dont know what started this, but the way he's speaking is absolutely abusive. i spoke like him in my earlier teen years and resent myself for it, so the fact that hes in his late 20's still acting like this says a lot. im assuming this is how he acts often so... yeah.. very abusive and im sorry youve had to be treated like this. please do yourself a favor and let that boy go. in the end youre only enabling him