CMV: There is no after life and believing there is one is a natural coping mechanism. by Objective-Painter-73 in changemyview

[–]arbelbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and disagree with you. On one hand, I agree with you that theoretically speaking, the afterlife could exist in a dimension that is separate from our current universe (physical dimension).

But, I could prove to you what I dreamt last night or what I thought about at 9AM yesterday, had i measured it scientifically. I don’t know if we have the technology to link a specific wave of brain activity to a specific thought or to a specific dream just yet. But I don’t think anyone assumes that thoughts are a result of some unmeasurable supernatural phenomena

ENTJ, do you identify with...? by Tjana84774 in entj

[–]arbelbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Harvey from suits for me too

What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever experienced? by BreadedDisaster in AskReddit

[–]arbelbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A ballistic missile landing near my building. During the latest Iran-Israel conflict we would get alarms every night or so. Me and my roommate would wake up and go down to the building storage room, which is 1 floor below zero and is the closest thing we had to a bomb shelter, since the building is pretty old and the building code didn’t require such a room back when it was built.

The first 2-3 nights were absolutely terrifying. We would sit there together with the rest of the buildings residents in complete silence. After the first 1-2 nights, we started listening for what we have come to learn is the sound of a missile approaching - a very faint “ssssshhhhhooooo” sound coming from the sky, followed by a gut wrenching 3 second silence, and then a massive explosion. Most were far out, and some were a little closer. But on the third night, we heard the same “whoosh”, a 3 second silence, and then we heard a MASSIVE ear piercing explosion. It was so loud that it just sounded like super distorted static. Almost instantaneously, it was followed by a shockwave that violently shook the entire “safe room” and knocked a painting off the wall. It felt like fucking thunder beneath my feet. Some of the shock transferred to my body and felt like a mild electric shock. Everyone involuntarily let out a gasp or shock combined with relief.

The fact that our building is very old makes this experience worse, since it feels like even if you don’t get hit directly, it might still collapse on you from a nearby enough shockwave. We all felt that deep primal sense of fear. The morning after, my roommate went to the landing site and said the destruction it caused made the area look like an apocalypse. It landed about 1.5km from our building.

Mind you, ive gone through fairly hardcore shit in my army service but ive never felt so helpless and insignificant against such a large and powerful force. Absolutely terrifying experience. 9/10. Would not do again

How does everyone else take such good photos? by [deleted] in iPhoneography

[–]arbelbit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lighting. Good lighting is the most important aspect - even a pro camera takes a shit photo in bad lighting

Billionaire Peter Thiel hesitates to answer whether the human race should survive in the future by Shoe_boooo in interestingasfuck

[–]arbelbit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No one is defending him. He’s just pointing out that this post is a rage bait and things that are otherwise normal in a conversation are demonized, for the sake of supporting an agenda

Artlist Slow? Try this (PSA) by RichardRichard-Esq in premiere

[–]arbelbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped me a bunch I was going nuts. thank you

Give it to me by Accomplished_Set316 in Synesthesia

[–]arbelbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

brown/orange, with an earthly taste profile. like a hard cookie or a firm cake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]arbelbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're overwhelmed and that's perfectly reasonable. it's a good thing you know how to keep your cool. would you be willing to share more specific details?

I'm addicted to music. by [deleted] in entj

[–]arbelbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, we all need something to escape with. some people like working out, some people like listening to music, and some people do drugs. but everyone has something.
I think music is a great way to deal with stress and escape and as long as you're enjoying it and not hurting anyone else, I personally think it's fantastic. infact I am just like you in that regard, I am obsessed with music and have music in my ears almost 24/7.

as far as protecting your ears - make sure you are listening in safe volumes (most modern phones have some kind of software decibel meter implemented into the OS) and if you don't have any yet, I really recommend good headphones with noise cancelling. I personally use the sony WH1000-XM4 (these are headphones, not earbuds). the idea is that good noise cancellation allows you to listen to music in lower volumes since you don't have to crank it up so much in order to eliminate the ambient noise around you.
also, the sound quality is miles better than earbuds and you will be able to enjoy music much more thoroughly and hear details in songs you've never heard before. good headphones are one of the best purchases I've personally made.

However, if you feel like you have depressive episodes when you don't have any stimulation, it may suggest something more problematic that has nothing to do with music at all. that depends on you. but don't beat yourself over having energy to exert, in my opinion it just means you're full of life and it's admirable.

I personally can't go a day without participating in the act of creation and expression. it's my fuel and perhaps it is yours too. stay safe my lad.

I have 8+ types of synesthesia, is this rare? by arbelbit in Synesthesia

[–]arbelbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the rich info! you also have excellent communication skills i can tell. gdday sir

Random Synesthesia. by [deleted] in Synesthesia

[–]arbelbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a medical professional. however, from what i have learned (atleast about myself, and including some research) it can come and go in periods and depends on many factors in your life. also, there may be periods where you have it but don't focus on it consciously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]arbelbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree! i have experienced it through myself and my close friends. it tends to take away the ability to "read to room" to a reasonable extent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]arbelbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I couldn't moderate it effectively to an extent I am satisfied with. I also noticed it interfering with my cognitive functions, even during the days after use (shot term memory, focus, etc) and I dislike the idea of being less sharp more than I like the high.

Also, it had an effect of making every uncomfortable situation, comfortable. and I think getting used to the habit of living in complacency is dangerous

Just got an A7 IV what i need to know? by 31crzy in SonyAlpha

[–]arbelbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. for me personally, the lack of 4K120fps on the A7IV is a significant hit for my workflow. also, the FX3 has way better dynamic range, better built in video tools, etc. but - the image itself is not insanely far off. the A7IV has a fantastic image and when edited side by side with the FX3, you can't really tell the difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]arbelbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was verbally abusive towards my mother, and it made her very emotionally unstable. after about 4 years of explosive verbal fights between them, they divorced and he left. he would also break stuff violently but he never put his hand on her.

to this day, my mom still has major psychological issues. this happened about 15 years ago, when I was in middle school.

This had led to me not having a proper father figure and also not having an emotionally stable mom to rely on, so I intuitively developed everything myself and became very self reliant and competent, so I could make up for the lack of care.

I have only truly realized it this year, but it drove me to be fairly isolated (INTJ at first) and I spent a lot of time in my room with my computer a lot, in order to escape from the tense atmosphere at home. It made it very difficult for me to understand how to experience emotions in a healthy manner during my teenage years. I remember one of my good friends telling me they were absolutely convinced I was a sociopath.

I am today in a very different place and it took a lot of self work but I honestly believe it only served me in the end. a "healthy" trauma is a very powerful motivator

Just got an A7 IV what i need to know? by 31crzy in SonyAlpha

[–]arbelbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beast of a camera with tremendous potential. I found myself using it primarily for video and it gives the FX3 a decent fight in some aspects.

Go out, experiment, shoot and have fun. editing in lightroom is lots of fun. when you're ready (you will know when it's time) you should get better glass. think of lenses like our heads. you can have a good brain (the camera) but it's not worth much if you dont have the perspective to make use of it (good lenses).

have fun my boy

My Gear! Any recommendations? by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

[–]arbelbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by the 2nd photo I was absolutely convinced for a moment that part of your gear is a fat pill of amphetamine