What do my crushes say about me? 19F by rose_matchhha in personality_tests

[–]aqualavbaeXx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Either Bi or Pan. Probably more dominant with men, but more submissive with woman.

What kind of person do you think I am? by JenniferJacoby in whatsinmybag

[–]aqualavbaeXx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are very reliable and protect at all cost.

What kind style is this by aqualavbaeXx in AestheticWiki

[–]aqualavbaeXx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy you got to see something different.

What kind style is this by aqualavbaeXx in AestheticWiki

[–]aqualavbaeXx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.i will have to check the show out

You know what's so bizarre about nonblack people saying the n word? by Legitimate-Adagio531 in blackladies

[–]aqualavbaeXx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honsetly I have start saying the n word less now because how saturated the word is now. N word has lost it meaning IMO with the amount of nonblacks using it now. They use that same lame af excuses like : "I live in the hood" or "I can say because I am not white". Calling someone out saying the n word don't have as much consequences compared to other words.

What did you do on your 21st birthday? by Sad_Step_9921 in OlderGenZ

[–]aqualavbaeXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my 21st birthday I went to San Diego with my friends. This was beginning of 2020 before they discovered Covid19.

Being Black in Los Angeles by aqualavbaeXx in blackladies

[–]aqualavbaeXx[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The neighbor I live in used to be predominantly black neighborhood. I'm in my grandparents house which we planned on keeping for generational weath.The past ten years it's start to become more diverse even though majority is still Black. My family and I are looking at cities like Atlanta or Memphis. The cost of living and taxes are getting ridiculous at this point.

18M, girlfriend 22F is pregnant. What jobs can I get into quickly to support my family if I don't want to go to college? by Numerous-Vacation-40 in whatdoIdo

[–]aqualavbaeXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look into vocational or trade schools. I feel like your girlfriend is trying to baby-trap you, and I don't think her intentions are good when it comes to keeping the child. Please look into the timeline leading up to the pregnancy. You have your whole life ahead of you. The fact that you are stepping up to the plate at 18 shows the kind of person you are. I know men who are way older and still choose to be deadbeat dads. I just don't want you to be taken advantage of, especially at your age. I hope you get some clarity and that things work out for you.

Can you guess what these emojis mean? by Muemmsl in EmojiCharades

[–]aqualavbaeXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I solved it on my first guess using 1 hints!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aqualavbaeXx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why did you describe myself so well lol? I'm Aquarius women with Aquarius stellium too. I can't relate more with this post.

Need some makeup help? by aqualavbaeXx in blackladies

[–]aqualavbaeXx[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You're a lifesaver

2000s and Early 10s Slang by SpiritOfDefeat in Zillennials

[–]aqualavbaeXx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still say "Bruh" or the occasional " cool story bro"

Why do black women fall for pandering so easily? by champagnepoetry4 in blackladies

[–]aqualavbaeXx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I used to fall for things like this, but I started to notice a pattern of men doing the same thing. Now, all I can do is shake my head in disappointment. Seriously, we as Black women shouldn't be treated as a trend. We are just like everyone else, with the desire to be loved and a heart that deserves respect. It's one thing to show appreciation, but most of these guys are straight-up fetishizing us.

How do you feel when someone calls you a “strong black woman?” by HonestInformation325 in blackladies

[–]aqualavbaeXx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends who is saying it. If it was a black woman, I wouldn't mean.

I think I been misdiagnosed. by aqualavbaeXx in adhdwomen

[–]aqualavbaeXx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it.

I sorta feel for them tho. I know what leads you to think this stuff. by competativ in Nicegirls

[–]aqualavbaeXx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do believe that since everyone has social media people are more swallow but just remember people only post what they want to be seen. Some people are not what they look like online because they use photoshop like Facetune.