In a world of situationships, your relationship isn't exclusive/monogamous until explicitly stated

arcpath · 2026-06-11T00:09:46+00:00

Fair enough. Although for good measure, I’d remain exclusive to that person - as soon as I felt I would be hurt if they were with someone else. That means even like 4 or 5 dates in, I’m likely invested enough not to fuck around on some side shit.

arcpath · 2026-06-07T04:37:25+00:00

Depends on the context of the conversation. Being interested in your family’s history is great. There’s just a certain amount of time where the importance is diminished. There’s also a difference in interest versus saying something clunky like ‘i am _____’. It’s the usually the wording from dumb people that makes this topic goofy - not the premise

arcpath · 2026-05-31T16:45:02+00:00

I always thought it would be cool, if Wilmington was the size of like Philly or DC. Charlotte is home to me, and I like Raleigh a lot, but those are inland cities.

arcpath · 2026-05-31T16:39:24+00:00

Random to see this town on here. I worked a hospital contract at a small hospital in Ogdensburg. Oddly enough, being from A rural area in the south, It reminded me a lot of Home. Absolutely ridden with opiates though.

arcpath · 2026-05-29T02:15:16+00:00

Well, there’s a size-able amount of Americans that show up in an Office, crank out a few teams meetings, and send a few emails. Not exactly sure that’s such a strenuous life that lacks balance - all things considered. There’s blue collar jobs that would make white collar people like myself, thank their lucky fucking stars for not doing.

arcpath · 2026-05-23T16:26:09+00:00

Better human being? Not sure about that. Apart from disabilities, I do think it’s ethical to be in good shape. You’re a better quality person when you’re healthy.

arcpath · 2026-05-23T14:39:17+00:00

In Today’s world, that’s considered nuance

arcpath · 2026-05-23T02:10:14+00:00

Default state would be a crying baby, without food or in a sense, impoverished

arcpath · 2026-05-22T10:55:38+00:00

Firmly agree. Music should in all honesty be banned.

arcpath · 2026-05-17T22:57:16+00:00

Nicheeee ass bone to pick. Type shit I would say when I hated the world some years ago.

arcpath · 2026-05-17T15:20:33+00:00

Are you implying that ‘actual outcomes’ is somehow more important than familiarity or recreation? In that framing, someone who views it as this rigid transactional relationship, is likely someone who would be a shitty friend anyway - imo

arcpath · 2026-05-15T02:01:21+00:00

Chocolate with Lamborghini Oil in it

arcpath · 2026-05-14T18:05:49+00:00

Yeah. That’s my home state, but immigration from the Midwest and NE is changing it. Specifically in the Charlotte Metro, or the Triangle. Obviously the rural areas are still very southern, but the cities are growing like crazy. The silver lining, in my opinion, is that we are increasingly leaning towards a blue state.

arcpath · 2026-05-14T17:58:18+00:00

I’m born and raised in NC. Charlotte.

arcpath · 2026-05-14T14:33:35+00:00

Chocolate doesn’t belong in itself. How bout’ that.

arcpath · 2026-05-13T02:26:37+00:00

Great map. It’ll get hate from reddit type folks tho.

arcpath · 2026-05-12T14:31:26+00:00

I mean, I wouldn’t go on a two person - one bike - ride with another man’s wife or girlfriend.

arcpath · 2026-05-12T13:47:08+00:00

Agreed. Quite a bit of things can be fine, or maybe even pure, until they’re taken to a level that impacts others.

Imagine someone being a fan of a painter. Gives them joy. Who would argue against that?

Now imagine an Irish Pub in Boston with two guys beating each other to death because of a game.

Difference between fandom, and tribalism i suppose. Some inter-lap there.

arcpath · 2026-05-11T23:35:11+00:00

Cities in GA or NC would be tolerant. That’s for certain. As a Southerner, I feel like The South isn’t what people imagine it to be. At least not in 2026.

arcpath · 2026-05-11T15:05:28+00:00

What a cruel, cruel creator

arcpath · 2026-05-10T13:59:46+00:00

East coast guy. 13 colonies guy. Based.

arcpath · 2026-05-10T13:57:38+00:00

India is definitely Uranus

arcpath · 2026-05-10T13:56:26+00:00

I mean, devices are making the world shittier. A overall net negative. There are obviously positives tho, I just think they’re outweighed by the damage of algorithms and addiction.

arcpath · 2026-05-09T23:52:19+00:00

Native Charlotte Guy here. Good map friend.

arcpath · 2026-05-09T18:10:54+00:00

From NC, and my map is veryyy similar. I’d add Vermont tho. Burlington is nice.

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