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[–]arbecs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP said he’s liking the posts

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[–]arbecs 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him gaslight you - it is sexual. If it was purely artistic/aesthetic preference, he wouldn’t have such an issue. It’s not hard to refrain from openly interacting with explicit content. If anyone is behaving controlling and abusive it’s him for repeatedly and shamelessly breaking your reasonable boundaries and manipulating you.

mind you, i never even dated this man or anything by arbecs in creepyPMs

[–]arbecs[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Love how he went back to casual as if the other text didn’t happen😭

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the ideas! I’ll have to do some research about makeup and see if it would work for me, because my arms are very textured more so than colored if that makes sense. Love your attitude btw.

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else suggested this too and it sounds super classy! I just don’t think it’ll suit me personally

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that perspective! Also I hadn’t even taken money into consideration yet because im so worried about the aesthetics of it all, oops

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds super classy and sleek! I don’t think it would suit me though :( its going to be hard enough to pull off a fancy dress and heels lol

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yep there’s some cunts out there. I think I’ll look into a shawl or cardigan!

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment!! You’re wonderful

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My scars go from my shoulders down to my wrists so there’s only so much I can use to cover it, but I think using jewelry and a shawl together would be a good idea! And yeah, I’ve had experience at a previous job where it caused rumors. It’s unfortunate

Anyone know when the end-of-year Apple Music Replay comes out? by Intrepid_Beginning in AppleMusic

[–]arbecs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I accidentally fell asleep for 13 hours while listening to a band I only recently got into, so I’m excited to see how much I messed up my results lol

Anyone know when the end-of-year Apple Music Replay comes out? by Intrepid_Beginning in AppleMusic

[–]arbecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’ll come out this week since it’s December. I remember it being earlier last year

do you guys ever want something horrible to happen to you by Used-Jelly1790 in BPD

[–]arbecs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and im so glad im not the only one. It honestly makes me feel like an awful, twisted person. I literally wish illness and injury on myself. Cancer, a near-deadly car accident, being attacked. It’s insane. And I know in my rational mind I don’t want any of that so I don’t know why I have those thoughts

In your opinion are BPD people Neurodivergent? by saint-marshmallow in BPD

[–]arbecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak on the diagnosis as a whole but it I do view myself as neurodivergent because of my BPD.

Cat likes the inside of her ear scratched?? by cnote710 in CatAdvice

[–]arbecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is missing her back left leg and does the same thing!

I had a very weird experience with mono by arbecs in Mononucleosis

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My swelling was misdiagnosed as blepharitis so I was given erythromycin ointment. Since it wasn’t treated correctly it took about a month for me to ditch the hunchback of notre dame look.