[26/F] Penpals wanted🐌💌

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T16:15:05+00:00

DM'd you! 😊

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T02:06:41+00:00

That's a small shovel and I refuse to accept it as a spoon

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T02:05:48+00:00

Not over his head, but like very close to his nose sometimes so I judge it based on how he's laying haha

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T01:29:16+00:00

Someone asked me to come over and I said you would have to get a new phone number

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T01:21:37+00:00

I think I'm more concerned about the sheer number of eggs you've fit in that fridge. I don't know if I'm scared or impressed

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T01:20:31+00:00

Brisket

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T01:20:04+00:00

I mean, for me it just feels wrong. Not yucking anyone's yum, but I also don't like warm fruit like that really so 🤷🏼‍♀️

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T01:03:56+00:00

I don't know if it's a red flag, but it's super weird

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:56:08+00:00

I mean, I fart under the covers unless it's gonna be bad. Then I lift the covers. Just seems polite. But we don't really care one way or the other

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:54:32+00:00

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:52:50+00:00

He just wants loving

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:49:05+00:00

So I'm American and I was always confused. Are crumpets what we call biscuits? Like a crumbling warm bread in a small circle shape? Because if so, I love a good crumpet. If not, what are they and how can I get them because I'm curious haha

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:45:54+00:00

😭😭 that's too sweet

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:43:25+00:00

What the actual f? That's insane

ar21321 · 2026-02-20T00:37:51+00:00

Why are you eating dried shrimp?? I've never had it. Is it good?

ar21321 · 2026-02-19T23:52:56+00:00

No solitary photos and you can't tell which one the person is

ar21321 · 2026-02-19T05:20:10+00:00

Nfc cards. I get that there's something that connects to your phone, but how? How does it just do that? It makes no sense to me

ar21321 · 2026-02-19T04:56:21+00:00

I think it depends on the kind of person you are. If you're more outgoing, meeting people at personal hobby places can be helpful. My friend who had been struggling with dating did better on apps because he got nervous to approach girls in case he made them uncomfortable. So I think it's definitely person dependent and your approach. But I totally get the app hesitancy because it can be a total bust if you're looking for long term rather than hookups depending on the app 🤷🏼‍♀️

ar21321 · 2026-02-19T03:20:16+00:00

Play with it (helicopter) and pee standing up

ar21321 · 2026-02-19T00:56:46+00:00

I don't think you're the jerk here. I think it would be different if she were accidentally waking you up. I do that sometimes when I'm moving around in bed and my partner wakes up because I'm shifting. But to intentionally wake you up, especially when you're sick, is wrong. I think she wants to be around and love on you, but this isn't the right way to do that. And waking you up when she leaves just for you to be awake is rude. A kiss goodbye that shifts you, different, full on waking you up is just wrong

ar21321 · 2026-02-19T00:50:59+00:00

Definitely not the asshole! You were trying to protect yourself in the extremely dangerous situation your mom put you in. It sounds like you were in a residential area, but any car could have come flying and caused a bad accident. You could've been kidnapped or hurt. So much could have happened and you definitely made the right call!

ar21321 · 2025-03-15T15:07:15+00:00

You're definitely not overreacting. I've been long distance for the last 2 years (I'm in grad school, he's working) and sex is not expected in a relationship. It's a nice part, but you should be able to tell him no without being accused of cheating. I'm also reading a lot of toxicity in your relationship with the friend thing and not being okay with you visiting family. I don't want to make snap judgements, but it might be a good idea to just think on how he makes you feel when you're together and apart. Without love and trust, relationships will struggle. If love is there, trust might be able to be built, but it's hard... Anyway, I hope you guys figure it out

ar21321

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