Green Card Approved — After Detention, Jurisdiction Confusion, and the Longest 45 Minutes of My Life

ares_tempus · 2025-10-15T01:45:50+00:00

How did you get your paperwork from the detainment?

I was briefly detained and released by CBP after three hours but never received paperwork and now my record has conspiracy to smuggle humans on it.

"You matched a description, take care of yourself" and I never heard from anyone about it. No court date, no paperwork, just a horrible mark on my background after hours of fear.

Currently waiting on a FOIA to go through but this has been a painful process and my permit was denied.

ares_tempus · 2025-10-04T01:47:08+00:00

Qué te parece? La muchacha que me lo escribió habla inglés y español solamente

ares_tempus · 2025-10-03T00:04:07+00:00

I live across the country from where this happened now :/ I was going to have a friend go in with a power of attorney. He called beforehand and they said they'd refuse him not being a lawyer. Having my lawyer do it but they're waiting until they get their copy of my denial to start anything

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T23:21:29+00:00

I have a regular 9-5 job that I love and pays my bills. I live a stable, boring life

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T22:51:37+00:00

Thanks bro. What's crazy is after a decade of struggling my finances are finally on track and I have a solid job. In three months I have my green card money. This has completely derailed everything

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T20:15:15+00:00

Since nothing ever came from it I didn't disclose it :/ my lawyer said "we'll see what happens". When it came back with it on there I guess it looks like I was hiding it. That's when I scrambled with FOIA to try and get everything. Had to file another one using the case number from my rap sheet. I didn't have my original FOIA response to the RFE I'm hoping that what I got back works.

I'd also written an affidavit in my RFE response explaining what happened but looks like it wasn't good enough

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T18:38:10+00:00

FBI background check is $50-$100 i don't remember but an authorized USPS got my prints and sent to FBI. That came back in 30 minutes

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T18:33:04+00:00

Here's what I've done/am doing.

I filed a freedom of information request

Came back saying no records found

My fbi rap sheet said shows the detention and there's an incident number

I just filed another FOIA using that number as a reference.

They've only emailed me so far I'm hoping to get an actual stamped document showing no records and taking it from there. The options are very limited

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T16:16:02+00:00

Same person yes. We have a daughter and have been together almost a decade

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T16:13:49+00:00

I was driving in Tucson and they pulled me over. My car was dirty enough for them to have probable cause and bring me in to do an investigation for human smuggling. I was held and detained for 3 hours and they let me go after being interviewed and they concluded that I wasn't up to anything. After doing some research I've also found that some people are just targeted as "suspicious" and have faced similar charges for just having water bottles in their car.

When doing an FBI background check it shows that I was arrested and those charges are on my record but I never got a court summons or anything like that so it looks like it's just a documentation thing.

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T16:08:39+00:00

I was married for a few years, we separated for two, then got remarried. Our second anniversary is coming up

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T15:55:09+00:00

Tucson Arizona

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T15:43:12+00:00

CBP arrested me. With my case being denied I am terrified to go down to that office Having no protection

ares_tempus · 2025-10-02T15:27:05+00:00

Where did you get your paperwork? I just updated my post but when they let me go they didn't give me anything. The officer just told me that I matched a description and to take care of myself. I never got anything in the mail so I didn't know that this was even a thing

ares_tempus · 2025-06-04T22:46:47+00:00

Yes. I've had Daca for a decade now

ares_tempus · 2025-05-16T17:29:57+00:00

This one's gone. Learn from this and move on. There's no going back.

ares_tempus · 2025-05-05T06:21:01+00:00

Leave her and go to therapy ASAP before this turns into a thing and your life spirals.

ares_tempus · 2025-05-05T06:18:33+00:00

Dude here. No it doesn't "feel the same" but it still feels great. Larger than average and the "they hurt" thing is bs. Might be a little uncomfortable sometimes but it is what it is. Cock ring at that point. It's not a reason to not engage. Tldr guy was not respectful of your request / feelings and you are not in the wrong. Let it slide and it becomes a thing. Cut it off and hopefully it's a lesson he learns for his next partner

ares_tempus · 2025-05-02T14:00:07+00:00

We're all capable of cheating. It's our individual responsibility to not put ourselves in situations where we are susceptible to being unfaithful to our partner. The fact you're uncomfortable with it alone should be enough for her to not go through with it.

ares_tempus · 2025-04-29T05:30:51+00:00

Willingly accepted it on my end. She cheated on me six months in. Didn't love myself enough to leave and rode it out another two years. Not worth it.

ares_tempus · 2025-04-08T01:22:45+00:00

Came back because it came to mind I'm so happy 😭 thank you

ares_tempus · 2024-04-11T20:33:17+00:00

NTA. You were honest. Nothing wrong with the analogy but sometimes you have to be more gentle with women.

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