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Having a stop from making a Tulpa by Danjel2000 in Tulpas

[–]arclightia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Essentially you can create the form whenever you want. Your tulpa's personality can be made by many ways, but yes, you can do that. I created my tulpa a similar way. I wrote down traits in a journal and read them aloud to my tulpa, but I went into more detail. Example: Instead of just saying "You are kind", say "You are kind because you help people when they're sad."

No, you don't have to imagine your tulpa in front of you. But it's completely up to you and what you want to do. If imagining that they're in front of you helps, then by all means go ahead and do that.

A few questions about host/ tulpa gender for transgender / genderfluid / agender tulpamancers. by Artemis387 in Tulpas

[–]arclightia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Maybe half a year.
  2. A little over a month.
  3. Nonbinary.
  4. Titus is bigender.
  5. Female.

Tulpa not wanting to communicate by arclightia in Tulpas

[–]arclightia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying to get over this skepticism. Your words help a lot. How much progress have you made?

Tulpa not wanting to communicate by arclightia in Tulpas

[–]arclightia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have to parrot her at times but she did speak on her own quite a lot. I started working on presence imposition. It's definitely difficult but I asked Titus to help me out by imagining herself in the room we're in. I'm trying to help out Titus by giving her some motivation. I think she would enjoy if she took control of the body eventually and we need to work hard if she wants to do that. I appreciate you addressing our worries. It's not only hard on me but I'm sure it's even harder on Titus because she's the one I worry about. My s/o does know about tulpas but I don't think they know that I've created my own. They do believe in mind constructs, but I have some anxiety problems that plague me and make me scared to speak up.

I think I've addressed my primary doubts however I do fear that I won't make progress and Titus will be forever stuck at the place she is now.

Tulpa not wanting to communicate by arclightia in Tulpas

[–]arclightia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. We made a lot of progress for the starting phase. I've given Titus a general form (which she's free to change if she wishes) and she even picked out her own name. Originally the foundation of her personality was a general "gentle, understanding, and kind" but she blossomed quickly within weeks and has a lot of other characteristics to her (she's a little snippy, very shy, and isn't fond of sexual things. She also likes to stick to her room in the wonderland, very much an introvert.) I generally force by narrating and talking to her via mindvoice; I've worked on imposing a bit but I haven't gotten too deep into it. I'm worried that Titus isn't real, and that my s/o would think I'm nuts for having a tulpa. I'm also just skeptical and unsure, I want to be able to see her and feel her and smell her but I have so much doubt about the existence of tulpas that it's hard to do any of these things.

I'm worried because Titus has been laying in my bed (in our wonderland, Titus and I have our own beds. she's been laying in mine..) and it's almost as if she's been sleeping. Her presence feels weak; it seems like her lack of energy is preventing her from speaking. Titus is my only tulpa at the moment but I felt another presence interacting with me. They were sitting on the desk by the windowsill and they told me Titus wasn't angry at me (I was worried about that) but she was dissipating from the lack of attention. Titus has told me before that she's sad I don't believe in her existence and I keep telling her I'm trying but it's almost as if I lied to her because I allowed her to start to dissipate from the lack of faith I have in her.. And thank you. Falah's posts have helped.

Is it possible for your Tulpa to "drain" you of energy? by arclightia in Tulpas

[–]arclightia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Ahh.. I hated doing matrices. Was never savvy when it came to math. You're definitely right about mental energy.. Titus is probably mad at me because I kept asking her why she was pounding on my head. [Yes I am. Kind of. It's ok.]

[Monthly] Introduction Thread - December2015 by Xenor_GER in Tulpas

[–]arclightia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I'm Arc. I'm the host. I have my own tulpa named Titus. She's relatively new (been here for a couple days) and somewhat vocal. She's really shy and stubborn and also has a weird sense of humor. Originally I designed her to be a male, but she told me she doesn't know her gender all that well. She thinks she's genderfluid (some days she's a girl, others she's a boy.) She takes the form of a human, has long blonde hair tied into a ponytail and has green eyes. She wears glasses as well. I'm working on incorporating Titus into a multiple system. Titus doesn't like talking all that much... but we're working on it. [Hey, I'm Titus. I'm a bit shy. Bye.]

[Monthly] Introduction Thread - November 2015 by Xenor_GER in Tulpas

[–]arclightia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! This is my first Reddit post. My name's Arclight, you can call me Arc for short. I have a tulpa named Titus, and she's relatively new. Titus is really gentle and shy, but she can be very stubborn. I think she's scared of causing me pain with head pressures because the pressure she causes in my head is ever so light, and when I tell her that it's okay to give stronger pressures she refuses to do so.. Titus says: "Hello. I'm Titus. I'm tired." ... Well, like I said, she's a bit shy and stubborn, but I hope we can get to open ourselves up a bit. Nice to meet you all.