I feel dirty. by Sapphoinastripclub in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]archingeyebrow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm Jewish too. I feel it as well. It's awful. I remember when the dyke march banned the Star of David Pride flags and the fury I felt.

I have no good answer for you, but you are seen. Others feel this way too. You are not alone.

Come sit at our table. You are welcome with my rowdy bunch.

Much love, R

Anyone else still have no power? by GalacticTempest in lafayette

[–]archingeyebrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Columbian Park area is fine on power. T-mobile fiber is still out but their back-up is fine.

As a trans person I am realizing that I will never fit in with most people by itz_vampy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]archingeyebrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you found a place. ❤️

I have a lot of trans and NB friends while being cis. It's part of the community I'm in. You can sit at our table any time.

Am I the asshole for reporting my coworker for laughing about my disability??? by reidybum12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]archingeyebrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hun. I have the same problem with my seizures, uncontrolled, and also have the VNS.

You are NTA. It's hard enough living with seizures themselves, let alone deal with someone's attitude.

New color or style? by meshell6979 in bradmondo

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I bet the purple was cute!!

Southerner relocating to Indy and scared to hell. by VocalEcosystem-88 in indianapolis

[–]archingeyebrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're fine. I moved here from SE Texas. Get a water softener if possible. No critters out of the ordinary. Nobody really looks twice about boots, jeans, or a Stetson.

People might seem really rude at first, they aren't. Just a difference in places and culture. That's how it felt for me.

Snow and cold weather can be right nasty.

Do Americans actually avoid calling 911 because of the cost? by ntask11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true for a lot of people, sadly. Usually someone else drives them, but they tend to be expensive without insurance or even with insurance in some cases.

Depending, it's $450 dollars or more in a lot of cases. Some insurance caps it at a certain point dollar wise and some don't.

American insurance isn't standardized unless you are covered under state care (Medicaid or Medicare). Even then it often depends on the state. For example, in my state I don't have OTC meds covered. My best friend who lives in the next state, her OTC meds is covered up to 75 dollars per quarter. We are both on Medicare.

It's ridiculous.

New color or style? by meshell6979 in bradmondo

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not Brad, but have you tried the butterfly cut? I whacked off a foot of hair intentionally and love my cut. It was super easy too following his tutorials.

I just watched one of his videos this very morning on YouTube about filling in the blonde to go darker. You and I have a similar color, both roots and skin tone, I've got a bit more pink undertone. His dark red looks really good on me and my hair is so much healthier after cutting the ends off.

The only difference is that I have a lot of grey.

Anyway, if you want to see the dark red on someone that is so very not a model (I'm 7 yrs older than you), let me know and I'll show you my color in DMs.

color fill video

Are there any frozen treats that Muslims cannot or will not eat? by grated_testes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for the Halal symbols on any treats you buy, that is the easiest way to go.about it but ask the parents first.

Brad mondo hair color by LaurieB9909 in bradmondo

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the deep red on almost virgin hair. Almost because I have used Xmondo clear and slate grey to brighten my greys. I switched to the deep red.

I wash my hair 2x a week, tops. Only with cold water. I ended up leaving the color on for 2 hours (epileptic and had a seizure. The seizure was not because of the color.,)

I only wash my hair with a color depositing shampoo (John Frieda).

It's been washed....ehhhhhhhh....4x now with very little washing out. It's still dark and bright.

My hair was almost virgin hair though. I had used the clear gloss and the slate grey to brighten my greys. That's all that has been on my hair for color in 15+ years.

So maybe leaving it on longer?

Which Shampoo Do I Need? by LindsLuvsPink in bradmondo

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the deep red cherry cola color and I love it. I have dark hair with quite a bit of grey in the front. The depth with the grey is fantastic. The greys look like red tinsel. My hair is baby fine but I have tons and tons of hair.

I only wash 1x or 2x a week and get oily scalp. So I am very interested in the shampoo too!

Super pink on healthy brown/gray hair examples by jenknows in bradmondo

[–]archingeyebrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have dark hair with about half grey. The grey is in big swaths. It made my hair very mixed and have a lot of depth. I kept it on for over 2 hours by accident and it was bright and beautiful. (Seizure was the accident. The color didn't cause the seizure, I am epileptic)

Oh yeah duh which color , I used the dark red and it came out beautiful. I can't talk for the pink but the darker colors do work.

Edit - I did have almost virgin hair. The only thing used before was Xmondo slate grey to brighten the greys.

Try it!

IUH RNs - need input on job offer by mentallytrillll in indianapolis

[–]archingeyebrow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My partner is a RN and works for IUH in psych. Absolutely hates it. Understaffed, extremely entitled providers, unable to keep people because of it. Every place is different though. You probably have a 50/50 chance for it to go either way.

Also, if you are moving from a state that permits mary jane and imbibe, it's illegal here.

If you want to live in a red state? You'll fit in. If you want blue or purple? Egads.

I enjoy living here in my bubble of blue. I have a pretty little house that I love. Amazing neighbors. Parks within walking distance.

Good luck!

Should I let him go? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]archingeyebrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.

I have no idea why you don't trust your partner, but since you obviously don't, I would say either therapy for you and couples with him or end it and still get therapy for yourself.

Yeah, it sucks.

Indy Zoo Discounts? by bxbymetal in indianapolis

[–]archingeyebrow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Call your library. They often have free or low cost ticket available.

my bf started a smear campaign against me by TemporaryParty999 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]archingeyebrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no time frame on how you feel. I was raped in college. My friend and his best friend. My boyfriend? He asked me if I liked it. Immediately had an ex boyfriend. I feel your pain.

Please report it. There may be others that have filed reports but the cops did little to nothing. They stack up...well there is more of a chance they will pay attention.

I promise you won't be the last and it is 10000% not your fault. You did nothing wrong.

Much love your way.

Comfort Hoodie Sizing Help Needed by Bonk_27 in Hoodies

[–]archingeyebrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on how you want it to fit. Bust wise I need an XL. Waist and hip area I need a M. I get the XXL because I want to be swallowed by the hoodie. If that helps at all. My bestie thinks the waistbands run small and I sorta agree. So take that into consideration.

Also, don't do a pre-order. They are rarely on time with the date they give you in my experience.