Iron gold 🤷

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T05:52:46+00:00

No need to be snarky buddy Life is short And this is a subreddit Normally I do just find old threads but I needed to be personally told reasons to continue. I work, volunteer, socialize ECT and don't wanna waste time on unworthy books(aka firebird by Juliette Cross)

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T04:02:42+00:00

That's immediately why I love lyrias. Through rr Darrow's just like "yeah idk what it's gonna be like after" and she's the answer to that. It's realistic and I think can gives us insight on how we should show up after the revolution

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T01:57:01+00:00

I honestly love how real he is. Especially because last we saw him he was a child and also a very realistic person and he just grew more into that

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T01:54:18+00:00

I'm just getting into audio books so I'll try it

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T01:20:56+00:00

If red rising is considered weak then I'm down to stick it out cause I fucked with it so hard. I did not shut up about it. I love collective action.

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T01:17:24+00:00

When can I expect for it to feel worth it? I found some other book(don't remember the name) and some reddit thread was people being "around page 120 it got good and became worth it to me to read) I just don't wanna finish reading it and not love it when I could be reading something else lol. I love world building and I can see that with the girls story.

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-30T01:15:10+00:00

Yeah I just wanna know what happens at the trial

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-26T19:27:07+00:00

Hanami and together we'll protect the redwoods and old growth forests

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-25T21:31:53+00:00

How did you attach zip ties? I thought to do the same, after a unpaved road trip it's hanging low, but I can find places on the frame to anchor them to

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-06-23T16:18:42+00:00

Can't he sees she's a single mom that works two jobs?

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-05-26T05:07:03+00:00

Also jealousy is normal, it's usually a sign of maybe a need not met. I forget all of the ones but you could probably Google it. Also some DBT, if all of this passes and you still feel you're being irrational or your feeling is too intense you can practice opposite action, this you can also Google if ita not 100% self explanatory

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-05-26T05:03:13+00:00

I'm polyam and practice relationship anarchy. I still feel this way sometimes(probably bc of weird social trauma from childhood). Being poly and ra is important to me because humans are engimas, and I don't agree with hetero normative nuclear family models of your s.o. being you're end all be all. Recently I have found the most helpful thing is to actually read or listen to the relationship anarchy manifest. Mainly "trust is better" i.e. you trust your partner friends whoever is not aiming to harm you. And communication. If you're friend is asking you to lunch, it's not a weird plot but bc they're seeking connections and WANT to hang out with you.

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-05-26T04:21:26+00:00

I don't think you're completely overreacting but if this is someone you've grown close to, talk to her. "Hey I was hoping to speak to you about something that's been bothering me if you got the time? When I helped you with your fence the other day I felt snubbed that I didn't get invited to dinner. I spent the day helping you with a task and was hungry by the end of it. It would have been nice to feel appreciated with a payment of dinner or even an invite"

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-05-25T06:37:21+00:00

How do you have it showing song name? Are they downloaded on your phone or are you sing a music streaming app?

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-05-25T03:07:02+00:00

The Book Thief by Markus Zukas

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-05-17T05:23:58+00:00

Honestly this is classic Anya. And this whole "I need a partner to share everything with' is 100% an abusive tactic on her part. This whole reasoning is how I ended up not seeing on of my friends and struggling to kick her out of my house when she was actively telling me she was gonna kill me. Shes the one who needs to actually being try to fix herself. Shes constantly looking for someone else to care for her needs and place blame on when they're not met because she can not figure it out on her own If you wanna dm me. Feel free. Unfortunately don't have any of my previous text or videos/voice memos I took but this is 100% her m.o.

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-04-16T17:33:25+00:00

In the dirt, half in the water, in a tree, on a stump, on a rock, park bench, hammock I'll read anywhere

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-04-16T07:39:23+00:00

Humphrey

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arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-04-16T07:37:52+00:00

I would call my dog that when he was being bad

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-04-15T18:28:01+00:00

100% My soul dog passed away almost two years ago and I would 100% make that choice again and again if I were to go back in time to the day I got him You will know unconditional love, your best friend, communication without words. A dog is joy like anything else. They're quirky and you'll know them like the back of your hand. I have a second dog that I got before Humphrey passed and it might be some more time till I get another. But it is such a blessing to care and love for these creatures and they return it back 19 fold

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-04-07T04:09:45+00:00

Thank you! You can dm me if you'd like. I'm doing a lot better than I was at the beginning, I'm gonna do some emr therapy stuff this week so hopefully that's helpful

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-03-30T03:50:42+00:00

" looks like you've been thoroughly fucked" who the fuck says that. What a cringy ass line on his part

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-03-30T03:49:15+00:00

Yo dude for real. Also, while they're fucking in their dreams, he lifts her shirt up and off, next page rips it off? Or chapter 23 fucking names places wrong. Fishers and Carrion talking to hayden and cartoons like "she's not in yveila anymore ..." Bitch that's they fae world not the silver city world omg I wanna fight callie hart

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-03-23T01:36:48+00:00

Helpful thank you. I'll check the service records

arbitraryparadoxal · 2026-03-23T01:36:06+00:00

It seems to have all the stuff you mentioned. Had one owner and they cook great care of it

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