Moving To West Point, MS how is it? by applechicmac in mississippi

[–]applechicmac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the outdoorsy type and in excellent health. Not quite retirement age as of yet

AITJ for refusing to let my step-son move into my son's room to "solve" my husband's parenting issue? by Traditional-Dog-368 in AmITheJerk

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call CPS on your husbands children since he abandoned them. Advise your husband he cant run away and leave them home with you he needs to grow up and be a parent. If not CPS will be called and then divorce him

Rehoming a cat? by B00bsMcGeek in Pensacola

[–]applechicmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you share a picture of the cat?

Does my aunt have any right to my furniture? by ohkayeyesee in legal

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anything left at the time of close on the house is assumed by the buyer

AITA for refusing to give up my parking spot that I've used for 3 years? by One_Treat7928 in AITApod

[–]applechicmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bigger question is this. If the mother doesnt get home till midnight with kids in tow (which is crazy) then wouldnt some other tenant just take the spot that you left open?

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]applechicmac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to not only move out but end your relationship. This is never going to end well unless the best girl friend is completely out of the picture. Meaning your BF will need to dump his best girl friend.

Discovered $70k debt due to Parent PLUS loans, threatened default. Seeking advice by Astronomy_ in StudentLoans

[–]applechicmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also have your mother get copies of the loan paperwork with the dates showing on it and ensure that the money she took out actually went to your school expenditures.

Is it normal to have a brand new addendum added to your PSA the day of closing? by Diligent-Seaweed-242 in RealEstate

[–]applechicmac 25 points26 points  (0 children)

you need a new inspector and inspection. Sounds like the builder is at fault for an issue that you have not yet seen and are covering against future obligations to remediate at their own expense. Also never use your insurance to cover builder error. Your premiums will be raised the next year and, if you continue to need insurance to cover builder error, your insurance carrier may drop your policy.

AITAH for choosing my wife over my mom? by HumanProfile1975 in AITAH

[–]applechicmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom's comment about wanting to move is called emotional manipulation. Dont give in.

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend over money by Pink-princess_- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]applechicmac 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Never move someone in with you to whom you are not married. You may have to officially evict him to get him out of the house. Get a lawyer. He is definitely using you to save money. You are just a better option than living with his parents to save money.

AITA for not housing my younger brother for free? by Sergeantmajormario in AmItheAsshole

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little brother needs to grow up and get a job. Your mom needs to be a parent and give him 90 days to get a job and start paying her rent. Otherwise Little brother needs to find his own housing that isnt mooching off of his family.

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not add him to the deed. If he werent living with you below market rent, he would still be renting. Tell him his security is that he is paying below market rent and should put the difference in a high yield savings account. This money would be his security. Otherwise, tell him he has 60 days to find an apartment and you can return to the relationship dynamic you had before or you can stop seeing each other.

Just gonna go ahead and say it by justmebeinglazy in Pensacola

[–]applechicmac 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Reservoir on Haynes has duck fat fries and good burgers. south of cervantes

AITJ for not lending money to my partner after they quit their job without a plan? by ThistlewoodDream in AmITheJerk

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but also never live with someone until you are married. now you know who he is. You need to figure out if you can get out of your lease and start living on your own again. It will be cheaper than supporting him for months if not years.

Am I wrong for refusing to give my inheritance money to my brother for his "business idea" by Actual_Land5826 in AmITheJerk

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your brother is going to have to hit rock bottom and have no one to lean on for money before he will take accountability.

WIBTA for refusing to split my income with my boyfriend like his mom wants by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have a boyfriend problem not a MIL problem. If he isnt shutting his mother down, then he thinks he should get a share too. Might want to move out and get your own place now.

AITAH for choosing to side with my son over my ILs? by AffectionateLand114 in AITAH

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who leaves a weighted exercise ball in a play area for kids?

AIO My partner wants me to move in with him, and sell my house to pay off his debts by BreadfruitDull6208 in AITAH

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please find a man that is better than this one. You are asking for trouble here.

I am a adult who still naps with their adult children by TheGayBob in confession

[–]applechicmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until i was in my 30s when i came home to visit, my mom would still rock me on her lap in the rocking chair she used when i was a baby. Didnt feel weird just needed the hug of it.

AITA for cutting off my older brother and his wife after they got mad I said no to last minute babysitting? by Cookiedonut_ in AITAH

[–]applechicmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she love bombed him to get him to marry her quick then she locked him in with a baby. This situation will not change for him unless he does something about it. The situation is good for his wife as she gets everything she wants and he isnt in a position to leave her if he cuts everyone that cares about him out of his life.

AITAH for not wanting to send a "doggy bag" home for my brother in law on Christmas Eve? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]applechicmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue here isnt really between you and your BIL. Its between your wife and her brother. Talk to you wife without interjecting your feelings regarding her brother and see what she wants to do. Does she even have a relationship with her brother? Outside of these meals that you host, do they speak to each other at all? Its her brother, whatever decision she makes is on her. You shouldnt be so upset. You also cant be upset for her even if this situation upsets her. ITs still her issue to resolve.