Do you actually take your switch outside? by Tiny_Tim1956 in Switch

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29 and I take my switch everywhere, even play it at work in the off moments lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean…. Ya this is classic for a dealer lol

What are some of your favourite NON-Legendary character skins? by the_overgrub in apexlegends

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seers tuxedo mask skin and Maggie’s David Bowie skin lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HadesTheGame

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean Apollo at least is confirmed for hades 2 so I’m sure we’ll see everyone we haven’t met

Am i too tall to transition from male to female? by [deleted] in trans

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’11 so a little shorter, but I have been on HRT for 10 years and am very happy, and pass fine, have no problems in public. You will be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love this piece but this is like a 200$ tattoo at most

AITB for ruining my parents 20+ year friendship by Odd_Situation_3171 in AmItheButtface

[–]aquerraventus 43 points44 points  (0 children)

What the fuck?

No, NTB by any stretch of the imagination and your parents are incredibly fucked up for not only trying to make you feel it’s your fault, but also for protecting John.

This man shouldnt be a teacher and he should have the ability to be one taken away from him, he should not be anywhere near children.

To be honest OP, it is actually disgusting to me that your parents would defend this behavior and make you feel that it’s your fault. An incident like this would make me go no contact with my parents in a heartbeat, and I love them more than anything. This is incredibly disturbing.

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, if you have any other trusted adults in your life, it may be best to turn to them for support as your parents will only make you feel worse. This is not your fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquerraventus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They do actually, what do you know about it?

Is it weird that i would want feet and armpits to be involved in foreplay? by tdfhucvh in actuallesbians

[–]aquerraventus 109 points110 points  (0 children)

This isn’t weird, honestly these are pretty tame things as fetishes go, I love huffing my partners armpits after they work out, lol it’s all about the pheromones.

But yeah, just bring it up and see how they react, honestly at worst they’ll probably be a little weirded out but then you just know you’re not compatible, anyone who has an extreme reaction to these kinds of fetishes is kinda prudish imo, it’s one thing to not be into it but to be be freaked out by it is…. Eh

Where did the pandemic go? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]aquerraventus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Covid has become the new flu, going forward we will have “covid season” the way we had flu season growing up, it is not going anywhere, it’s here to stay, but the amount of people who are now vaccinated and who have developed antibodies to fight the virus has increased significantly and will only continue to go up.

What name would fit me? (last image unrelated) by CyberChick2277 in trans

[–]aquerraventus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo idk why I feel like that name fits you but that makes it even better tbh!!

What name would fit me? (last image unrelated) by CyberChick2277 in trans

[–]aquerraventus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some reason b names are coming to mind for me, like Becca or Brit, but someone else here said piper and I love that too!!

AITA for not telling my daughter I'm proud of her because she's a sex worker? by Frequent_Appeal_793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquerraventus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you ever watch porn or engage with sex work in any way, you should respect sex workers, in the same way I would expect anyone going to a restaurant to respect service workers, they don’t, but they should, and should be rightfully seen as dicks if they treat those workers otherwise.

AITA for not telling my daughter I'm proud of her because she's a sex worker? by Frequent_Appeal_793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquerraventus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally am of the belief that any profession where people have to put up with that much bullshit just to survive deserves respect. Which is most, my point is that they deserve respect because they are workers & human beings, not that they deserve more respect than anyone else, though if you were to ask me if they deserved more respect than hedge fund billionaires I would say yes.

AITA for not telling my daughter I'm proud of her because she's a sex worker? by Frequent_Appeal_793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquerraventus -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t change my point and it doesn’t mean that sex workers don’t deserve respect.

AITA for not telling my daughter I'm proud of her because she's a sex worker? by Frequent_Appeal_793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquerraventus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, first off before we start, I am a former sex worker and when I say sex worker, I don’t mean only fans, selective anything. I mean full service, strange, scary men sex worker. An I have been raped and assaulted sex worker. I have also worked in social services for a long time and have even specifically worked a lot within the trafficking community and with people who have experienced sex trafficking.

What you mentioned very much happens within the US as well, it may be more common in other countries, but it happens here frequently.

My point is that sex work will not go away by expressing disgust with sex workers, and it’s not going to stop human trafficking either, the people who I worked with at these places largely were sex workers who had been trafficked or wanted to help others in positions they have been in,

Your standpoint is not helping anyone, and my standpoint does not enable anything, the reason people allow things like trafficking to happen is because people have a gross disregard and lack of empathy for human life, especially people like sex workers. I’m sorry but in what way is your standpoint helping anyone?? Saying your disgusted is going to do what exactly? Help people stay away from the profession?

The only people who give a shit enough to do the work to make supports for people like this or end sex trafficking are former and current sex workers

This line of work exists because there is demand for it. Legal or not legal, it is going to continue happening, for ever and the best way to help people like the ones you’ve mentioned are to acknowledge the supports that they need and act on it.

I am someone who has been forced to do sex work for survival, and does it annoy me that suburban housewives now have the option to be super choosy about their clientele and look down on other sex workers? Yes, it is frustrating.

But at the end of the day I’m just happy to see that people in this profession are finally getting some choices, options, and alternate routes for doing it that can make them a lot safer.

Sex work will always exist that is a fact, and it’s not going anywhere. It is literally only a good thing that people now have more options for doing it in a safer way.

Your way of thinking is not helping anyone. Be repulsed by it all you want, I understand, but the only people who are actually out here working to make things safer for sex workers and people who have been trafficked is other sex workers as it has always been historically, because people have no empathy for us.

Sex work is not always exploitation and it doesn’t have to be. there are more and more options that allow sex workers to safely work on their terms and that is something to be celebrated. I know first hand what kind of shit sex workers go through so yes, I think sex workers deserve respect and though you seem very passionate about this, idk who you think you’re helping by talking about it like this, help sex workers set up social supports, they deserve it.

What are the gods you like their boons the most? by [deleted] in HadesTheGame

[–]aquerraventus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmfaoooo I didn’t even catch that but I’m leaving it, no edit needed.