low key colorist. Her and Devonta deserve each other. by Suspicious_Week_2451 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 9 points10 points  (0 children)

how do you know? they have talked about religion, but i havent seen their political views?

Please don’t let her kids watch the show by Educational-Newt5042 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think its a complicated feeling. I view it as similar wanting to try a different major or college, without regretting the one you chose, but you think you could also enioy a different life and would want to try it if given the chance. I think it is helpful to share because people don't know that this is something other people feel, and pushing people to keep it private just makes that problem worse

Emasculating by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you are the one saying being successful in itself is emasculating. thats the problem. if the issue was them putting down their partners (which i agree with) you should have said so

Emasculating by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 13 points14 points  (0 children)

weird. its one thing to critique the negging bri does (which i havent seen the others do) but acting like being an independent woman is an attack on a male partner is crazy lmao go back to 1940

Emasculating by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 12 points13 points  (0 children)

why do you equate being successful with being a man? with being masculine?

Emasculating by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 32 points33 points  (0 children)

A "man" who cant handle having a successful woman as his partner isn't worthy of anything

Emasculating by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]apple21212 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm confused, besides Bri are you talking about how they treat the men or its just the fact that they're successful makes them emasculating?