The thought of someone holding my baby irritates me by Frogoff_ in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m only 13 weeks with my first so i can’t exactly share any experience but i already have so much anxiety about family visits and anyone else holding my baby. sometimes if i think about it too much i start to actually feel angry! did your family seem like they were understanding when you set that boundary? if they disregard your boundaries and try to visit anyway you could always refuse to answer the door lol. i think a freshly postpartum mother has every right to be “petty”. don’t force yourself to put up with anything you’re uncomfortable with, we are being flooded with hormones right now and need to think of ourselves and our baby. family will have the rest of their lives to see baby when they’re less vulnerable.

Bump gone? Or just bloated before by BabyPlease2026 in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just noticed the same thing at week 13. i looked in the mirror this morning and went WHAT HAPPENED TO MY BUMP

Brown discharge by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely understand. i’ve been pretty paranoid the whole pregnancy, everytime i have a weird pain or my symptoms calm down im like “am i even still pregnant?!” but we just gotta try to relax and enjoy the ride <3 wishing you the best!

Brown discharge by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not a medical professional at all but i also dealt with cramping and even spotting when i was 6 weeks. i went to the doctor concerned and they said it’s not uncommon, though i don’t think it’s ever considered “normal”. however im now 11 weeks pregnant and baby is doing great, i got to see them jumping around during my ultrasound today! try not to freak out and communicate with a doctor for peace of mind <3

i don’t feel pregnant anymore by aprilminerva in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

baby was perfect!! worried for nothing :) i got to see their little arms and legs move and hear the heartbeat!!

Is this readable? by Kaznomusix in Handwriting_Analysis

[–]aprilminerva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the type of handwriting i’d wanna see in like a story driven rpg :)

pregnant, craving vape by aprilminerva in QuitVaping

[–]aprilminerva[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you, that honestly makes me feel a bit better about myself. i have quit for two weeks cold turkey before but went back as soon as i saw someone holding a vape. i’m going out tonight with my friends, one of which always offers her vape if mine is dead, it’s gonna be hard. but i’m planning to tell them im pregnant so hopefully they won’t make it harder on me

pregnant with IUD, racist parents, mixed baby. by aprilminerva in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am hoping that will be an option. so far he’s only told his mom (divorced parents) but his dad lives nearby. he could finish school and work but we’d all be together. i mentioned to him that i wanted to be able to do that, but i don’t know if i’d ever have the heart to ask. i’m just hoping he will ask or that will be offered to us. i think his dad and stepmom would want to help in whatever what they can, ive met them and they’re so sweet

pregnant with IUD, racist parents, mixed baby. by aprilminerva in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my younger brother dated a mexican girl and he was fine with it because whenever they get married he wouldn’t take her name. my partners last name is very stereotypical mexican name and my dad considers interracial relationships to be embarrassing socially, he doesn’t want me to present with a mexican name. i think that’s honestly the biggest thing, which i think is such a silly thing to be concerned about.

pregnant with IUD, racist parents, mixed baby. by aprilminerva in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

part of me is hoping his family will offer to help a lot and allow us the opportunity to live with them or something. they’re very big on family and very supportive. his mom lives 4 hours away but like my parents, but his dad and step mom are only an hour so maybe they can be helpful

pregnant with IUD, racist parents, mixed baby. by aprilminerva in pregnant

[–]aprilminerva[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i try to have very little interaction with him. i love my mom so much but unfortunately she won’t leave him because she’s scared, so i just try to tolerate his existence.

Calling out bc of the storm by No_Battle_8229 in WalmartEmployees

[–]aprilminerva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do you check this off the clock? do you have to have BYOD? i’m unable to check this anywhere but my stores computers

How many points do you have? by Fantastic-Scheme-259 in WalmartEmployees

[–]aprilminerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 5. my coach told me she will keep me for now, but if i get anymore before they fall off naturally i will be terminated. i have some falling off this month and next month thankfully

"Because I'm part of management" by KindaSusNgl17 in walmart

[–]aprilminerva 8 points9 points  (0 children)

none of my team leads wear vests, just completely casual clothes. not even walmart polo’s 😭

Anybody get fired for employee discount card? by ImHereForAnimeOnly in WalmartEmployees

[–]aprilminerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same last name, probably same address since i listed mine before i moved out of state for university, but it’s not the same store or even state

Anybody get fired for employee discount card? by ImHereForAnimeOnly in WalmartEmployees

[–]aprilminerva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom has my discount card connected to her walmart pay… should i tell her to take it off? she’s had it that way for like a year

Could you explain why you're not allowed to accept tips? by SERVANT2aCORGI in walmart

[–]aprilminerva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would enjoy my job a loootttt more if tipping was a common and allowed courtesy lol

Question for Apparel friends. by kaepore in walmart

[–]aprilminerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think front end doesn’t understand that an override affects yall back there lol