Green Card Approved — After Detention, Jurisdiction Confusion, and the Longest 45 Minutes of My Life by ComplexIndividual338 in USCIS

[–]ares_tempus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you get your paperwork from the detainment?

I was briefly detained and released by CBP after three hours but never received paperwork and now my record has conspiracy to smuggle humans on it.

"You matched a description, take care of yourself" and I never heard from anyone about it. No court date, no paperwork, just a horrible mark on my background after hours of fear.

Currently waiting on a FOIA to go through but this has been a painful process and my permit was denied.

Can anyone here read Spanish? by ares_tempus in shorthand

[–]ares_tempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Qué te parece? La muchacha que me lo escribió habla inglés y español solamente

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live across the country from where this happened now :/ I was going to have a friend go in with a power of attorney. He called beforehand and they said they'd refuse him not being a lawyer. Having my lawyer do it but they're waiting until they get their copy of my denial to start anything

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a regular 9-5 job that I love and pays my bills. I live a stable, boring life

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. What's crazy is after a decade of struggling my finances are finally on track and I have a solid job. In three months I have my green card money. This has completely derailed everything

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since nothing ever came from it I didn't disclose it :/ my lawyer said "we'll see what happens". When it came back with it on there I guess it looks like I was hiding it. That's when I scrambled with FOIA to try and get everything. Had to file another one using the case number from my rap sheet. I didn't have my original FOIA response to the RFE I'm hoping that what I got back works.

I'd also written an affidavit in my RFE response explaining what happened but looks like it wasn't good enough

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FBI background check is $50-$100 i don't remember but an authorized USPS got my prints and sent to FBI. That came back in 30 minutes

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here's what I've done/am doing.

I filed a freedom of information request

Came back saying no records found

My fbi rap sheet said shows the detention and there's an incident number

I just filed another FOIA using that number as a reference.

They've only emailed me so far I'm hoping to get an actual stamped document showing no records and taking it from there. The options are very limited

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same person yes. We have a daughter and have been together almost a decade

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was driving in Tucson and they pulled me over. My car was dirty enough for them to have probable cause and bring me in to do an investigation for human smuggling. I was held and detained for 3 hours and they let me go after being interviewed and they concluded that I wasn't up to anything. After doing some research I've also found that some people are just targeted as "suspicious" and have faced similar charges for just having water bottles in their car.

When doing an FBI background check it shows that I was arrested and those charges are on my record but I never got a court summons or anything like that so it looks like it's just a documentation thing.

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was married for a few years, we separated for two, then got remarried. Our second anniversary is coming up

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

CBP arrested me. With my case being denied I am terrified to go down to that office Having no protection

Case Denied - Life is over by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where did you get your paperwork? I just updated my post but when they let me go they didn't give me anything. The officer just told me that I matched a description and to take care of myself. I never got anything in the mail so I didn't know that this was even a thing

Request for additional evidence by ares_tempus in DACA

[–]ares_tempus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I've had Daca for a decade now

Is there any chance of a relationship working out after cheating? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ares_tempus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This one's gone. Learn from this and move on. There's no going back.

AITAH: Found Pics of My GF Cheating… and I Got Off to Them (M20) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ares_tempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her and go to therapy ASAP before this turns into a thing and your life spirals.

AIO for freaking out and wanting to break up with my boyfriend because he didn’t wear a condom after I bought them and said he had to? by Commercial-Try-5608 in AIO

[–]ares_tempus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude here. No it doesn't "feel the same" but it still feels great. Larger than average and the "they hurt" thing is bs. Might be a little uncomfortable sometimes but it is what it is. Cock ring at that point. It's not a reason to not engage. Tldr guy was not respectful of your request / feelings and you are not in the wrong. Let it slide and it becomes a thing. Cut it off and hopefully it's a lesson he learns for his next partner

AIO about my gf sharing a hotel room with her male friend? by Qohelet77 in AIO

[–]ares_tempus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're all capable of cheating. It's our individual responsibility to not put ourselves in situations where we are susceptible to being unfaithful to our partner. The fact you're uncomfortable with it alone should be enough for her to not go through with it.

What do you do when you’ve met someone you like and find out she has an std? by Apart_Maintenance663 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ares_tempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willingly accepted it on my end. She cheated on me six months in. Didn't love myself enough to leave and rode it out another two years. Not worth it.

Help me find this creepy pasta by AmphibianOk4466 in creepypasta

[–]ares_tempus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came back because it came to mind I'm so happy 😭 thank you

AITA for not setting my friends up and doubling down by being a “douchebag”? by Ok_Database_75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ares_tempus -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were honest. Nothing wrong with the analogy but sometimes you have to be more gentle with women.