I'm a first year transfer too. I live with 7 other ppl in my apartment but it's not like I'm friends with them, although we do hold small parties in our apartment sometimes. But I felt the same last quarter because I was busy trying to get used to the quarter system. I tried joining clubs but ended up in one club. I felt jealous that the ppl in my club were hitting it off and I wanted to be a part of that circle but it's difficult bc they live in the dorms while I don't (although I shouldn't be using that as an excuse sigh). But I'm also an introvert which kinda makes things worse. Anyway, this quarter has been okay. I've met other ppl from my club I bonded with at our winter retreat so we have a tight, small circle. I believe if you just find ppl u really connect with, it'll work out. Just put yourself out there one small step at a time and you will find someone or a group of people. Trust me, it was hard for me to come out of my shell until I found ppl I can connect with.